There’s No Such Thing As Work-life Balance For Neurodivergent & Chronically Ill People.

There’s no such thing as work-life balance for neurodivergent & chronically ill people.

This is because everything in my life requires work:

maintaining friendships

keeping up with my hygiene

managing bills

making money

remembering my basic needs

sleeping regularly

outputting creatively

All requires some aspect of work for me.

And when everything in your life requires work, your balance goes out the window.

If you're neurodivergent and overwhelmed — I see you.

If you're chronically ill and overwhelmed — I see you.

You're not dysfunctional.

You're not incapable.

You're doing your best.

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1 month ago

Are you also being vigilant about propaganda made by people who agree with you?

1 month ago

Something that’s really sad to me is that there is basically no online Roma community anymore

Bbc used to have a message board for Romany teens, and they still do, but no one has used it since 2005, and those teens that were on it will be adults now, and plenty with their own kids now

Rumblr used to be an active, thriving space, but most people left, and now there’s only a few of us

The Romani Reddit imploded on itself and now there isn’t one

The only things I can thing of are the tik tok communities, which aren’t close knit and are super toxic from what I’ve seen and heard, and the discord, which it’s hard to track down a link for

1 month ago

Hello,

I hope you’re all doing well. 🌿

I need your help to share my family's story and raise awareness about our struggle. Every voice counts, and your support means the world. 🙏

💬 Please reblog my pinned post or, if you're able, consider donating just $5—it could be life-changing for those facing unimaginable hardship.

Your kindness and solidarity make a real difference. Thank you from the bottom of my heart! 🤍✨

@aboodfmly

hello Abdelmajed, I've copied ur link and added it to my linktree for all my socials - even if i cant donate right now ik someone out there can; i hope this is enough. please stay safe friend.


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1 month ago

Hey! 😊

I hope you're doing well.

II’m reaching out with something really close to my heart. A dear friend and his family are going through an incredibly hard time.

They urgently need support, and even the smallest act of kindness — a share or donation — could make a life changing difference.

This is about compassion, about standing by each other when it matters most. 💛

Thank you so much for taking a moment to care 🙏

@adamallii87

hey friend, i've added Mohammed's link to my carrd linked to all my socials, i cant donate right now but i know someone out there can.


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1 month ago

University really is about looking at the worst pdf known to man huh

1 month ago

another name for the freezer 🤩

Tell Me Again. Which Side Doesn't Value The Constitution?

Tell me again. Which side doesn't value the constitution?

1 month ago
Comic with simple digital drawings.
Text: Sometimes I wonder if growing up for people is like this:
Panel 1: Kid pointing at a row of brightly coloured shapes.
Panel 2: The kid smiling with two of the shapes stuck to their body.
Text: But for me it was more like this:
Panel 3: Kid in a dark box with spikes inside.
Panel 4: The kid growing and ending up with indents in them the shape of the spikes.
Panel 5: The box unfolds and opens on the ground. Pim stands up and looks down at their body with spiked indents.
Text: Maybe missing out is a little lonely.
Pim standing in a line-up of people where on either side everyone else has different colourful shapes on them.
Panel 1-2: Pim looking down and noticing something.
Text: But that's okay.
Panel 3: Pim smiling and crouching to pick up a colourful shape on the ground. Other people milling around covered in shapes and picking up new ones. They also have some differently shaped indents.
Text: There's still time.
Watermark: @yeehawpim

I can be shaped by more than the things that hurt me

1 month ago

need to be moots with anon cuz holy shit u hit the nail on the head stranger

The problem is, the people in the fandoms who do readings don’t actually partake in spirituality. They consume these readings and do these readings to either feel like they’re closer to their fav, know more about their fav than anyone, or they think they have a spiritual soulmate connection to one of them. If they actually did tarot they would know that tarot is mutable. It’s not definite, it is meant to give you insight and clarity on what you already know about yourself and connect to your intuition. Doing tarot readings on celebrities are good practice to get used to reading and moving with energies but that doesn’t mean they’re always going to be true. I can do a reading right now and say that tomorrow I’ll meet the love of my life, I won’t take it to heart because while it is possible I do know that the universe changes as swiftly as someone changing their mind. Have you ever wanted to eat a sandwich but saw a bowl of ramen and then wanted the ramen instead? That’s how swift the energies can change and they are heavily heavily dependent on the people themselves and so many other variables. While tarot is an extremely helpful tool, using it without the basic knowledge of spirituality can be a recipe for disaster or spiritual psychosis which is why some of them on the tarot side are a bit hardcore.

I made my blog with the purpose of teaching the spiritual side of things to mitigate it but they say I’m crazy which- why are you interacting with and consuming tarot content if you don’t even believe in spirituality 🤨 anyways have a good day 🤍

that’s kind of what i assumed, but thank you for explaining in more detail! i guess being a hardcore fan of something or someone can make people do all sorts of things to try and feel more connected to them. but as we’ve seen, sometimes it gets real weird and over the top.

1 month ago

People love characters with low / no empathy or are apathetic about everything until they actually meet someone like that. Suddenly the person in question is horrible and abusive.

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hermestoldmeurgay - dont look at me like that
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my rants to My Lord that i dont have anyone else to talk to about. rhet. comp. and literary studies grad, TA for creative writing and history

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