#𝟏𝟎𝟎𝐃𝐀𝐘𝐒𝐑𝐄𝐈𝐍𝐕𝐄𝐍𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍

This is how we are NOT going to wait until the new year (or a new whatever) to be the best version of ourselves, we are going to change now.

When you want to change, change. Don't wait for anything.

There are about 100 days until the new year. That is 3 months. You can get so much done within that timeframe.

But with the "new year" aside, please know that there is absolutely no rush to improve. It can be July and you can still decide to "reinvent" yourself. This is just a fun thing to do and keep track of.

Not a "challenge" but a way to stay accountable for your goals for a better you.

୨୧ Here is how we are going to absolutely kill it!

1. Pick a number of goals (3-4, both small and large) for every aspect of your life.

Physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, professional, personal.

Physical: 10k steps a day, working on being sober, moving your body around more, getting into bed earlier, reducing screen time, cooking healthier meals, brushing your hair, wearing the nice clothes you're saving for a "special occasion", trying out new looks and clothes, venturing out new styles, upgrading your basic hygiene routine, celibacy, drink more water

Mental: writing down your thoughts, keeping track of your emotions both negative and positive and what triggers them. Get rid of the negative triggers and bring in more of the positive triggers.

Emotional: getting in touch with a therapist, dedicating a journal to release you emotions instead of bottling them in, talking to friends, anger management

Professional: working 1 hour or more of deep work to improve your skills, networking events

Personal: find your old hobbies, discover new ones, pleaseee get a hobby. seriously! trying out new restaurants and cafes, complimenting people and be open to making new friends.

Spiritual: meditation, prayers to yourself or religion you are a part of, nature/solitude walks. These are super important, it brings you peace of mind and a time to really be with yourself and be at peace after your jam packed days

Finance: learn how to budget, no impulse spending, learn how to invest, find a way to increase your income

Important habits to have: waking up and going to bed early, planning your next day, having a set routine and freedom to change it to fit your priorities

Important skills to build: time management and how to focus better

These are just some ideas and I know looking at this list can be overwhelming so you need to remember and understand that you are not going to be doing every single one of these every single day. You are going to pick a few from each category (and seriously, if you think about it, I discuss this in the next section about time blocking, it really does not take a lot of time. Trust me.) and include them into your daily routine.

2. Setting up reasonable time blocks for these goals. Revamp your schedule to fit your goals around your life.

Getting up early is how you get more done in a day. Yes, you can reach your goals even with a full time job.

I work almost 12 hour shifts every week day while taking care of kids, my dog, basically running a household and I still get so much done.

So you've picked your goals. Great. Now take a look at your schedule and figure out what things are taking up most of your time. Is it a long commute? Spending too much time scrolling on your phone? Waking up late? Going to bed late?

Example of time blocking/a schedule:

☆ Mornings:

4am-5am: exercise, pray/meditate

5am-7am: study

8am-4pm: get ready for the day and go to work.

during your work break, you can read a book, get steps in, meditate, have a nice meal.

☆ Evenings:

4pm-5pm: get back from work, eat, catch up with family or have alone time

5pm-7pm: review any notes, clean, meal prep, attend a class you may have, do laundry

7pm-9pm: plan the next day if you have appointment or deadlines, shower, go to bed

Assess how you spend your time and utilize it. Instead of scrolling on your phone during your free time, spend time with your loved ones (pets, kids, partner), instead of staying in one place while you're on a call, walk around to get steps in, there is always a way to implement your goals into your daily life.

Notice how I say fit your goals around your life. You don't want to be taking away important things like errands, jobs, school, being a parent just meet your goals- no. Use your time wisely. That's all. You can fit them.

On the larger goals like taking up a class/large skill, like dancing and painting. On fridays, you'll have dance class and on other days that you have free, you'll be painting a piece or reading your anticipated book, learning a language, trying out a new recipe, planning the next day, taking a spontaneous art class, etc!

Weekends.

Because I work a lot, I like to use weekends to really do deep work. Intensive study sessions. And because I deep work (work with no distractions) I don't need to study all day. I'm getting so much done in little time that I'll be done by the afternoon and I can go out and do errands, get all dressed up and have a nice day out in the city, or just have a relaxing day by doing chores, watching a nice movie and more!

3. Setting up a system so you can actually stick to those goals.

Keep a journal to keep track of what you did today. If you didn't reach a goal that day (and that's okay), ask yourself why? and how does it make you feel? Then take action on what you can do to reach it tomorrow.

Switching. We all know it’s best to not push yourself so hard. For example, don’t do intense exercise everyday. Walking and dancing throughout the day counts as exercise too, so by switching (depending on YOUR goals), you’ll have time for your other goals as well. Here is an example: on a rest day of no exercising, maybe that day is the night I have a ballet class. That is exercise as well. So instead of exercising in the very early hours of my day, I can use that time instead to do more studying OR have more time doing something else.

which means I can do one do the following: spend more time with my pet, read a few pages of my book, make a new recipe, etc.

Ex. 4am-5am - on a no-exercise day, i can study during that time instead. 6am-7am - more time to tackle my other goals.

Create a foundation. If you have an amazing day, felt very productive and accomplished, what's a habit that really helped? For me, it's always getting up early. If I wake up late because I slept late or my alarm didn't go off, my day is thrown off by a landslide. So if you had an off day, figure out why and maybe your foundation can help.

★ That’s all!

If you have questions or need an example to jump off from, click below to read more on how I personally did my reset and how I am still able to get much more done with a full time job.

Stay safe, prospering, and amazing!

Share your accountability posts with the tag #100DaysWithDDD or we can chat through my inbox if you need extra tips, questions or want to share how you're doing/did.

I will be logging my days too, you can find my goals here.

Welcome, welcome!

Here is an example of what I did when I did my reset and still doing now with working.

I chose my goals. I was studying deeply, spending more time with my dog who I felt bad would be bored during my study hours, be more active, get through my books.

How did I start? First of all I got up earlier and went to bed earlier. I noticed that I focus better in the mornings so I would stretch, workout and started studying. Next, I would get ready (nice clothes, my face is clear, hair is brushed), take my dog out, play with him, etc and head to work. See? I already tackled so many of my goals there! Physical, personal, and professional.

Want to get more books in, want to meditate, want to journal? Listen to an audiobook or podcast while you drive, commute, or have a lunch break at school or work. Or don't. Sit in silence and let your mind wander, let those unconscious ideas come up! That's also a form of meditation and having more creative skills.

During my study breaks, I would stretch, walk my dog. Another break, I catch up with the kids, do any short tasks like laundry, mini tidying up. Any break, at all I would do micro-task.

I stopped doing useless things like spending so much time on my phone for what? If I was truly bored, I had done all my tasks but I didn't feel like getting up or doing anything, I would go on my phone... to clean out apps and my camera roll (which has A LOT of things on it I still need to get through). That's the only time I would go on my phone really. The lack of storage on my phone makes it lag- I'm heavily scolding my past hoarder self for keeping so many photos on there

If you work a desk job, get up for phone calls, take laps when there is nothing to do, just get your body moving! Stretch! There is always something to do, you just have to know how and what.

FOR ANY WRITERS OR THOSE WHO LIKE GOTHIC LITERATURE

I found this. It's basically a huge list of how to write in a gothic horror-like style. It gives you words to use, and what types of adjectives to put down, and it explains them rather than just giving you a list too. I hope someone beyond myself finds this useful because holy shit am I going to use this tool

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hightowerprincess

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Rainy day in Kyoto

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hightowerprincess

2 weeks ago

Les Dites Cariatides (1984) Dir. Agnès Varda, Poem By Charles Baudelaire

Les dites cariatides (1984) dir. Agnès Varda, poem by Charles Baudelaire

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hightowerprincess

1 week ago

santa baby.

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Angelic Placements & Sensitive placements in the birth chart 🤍♾️

Fly with me

Like a rainbow butterfly

Kiss me and I will sing

The angels lullaby

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🤍 Cancer Moon/Moon in the 4th house/Moon at Cancer Degrees(4°,16°,28°): These people are having a very sweet, calm, and peaceful energy to be around, they can love you and get attached to you very fast and they want to make everyone happy 🤍 such nice souls

🤍 Cancer Venus/Venus in the 4th house/Venus at Cancer Degrees (4°,16°,28°). These people love in a very deep way, in relationships they can be give the "mommy energy" due to their mother issues these people like to take care of their partners and friends very much they are very needy and they can get attached 🫂 please don't hurt such souls they just want to make you happy

🤍 Libra Moon/Moon in the 7th house/Moon at Libra Degrees (7°,19°): These people are in love with love + love. Especially Libra Moons want feel love at a very deep level and a very deep soul bounding. These Natives can crave for love and for attention a lot, they can become needy and be careful because obsession is close to these natives. They tend to focus on love and relationships so much that they can lost themselves to love you 🫂🤍 if you don't realise how special are these people, i don't think you experienced a deep love.

🤍Venus in Libra/Venus in the 7th house/Venus at Libra Degrees: (7°,19°): These natives tend to focus on their lovers and crushes soooo much, these people can get crazy in love and even to be the definition of "Addicted to you". If Venus is Retrogade you need to focus on love yourself too, because you tend to give others too much love and not that much to you 🫂🤍. Make sure to give you the same amount of love you give others

🤍Moon in Pisces/Moon at Pisces Degrees, (12°,24°) /Moon in the 12th house these people connect to your soul and they are able to love you til moon and back. They can feel very overwhelmed and anxious most times and they need a lot of hugs and affection from you because they are very cute and lovely souls 🫂🤍🤍

🤍 Pisces Venus/Venus in the 12th house/Venus at Pisces Degrees (12°,24°). These people are very artistic and charismatic, they have a really big heart and a very very kind soul, they can love very deeply and the same as Libra Placements they can become addicted to you (12th house is the house of addictions too🫶🏻🫂). They need another kind soul beside them who they can share a lot of good memories and experiences

🤍 Scorpio Venus/Venus in the 8th house/Venus at Scorpio Degrees (8°,20°) . Most people with Venus in these, have not the best luck in love relationships, they can find people they love but at the end they are getting hurt..Is hard for them to love because they can have jealousy and posesive issues but what people don't know is that their love is very intense and very deep and most times all they wanted was someone to love them how they are, they can blame themselves for hurting others but these natives never think that they also hurt themselves ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

🤍 Scorpio Moon/Moon in the 8th house/ Moon at Scorpio Degrees (8°,20°) these natives have a very strong intuition and feelings towards everything in their lives, is hard for them to feel love sometimes because they tend to have a cold heart, i imagine these natives as the good angels who once believed in true love but they have been hurt and their love transformed in a cold feeling. They are very lovely people once you know them and their heart ❤️‍🩹

🤍 Heavy Water Placements/ Water Stelliums or (Sun/Moon) in water houses (4th,8th,12th) can make someone very sensitive 💞🫂

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If you have the following aspects you literally have a very angelic and enchanting energy, a full vibe of love and calm, a very peaceful soul to be around:

- Neptune in the 1st/7th/8th/10th/12th houses (Very very very enchanting personalities and auras)

- Neptune - Ascendant aspects/Ascendant at Neptune Degrees (12°,24°), these people are very kind souls and very peaceful, they can also be very sensbile to every energy they are around 🫂🤍

- Neptune - Moon aspects, these people are very sensitive, they always been like that and they always had an very angelic aura around them, the White aura might be their best choice. They are simply some very sensbile souls touched by angels wings. 🤍🤍🤍🤍 They definitely have Mermaid vibes 🧜‍♀️

- Moon in the 1st/4th/8th/11th/12th houses

- Moon aspecting the ascendant

- Moon Dominant/Moon Prominent in the birth chart

- Neptune Dominant/Neptune Prominent in the birth chart

- Venus aspecting the ascendant

- Neptune in the 11th house is a very friendly and lovely placement 🥺🫂

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Cause I don't wanna lose you now

I'm lookin' right at the other half of me

The vacancy that sat in my heart

Is a space that now you hold

Show me how to fight for now

And I'll tell you, baby, it was easy

Comin' back here to you once I figured it out

You were right here all along

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🤍 If you have the next aspects, these aspects can mean you can be very sensibile soul/kind of person 🤍🥺

- 🤍Chiron - Moon harsh aspects

- 🤍Chiron - Ascendant harsh Aspects

- 🤍Venus - Neptune aspects (Both harsh and positive aspects applying)

- 🤍Moon - Saturn harsh aspects

- 🤍Pluto - Moon aspects (Both harsh and positive aspects applying)

- 🤍Saturn - Ascendant harsh aspects

- 🤍 Chiron in the 1st/4th/8th/12th houses

- 🤍Pluto in the 4th house/Saturn in the 4th house

- 🤍Venus - Moon aspects (Both harsh and positive aspects applying)

- 🤍 Ascendant - Moon aspects (Both harsh and positive aspects applying)

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🤍4th, 8th and 12th house heavy placements/stelliums can get very sensitive and very fast, due to their traumas or their moody personality these people deserve a big hug (⁠⊃⁠｡⁠•́⁠‿⁠•̀⁠｡⁠)⁠⊃

🤍 Saturn in Cancer people can struggle with their feelings and is hard for them to let things go, is hard for them to get over something who was very important for them. They can heal their wounds but with the time. That's why they can get very sensitive to the energies around them, although Saturn doesn't really feel the best in Cancer is helping them to learn that is okay to release your emotions and is okay to be sensitive 🤍🥺

Saturn in the 8th house people might feel very detached sometimes of their feelings and they can be extremely moody because they had to deal with a lot of things in their lives, they can get sensbile very much because most of these people can have a very hurt inner child 🫂🥺🤍 they are really great and awesome people if you get to know them deep and better ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

Pluto in the 4th house might have family issues and maybe family trauma and they can get very sensitive about family related topics, they have a really big heart and a very warm energy and these souls can get very emotive which can be something ancestral, their families can also be very sensitive and very warm and lovely people,especially their mother 🥺❤️‍🩹🫂

Juno in Water Signs or at water degrees (12°,24°) being very romantic, looking for emotionally compatibile partners, having a very beautiful sense of art and music, their spouse and partners might have a very romantic, sexual, sensual, attractivenes energy. Also their partners can be very attached to these people and together they can make an emotional bound [Asteroid Code: 3]

Water and Earth Risings, because these elements repsent the feminine energy. It can feel that natives with Earth or Water Rising signs can be more softer and sensibile than other people, they can feel the emotions intense

Having Taurus/Libra IC (4th house) having Venus rulling your 4th house can mean you always give all your love no matter in friendships/relationship whatever you have, you always gave your love, sometimes unconditional to people, it can be hard sometimes because you're not always receiving the same amount of love back, and that hurts because you can't always feel the same person you love loves you back ❤️‍🩹 big hug for you Venus IC people

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Want to be alive with me

Like a rainbow butterfly

Believe and you will see

All the colors in the sky

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~♡Harmoonix♡

This was one of the most longest posts i did hope you will like it 🤍 i have some aspects from this list so i can assure you everything i write it true based on feelings 🤍. Applying to all categories (sidereal, vedic. tropical)

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what I call self-love ♡

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5 months ago

Become Your Dream Girl in 2025

Defining your dream girl persona

The first step into becoming your dream girl is to have a clear picture of her in your mind. Imagine her life in detail; her aesthetic, her habits, and even her energy. This is the time to get specific.

Visualization Exercise: Sit in a quiet space, close your eyes, and visualize your dream girl persona. How does she dress? What places does she visit? What are her priorities and goals? Let yourself feel her confidence, luxury, and elegance.

Create a Vision Board: Gather photos, quotes, fabrics, and colors that represent this version of you. A physical board can go in your room or closet. It can even be a mini collage you can put on your driver's side mirror in your car. The goal is to see your dream girl's life as real and achievable.

Setting New Year Goals

Your dream girl's life needs structure, so let's break down goals into categories and map out the steps to make it happen.

Categorize Your Goals: List your goals under personal growth, style & beauty, health & wellness, and career & financial. For example, under "Health & Wellness", you might set a goal to try Pilates or to cook more at home.

Monthly Check-Ins: As you go through the year, check in with your goals to celebrate your wins, and adjust as needed. This keeps your transformation on track.

Mindset Makeover

Confidence & Self-Worth

Your dream girl is confident, magnetic, and knows her worth. Let's build those habits and thoughts that help you embody that energy daily.

Positive Affirmations: Every time you look in the mirror, say things like "I am worth everything good that can happen to me" or any affirmation that you feel suits you best.

Confidence Rituals: Small, daily actions add up to huge shifts in confidence. Make it a habit to dress up on casual days, speak kindly to yourself, and embrace good posture.

Let Go of Insecurities: Identify any insecurities and practice reframing them. Instead of "I wish I was more confident", say "I am becoming more confident every day". Over time, you'll notice how these subtle shifts impact your self-worth.

Mindset for Success

Your dream girl is resilient and always growing, so let's make success part of your mindset.

Growth Mindset: View challenges as chances to learn, whether it's a career move, a new hobby, or even a social situation.

Visualizing Success: Each morning, spend a few minutes visualizing yourself living your dream life. This will keep you focused and motivated.

Morning & Evening Routines: Start each day with intention by setting small goals and expressing gratitude. At night, reflect on the day and celebrate your wins; even the small ones.

Social Life & Relationships

Social confidence comes from feeling at ease in your own skin.

Elegant Etiquette: Show appreciation with thank you notes, and make an effort to remember names. The vibe for 2025 is to go for traditional, rather than modern. Think classic early 1920's-1950's Hollywood.

Curate Your Circle: Surround yourself with supportive, inspiring friends who uplift you. Leave the ones who don't elevate themselves or try to keep you behind.

Networking Lifestyle: Turn social gatherings into chances to meet like-minded people and to elevate your circle.

(Dating) Standards First: Don't settle; know what you deserve in a partner and communicate it confidently.

(Dating) Playful Energy: Be confident, flirty, and assertive (with yourself, not them). Stay in your feminine energy and let them earn your time and attention.

(Dating) Relationship Goals: Keep dates special and playful. Dress up, go out, and enjoy yourself.

Finances & Career Goals

Your dream girl values luxury, but also financial security. Your career is part of your dream girl identity, so elevate it.

Budgeting: Set aside money for luxuries and self-investment, but keep savings in mind.

Multiple Income Streams: Consider side hustles that align with your lifestyle.

Savings Goals: Whether it's for a designer bag, a trip, or just building wealth, make sure your goals are concrete.

Luxury Workspace: Make your workspace a vibe with candles, flowers, and chic decor.

Network for Success: Connect with mentors and people who inspire you.

Grow with Intention: Set milestones in your career or business, and keep pushing for the next level.

Health & Wellness

Your body is the vessel of your dream girl, so let's treat it with love and care. Mental clarity and peace are essential for dream girl energy; so let's focus on overall wellness this year.

Exercise: Try Pilates or Barre classes for a toned, elegant look. If that's not your thing, find workouts that create your dream body.

Healthy Eating: Focus on whole foods, lots of veggies, and drink tons of water.

Weekly Reset: Plan a mini detox day where you relax, hydrate, and reset for the week.

Mindfulness Practice: Try a short meditation or breathing exercise every morning.

Stress Relief: Whether it's a quick walk, journaling, or a creative outlet, find a stress relief that's all you.

Boundaries: Say no when needed, and make sure your energy is protected.

Beauty & Style Upgrade

First, a dream girl has that glow, and it all starts with a skincare routine that feels luxurious. You also need to find a style that captures your dream girl vibe, and commit to curating it. Then, you need to develop habits that will help you better your appearance.

Simple Skincare Routine (For Starters): Start with a cleanser for your skin type, followed by a hydrating toner, a serum (like Vitamin C for brightness), moisturizer, and SPF.

Luxury Treatments: Invest in facials or try gentle at-home treatments like dermaplaning once a month for an extra glow.

Nightly Routine: Keep your skin hydrated at night with a heavier moisturizer or an overnight mask.

Personal Style Icons: Think of someone like Serena van der Woodsen from Gossip Girl or a high-fashion model off-duty.

Curating Your Wardrobe: Focus on high-quality staples in neutral tones, like blazers, silky blouses, and tailored bottoms. Invest in timeless pieces that make you feel like a billion dollars.

Signature Look: A dream girl has her thing, whether it's an accessory, a makeup look, or a scent. Find what makes you feel like you and stick with it.

Self-Care Rituals: Prioritize manicures and pedicures, hair masks, and bubble baths. Set aside time every week to pamper yourself.

Polished Look: Even on your most casual days, aim to look put together.

Signature Hair & Makeup: Pick a go-to glam look that embodies your dream girl; maybe that's glossy lips and loose waves (for example).

Lifestyle & Daily Habits

Your routine should feel luxurious yet practical, setting the tone for each day. Small daily habits can transform how you feel and present yourself.

Weekly Pamper Sessions: Set aside Sunday evenings for facials, skincare, and champagne baths! (Be careful and make sure you're of legal drinking age)

Journaling and Reflection: Each morning, write down 3 things you're grateful for and 3 intentions for the day.

Goal Reviews: Every Sunday, celebrate your wins and see if any goals need a refresh.

The Basic Routine: Make your bed, wake up early, and put on an outfit that feels like you.

Energy-Boosting Habits: A quick stretch, a healthy breakfast, and a moment of quiet can make a huge difference.

Wind-Down Ritual: At night, unwind with tea, a bubble bath, or a short meditation to recharge for tomorrow.

Indulge a Little: Get a weekly coffee treat or a luxurious candle that makes your space feel cozy.

Luxury Experiences: Plan for a special outing every month, like a fancy dinner or spa day.

Signature Scents and Cocktails: Find your go-to perfume and a signature drink like a dirty martini or a bubbly glass of champagne.

Conclusion:

Becoming your dream girl is a journey; one that's glamorous, fulfilling, and full of growth. Each step brings you closer to living the life you deserve.

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