Turning your life around? Coming out of a funk? Getting over a breakup? Need to reignite your spark for life? Need to feel in control? Want a boost of confidence? Dealing with low self esteem?
Where to start:
Exercise every day
Skincare + makeup of personal preference (yes this includes not wearing makeup at all if that is your personal preference)
Hair done
Showered and moisturized
At least one hobby you engage with on a daily/frequent basis
At least one skill you are developing on a daily/frequent basis
If you havenβt gotten a 7 day workout streak and completed the other bullet points on this list yet, stop moaning, get to work, and kill your distractions.
This is level 0.
I suck at making moots
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UMMMM did i just catch you making decisions based on a MAN?? i better not have. stand up girl, thats not it.
a girl whoβs going to do big things cannot let small things get to her
babe, you can do this.
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I wish we could turn off specific notifications on tumblr like we can on instagram.
like I don't wanna know who liked my post I do wanna know who messaged me
~ Spoil yourself with the most precious and beautiful things. It doesn't have to be expensive. Simply things that make your heart flutter with peace and joy...~
those who stick with you, are meant for you. the only person you need validation from is you. donβt change for others. doing so will only distance yourself from your true, authentic self. listen to music you like, no matter how sporadic the genres are! wear the clothes you find cute, different and cool even if itβs not βtrendingβ. trends die but you and your amazing taste is forever!! change for YOU. do what makes YOU happy. <3
learn how to say no. learn how to say yes. change is uncomfortable but so is growth. how do you expect to be successful and get farther into your journey if you donβt say yes to amazing opportunities because fear stops you? how do you expect to be strong and unapologetically yourself if you donβt say no to the people who keep stepping all over you? maintain a balance. set boundariesβ with others and yourself. if i can do it, so can you. you deserve to set yourself free.
discipline is the key. stop waiting for *countless* motivation. slumps happen. itβs normal. feel your emotions but you know what? you will always get back up on your feet. no matter how long it takes. youβll get there. this goes for everything. people, old habits, etc. donβt let your negative thoughts ruin you when you come across a slump. feel them but donβt give them power.
motivation can only take you so far. itβs pleating. one slump after another, i soon realized that motivation is often the result of action, not the cause of it. you simply just have to start and not rely on anything but you and the discipline you enforce to achieve your goals. you see one amazing manifestation success story? great. now stop looking for even more validation. you know itβs possible. so go and apply the law, angel. THAT is the discipline Iβm talking about.
it doesnβt matter how βsmallβ the step is, you are still moving! find yourself struggling with intrusive thoughts and old limiting beliefs? discipline! tell yourself itβs okay it happens then move on knowing you have all the power.
you are capable of living your dream life. you know whatβs stopping you though? you. only you. your fear of change because it seems uncomfortable, your refusal to see how much power you hold over your life, the guilt from telling yourself that you donβt deserve it. open and allow yourself to see that everything youβve ever wanted is NOT impossible. you can do this. if others can have it, why not you? what you desire is meant for you. itβs out there.
treat yourself with care. do it out of love for you. manifest that dream lifestyle, your dream career, dream house, dream appearance because you deserve it! cut those toxic people off so youβre no longer surrounded by their energies and mindsets. take yourself out on a solo date, get a nice meal, take yourself out shopping because you deserve to have time for yourself. read a new book, go on adventures, try new things because you deserve to live your life to itβs FULLEST! do EVERYTHING for YOU. you have gone through every battle, success, cry, celebration and all of the above since the very beginning with yourself so why not do things for you? give yourself more credit. remember: your choices, your dreams, your life.
love you. have the best year. im always here for you. x.