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Hotwife Lifestyle - One BIG Potential Problem and How to Avoid It 

Many of the problems with the hotwife lifestyle come down to the differences in the ways men and women think. Never underestimate the magnitude of the task ahead of you if you want to get your wife or girlfriend to cuckold you. The trick isn’t just to get her to have hot sex with other guys but also to STAY emotionally faithful to you AND involve you to whatever extent you want to be involved. ….

Hotwife Advice for Women 

 think women tend to get a raw deal when it comes to finding advice on being a hotwife. It’s true there’s lots of information out there on the topic, but most of it is written by men for men; and the material that is written by women seems to be more about what they get up to rather than how to make it work. In other words, it’s also written for men. ….

The Hotwife Lifestyle for Beginners 

The hotwife lifestyle appeals to many men and women of an open-minded nature who have a strong relationship and wish to explore beyond the horizons of traditional sexuality in regard to marriage and monogamy. …..

Hotwifing and the Four Stages of Cuckolding 

Almost every marriage where cuckolding becomes the norm passes through these stages, and it’s important to realise they are entirely natural and normal. 

The Ultimate Hotwife Lifestyle 

What many men – and even fewer women – realize when they first start taking the idea of hotwifing and cuckolding as a serious possibility for them, is they are subtly changing the dynamic of their relationship and setting themselves up for a true lifestyle change. ….

How To Start Hotwifing 

The question of how to start hotwifing is not as simple to answer as you might think. Or, rather, there is a simple answer but it’s not a very useful one: “just go out and fuck another man, dear”. Alas, that’s a recipe for disaster. …

How Does Hotwifing Enhance a Relationship? 

At first glance, it would seem ‘obvious’ that hotwifing or cuckolding – where a woman has sex with men other than her husband, but with her husband’s knowledge, consent and often at his urging – would be disastrous for any marriage, no matter how strong. But this is far from the truth, as you’ll see in this article…..

How Often Should Your Hotwife Play? 

This is a topic for more advanced couples who are currently living the hotwife lifestyle or have definitely decided to “do it” – and now they’re just working out the details. And one detail that’s really important to work out properly and in advance is how often should your hotwife play?….

Cuckolding: Three Things Cuckolded Husbands Love The Most 

There are many surprising benefits to being cuckolded for husbands, in terms of an enhanced relationship and, in a seeming paradox, a better sex life. But out of all of them three stand head and shoulders above the rest in terms of their ability to delight and excite the man whose wife has one or more lovers. We look at them in detail in this article….

Why Cuckolding Makes for a Happy and Fun Marriage 

Why cuckolding is so popular a fantasy for men is a fascinating topic, and one it’s worth understanding before you take even your first, tentative steps into the hot wife and cuckolding lifestyle. So in this article we’ll look at why men have the cuckolding fantasy so often, and why the cuckolding hotwife lifestyle is so much fun for both of you….

Hotwifing - 3 Ways to Do It Successfully 

This is perhaps the best choice of all, especially for couples are new to the hotwife lifestyle. In this article I share with you three simple choices for couples new to the hotwife lifestyle….

Hotwife Tips - 3 Hot Secrets for Ultimate Hotwife Pleasure 

So, you’ve confessed your desires to your wife – you want her to have sex with other men – she’s agreed in principle, so now… how is it all going to work? So to give you a nudge in what I hope is a hopeful direction, here are three simple scenarios for couples new to hotwiving (you can also use these as ideas when first introducing your wife to the idea of getting into the lifestyle)….

The Ultimate Hotwife Night 

The hotwife or cuckolding fantasy is a very popular one for men, but even though they think about it often, it’s rare they actually think about it very deeply. And the problem with this is the things you need to do to make the hotwife lifestyle appeal to your wife means sitting down and thinking about it a little more deeply than you have been doing – simply because when it comes to these things, men and women have a very different approach. That’s what we explore in this article…..

Can Hotwife Marriages Really Work? 

It’s a fact that hotwifing is a very, very common male fantasy. Why this is so is open to debate, but that doesn’t change the fact it’s true…..

Hotwifing Benefits - Three Reasons Hotwifes Have Better Marriages 

Odd as it may seem the hotwifing benefits you’ll experience if you can get your wife to take the plunge into the cuckolding lifestyle far outweigh the risks and disadvantages (with one proviso: hotwiving is for couples whose relationship is good but they want to improve it; if your relationship is already sexless and broken, then hotwiving will make things a lot worse). Discover here three HUGE benefits to the hotwife lifestyle…..

Hotwife Rules - 3 Tips to Successful Hotwifing 

Hotwife rules won’t mean much to you if you’re in the minority of cases where the lifestyle is part of a wider female-dominated relationship where the only rule seems to be “she can do what she likes”. But for the majority, those who see hotwiving as being something to deepen and enhance a relationship of equals there are three rules you must follow…..

Hotwifing - Is It Wrong? 

Hotwifing is an emotive subject with a lot of strong opinions held on both sides of the argument. But, the fundamental question is: Is Hotwifing Wrong? Unfortunately there’s no answer anyone can give and relieve the individual of answering the question for him- or herself…..

Hotwiving and What Your Wife Wants From It 

The biggest mistake men make when they try to get their wives interested in hotwiving, is blundering in without giving a moment’s thought to what they’re trying to achieve. I mean, yes, they know what their goal is, but that’s the problem. They’re focused on it like a greyhound chasing a rabbit and are blind to all else – including the mess they’re making of things! In this sort article you will uncover the big shift in your thinking you need to make if you want your wife to become the dream Hotwife you crave….

How Does a Hotwife Pick Up a Lover? 

The answer to the question, “how does a hotwife pick up a lover” must be… “very carefully!” But joking aside, in this short article you will discover three tips to selecting the right man to become your wife’s lover…..

How to Get Your Husband to Agree to a Hotwife Lifestyle 

Usually, it’s the man who drives the hotwife lifestyle and then as his wife become more comfortable with it and realises he’s not going to ‘freak out’ at her seeing other men, she tends to become more outgoing and provocative. And, of course, men love this. But what about when it’s the wife who harbours the initial desire? In this short article you will discover some simple tips for women seeking to persuade their men to let them off the leash! …..

How Many Wives Would Like to Hotwife? 

Since infidelity is the last big taboo, how many wives would like to hotwife? And it seems like a reasonable thing to ask since even though it’s a very common male fantasy, it seems women are turned off by the whole idea (but the truth I reveal in this short article will surprise you).,,,,,

Why Cuckolding Is Not the Same As an Affair 

Cuckolding is NOT the same as having an affair, despite most people thinking it is. The crucial difference is one is done with the full knowledge, consent, and even approval of the husband, while the other is not. Discover the difference between cuckolding and affairs and finally uncover the truth about the delicious cuckolding lifestyle…….

The Hotwife Lifestyle - 3 Secrets to Make It Work! 

For many couples the Hotwife lifestyle is a marriage saver - something you might find counterintuitive considering the pain, anguish and trouble infidelity typically causes in a marriage. But the hotwife lifestyle is different and can in fact bring couples closer together. In this short article you will discover the plain truth about the hotwife lifestyle…..

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Hotwife/Vixen Interest Survey for Women

On a scale of 1 to 10,

with 10 being you are very interested, 5 being neutral and 1 being not at all interested,

please answer these following questions:

Becoming a hotwife?

Caging your husband’s cock?

Having sex with other men while your husband only watches?

Having sex with other men without your husband there?

Having sex with other men and your hushed at the same time?

Having anal sex?

Role playing with your husband?

Having a secrete lover that your husband doesn’t know about?

Having one time sex with men without your husband knowing?

Playing with sex toys?

Playing with bondage?

Going to nude beaches?

Watching your husband have sex with another woman?

Having sex with another woman in front of your husband?

Having sex alone with another woman?

Having your husband film you having sex?

Letting your husband pick men to share you with?

Having a monogamous relationship with your husband?

Going on vacation alone to have sex with other men?

Going on vacation with your husband and having sex with other men?

Going to a female strip club with your husband?

Going to a female strip club without your husband?

Going to a male strip club with your husband

Going to a male strip club without your husband?

Stripping at a bachelor or private party for a group of men?

Serving men during a football game or poker night wearing seductive clothing?

Sending men you meet online sexy photos and videos?

Sharing your messages/conversations with your husband that you have with other men?

Keeping secret you conversations with other men?

Edging your husband husband close to orgasm and then denying him repeatedly?

Ruining your husbands orgasms?

Limiting your husbands orgasms?

Making your husband clean his cum out/off of you?

Making your husband clean another man’s cum out/off of you?

Surprising your husband with a used pussy when you get home?

Making your husband suck another man’s cock in front of you?

Making your husband clean off the cum from another man that just fucked you?

Kissing your husband after another man came in your mouth?

Having your husband lick your clit while another man fucks your pussy?

Having you husband lick your clit while another man fucks your ass?

Having your husband lick your asshole while another man fucks your pussy?

Making your husband were a cock extension when he has sex with you?

Making your husband wear a cock cage in front of other men you are fucking?

Make your husband where a cock cage when he works?

Make you husband wear a cock cage while you watch porn and masturbate?

Make you husband were a gag dildo and you fuck his face?

Trying to stretch your pussy to take a fist?

Trying to stretch your asshole to take a fist?

Wearing an anal plug at home?

Wearing an anal plug out in public?

Having sex in your marital bed with another man?

Having sex only with men that do not know where you live?

Having sex with men you and your husband know personally?

Having sex with your husband’s friends?

Having sex with a coworker?

Having sex with your boss?

Answering the door nude?

Walking around the house daily nude?

Swinging or swapping partners with another couple?

Participating in a gangbang (3 or more men at the same time) with your husband there?

Participating in a gangbang (3 or more men at the same time) without your husband there?

Masturbating alone with toys?

Masturbating alone without toys?

Masturbating in front of your husband?

Masturbating in front of a bull?

Mutual masturbating with your husband or bull?

Sucking cock?

Sucking big cock, 8+ inches

Sucking small cock, less than 5 inches?

Having sex with big cocks?

Having sex with small cocks?

Getting a tattoo?

Getting piercings?

Getting your nipple pierced?

Getting your clit pierced?

Getting your bellybutton pierced?

Getting matching tattoos?

Wearing a hotwife anklet?

Wearing the key to your husband’s cock cage lock?

Squirting?

Letting your husband give you an enema?

Using a sex toy on your husband?

Fucking your husband with a dildo?

Fucking your husband with a strap-on dildo?

Being blindfolded during sex with your husband?

Blindfolding your husband during sex?

Tying your husband to the bed for sex?

Allowing your husband to listen on the phone to you having sex with another man?

Taking photos of you having sex with another man and sending them to your hubsand?

Video taping you having sex with another man and then showing your husband when you return?

Having your husband reclaim you after you have sex with other men?

Going to a sex club and allowing other strangers to watch you have sex with your husband?

Going to a sex club to meet other men to have sex with in front of strangers?

Going to a sex club to only watch others having sex?

Going to a sex club without your husband?

Going to a nude resort on vacation without your husband?

Going on vacation without your husband?

Allowing your husband to go to a sex club without you?

Allowing your husband to go on vacation without you?

100.Flashing your husband in public?

101.Having sex in public places?

102.Going out in a skirt without panties?

103.Having sex in a car or limo?

104.Having sex in the back of a car with a man while your husband drives?

105.Having your husband drive you to meet your date and then having him pick you up?

106.Having your husband thank your bull for fucking you good?

107.Having your husband ask your bulls to cum in you?

108.Always having to ask for permission from your husband before having sex with anyone else?

109.Having the freedom to have sex with anyone you want any time you want without your husband’s permission?

110.Accidentally getting pregnant by another man?

111.Getting pregnant by another man with you husband permission?

112.Having sex with string muscular men?

113.Having sex with men over 50?

114.Having sex with men under 30?

115.Having sex with black men?

116.Having sex for money?

117.Having sex while your husband is hiding in the closet?

118.Having sex while your while your husband is in the guest room?

119.Having your husband bring your drinks while you have sex with another man?

120.Have your husband shave you?

121.Have your husband watch you get ready for a date with another man?

122.Have your husband help you prepare for a date with another man?

123. Have your husband tied up and caged while you have sex with another man in the same room?

124.Have your husband tied up and caged while you have sex with another man in the same an adjoining room where he can only hear the moans?

125.Clean the house naked?

126.Cook naked?

127.Be waiting naked at the door when your husband got home from work?

128.Be waiting naked at the door when your date comes to visit?

129.Give a stranger you met in a bar a blow job or have sex in the bar bathroom?

130.Give a stranger you met in a bar a blow job or have sex with him in the parking lot?

131.Let another man finger you in a public place?

132.Dance with hot men at clubs?

133.Flirt with hot men at bars?

134.Go on vacations with other men without your husband?

135.Have one man fuck you in the ass while another man fucks your pussy?

136.Have one man fuck your ass while another fucks your pussy and another fucks your mouth?

137.Continue living a hotwife lifestyle if you become pregnant?

138.Stop living the hotwife lifestyle if you became pregnant?

139.Only have sex with your husband?

140. Allowing your husband to lick your pussy anytime he wants?

141.Allowing your husband to fuck your pussy anytime he wants?

142.Allowing your husband to fuck your ass anytime he wants?

143.Giving your husband a blow job anytime her wants?

144.Making your husband lick your pussy anytime you want?

145. Making your husband fuck you whenever you demand?

146.Get massages from your husband?

147.Get massages from other men?

148.Get massages from women?

149.Let other women give your husband full body massages?

150.Suck a cock after it’s been in your pussy?

151.Suck a cock after it was in your ass?

152.Be treated like a Princess in public but a whore in the bed?

153.Rough sex?

154.Talking dirty during sex?

155.Telling your husband about other men you have fucked during sex?

156.Using a cock cage on your husband to get things that you want sexually?

157.Using a cock cage to get your husband to reach goals..like weight loss…

158.Vacations were only you and your husband have sex together?

159.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once per week?

160.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once every two weeks?

161.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once per month?

162.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once every two or three months?

163.Sex with bulls/other men on average of about once or twice per year?

164.Having your husband surprise you by planning sexual adventures/nights which include other men?

165.Having sex in a pool?

166.Having sex in a hot tub?

167.Having sex in a shower?

168.Having sex on a boat?

169.Having sex in a plane?

170.Keeping secrets from your husband?

171.Using floggers/whips/paddles?

172.Having your husband use flogger or spank you when you are bad?

173.Using a flogger or spanking your husband if he is bad

174.Wearing a ball gage while you have sex?

175.Making your husband wear a ball gag?

176.Making your husband cum inside is cage?

177.Play with hot wax?

178.Explore robe bondage?

179.Share your sex life relationship on a Tumblr blog, but hid your identities?

180.Shop at a adult book store with your husband?

181.Shop at an adult book store alone?

182.Shop at an adult book store with a man other than your husband?

183.Go to a bar with your husband but pretend you don’t know him and flirt with others while he watches?

184.Drive around in a car naked?

185.Be driven in a car naked?

186.Grow old with your husband?

187.Divorce you husband when he gets too old?

188.Have an open relationship where husband and wife can have sex with others?

189.Never allowing your husband to have sex with any other woman?

190.Allowing your husband to have sex with another woman only with your permission and by your rules?

191.Setting up rules for being a hotwife?

192.Setting up punishments for breaking the rules?

193.Sharing all of your personal communication outlets and passwords with your husband including phone messages and all social media messaging?

194.Having all of your husband’s communication and social media passwords?

195.Allowing your husband to make all the rules?

196.Playing the dominant role and having your husband play a submissive role all of the time?

197.Playing the dominant role and having your husband play a submissive role most of the time?

198.Playing the submissive role and having your husband play a dominant role all of the time?

199.Playing the submissive role and having your husband play a dominant role most of the time?

200.Alternating about 50/50 between playing the submissive role and dominant roles with our husband?

201.Have your bulls be dominant?

202.Have your bulls be submissive?

203.Becoming friends with your bulls?

204.Have the same bulls long term rather than many strangers?

205.Have the bull always wear condoms?

206.Have the bulls not wear condoms?

207.Allowing the husband to stop a date or sex at anytime for any reason without getting mad?

208.Allowing your husband to decide he wants you to stop being a hotwife and live a monogamous traditional lifestyle?

209.Having kids with your husband?

210.Being wealthy?

211.Always telling the truth?

212.Always getting the truth from your husband?

213.Trying new sex positions?

214.Trying new sex techniques?

215.Watching porn with your husband?

216.Watching porn alone?

217.Privacy while talking to other en on the phone?

218.Privacy while on the computer chatting with other men?

219.Fulfilling your husbands fantasies?

220.Fulfilling your fantasies?

221.Sharing your fantasies with your husband?

222.Hearing your husband’s fantasies?

223.Having a fit muscular husband?

224.Using nipple clamps during sex?

225.Having your husband use a pussy pump on you?

226.Using a penis pump on your husband?

227.Using a sex swing with your husband?

228.Using a sex swing with other men?

229.Role playing with your husband (doctor/patient, student/teacher, master/slave)

230.Playing sex games with your husband?

231.Playing sex games with others?

232.Hiding your sexual activities from friends and family?

233.Having similar interests are your husband?

234.You husband having similar interests as you?

235.Sacrificing to give you husband pleasure?

236.You husband sacrificing to give you pleasure?

237.Sleeping naked in bed with your husband nightly?

238.Having your husband wake you up in the middle of the night for sex?

239.Waking your husband up in the middle of the night for sex?

240.Knowing where your husband is all the time?

241.Spending nights in bed alone without your husband?

242.Always sleeping with your husband?

243.Always sleeping with someone?

244.Never sleeping alone?

245.Showing public displays of affection?

246.Having sex while having your period?

247.Playfully humiliating your husband when having sex alone with him?

248.Playfully humiliating your husband with having sex with another man in front of you husband?

On a scale of 1 to 10,

with 10 being you are most important and 1 being not important at all,

please answer these following questions:

How important is:

Trust in your marriage?

Sex in your marriage?

Honesty in your marriage?

Wealth in your marriage?

Health in your marriage?

Kids in your marriage?

Having time to spend with your friends?

Having time alone?

Having time to spend with family?

Sharing home chores?

Shopping together?

Working together?

Both having jobs?

Being a housewife?

How many kids do you want to have?

How would you feel if you had no kids with your husband?

Can you accept being a stepmother and treat your husbands kids as your own?

How would you feel about becoming pregnant by a man other than your husband?

At what age do you want to retire?

Where would you like to live when you retire?

What is an ideal sized home for you and your husband?

A. very small, 1 bedroom, 1 bathroom, living room, kitchen, laundry room

B. small - 2 bedroom, living room, kitchen, laundry room

C. medium - 2-3 bedrooms, living room, dining room, kitchen, laundry room, game room

D. large -3-4 bedrooms, living room, dining room, kitchen, laundry room, game room, garage, big yard

E. very big - 3-4 bedrooms, living room, dining room, kitchen, laundry room, game room, large yard, garage, pool

Explain why that is your ideal home size:

Would you rather go to the movies or watch a movie at home?

Who do you prefer does the:

(husband, wife, both equally, husband most of the time, wife most of the time)

Laundry

Cooking

Cleaning

Making the bed Yard work

Gardening

Driving

Shopping

Dishes

Banking/accounting

Work - earring money

Initiating sex

Ironing

Decorating

Planning vacations

Deciding where to spend money

How many times a month would be an ideal number of time to have sex?

Do you think men or women desire sex more?

What are your true feelings about the hotwife or vixen lifestyle?

Do you feel you that a hotwife or vixen lifestyle is right for you? Explain

How important is your partners appearance?

How important is your husband’s physical appearance?

Are you interested in becoming a hotwife/vixen?

Why or why not:

What rules would you like to have if living a non traditional marriage?

Is your husband’s cock enough to keep you totally satisfied?

What more could your husband do to keep you sexually satisfied?

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8 Things you need to know about swinging in India

Cheating has been given the new dimension of being acceptable if it is with consent. The culture of swapping wives for pleasure has taken the country, much against it’s belief of marriage being sacred and physical intimacy to take place between married couples only. No matter what your beliefs on the subject, wife swapping has been prevalent in the conventional country of India, and much to one’s surprise, it is even gaining popularity. And no, it is not just the game of rich and elite – people from all walks of life are participating in wife swapping – between known couples and unknown willing strangers.

Is swinging spicing up love and passion between couples, married or otherwise? Well, the answer is a big yes. Swinging is that little dirty secret that is coming out of the closet in India with couples exploring options to spice up their sex life. And the real reason for swinging has been beautifully summed up here. In Europe, swingers are ushering a sexual revolution and couples are looking for exciting avenues to derive heightened sexual pleasures, while in the ‘Land of the Kamasutra’, the ‘new’ trend is being accepted with open arms, practised openly.

What is ‘wife swapping’?

Wife swapping, or swinging, is the exchange of wives between two couples, consensually, to engage in sexual pleasures. Some people like to swap between known couples, while some prefer swinging with complete strangers.

The later is the more preferred way, since the former is believed to burden the parties involved with feelings like guilt. Though the concept of exchanging wives for sexual pleasures was unfathomable till a few years ago, the Indian community is warming up to the idea. Swinging, as it is commonly referred to, appeals to couples who try to break away from a monotonous married life and are looking outside the marriage for fulfilling their sexual desires and fantasies without any guilt trips. Both partners in the matrimony are expected to know about what is happening, and accept each other as if nothing as happened.

How common is it to swap wives in India?

Thanks to the Internet and smartphones, what was first talked about in hushed tones now find its way via evocative texts, pictures and lot more. A few decades ago, wife swapping was like a secret underground trend. Not anymore. Swinging is a trend of cheating but with consent. Indian couples are warming up to this idea of enjoying sexual escapades guilt-free. In India, though hushed, wife swapping is a common affair. And if you thought the swinging culture is only a high-end metro city affair, you are wrong. Wife swapping has its roots in small towns, within the low socio-economic groups too.

Sex is a sin no more

The new-age couple is all pepped up, open, liberal and most importantly globetrotters. For them, having sex with just one partner sounds like a no-fun proposal. The new matrimonial bliss formula these days is to build open relationships, allowing complete freedom and transparency. Wife swapping earlier meant inviting ‘raised eyebrow’ but now it’s a considered to be a sign of a modern mind-set. People willingly engage themselves in such parties that encourage sleeping with wives of other men and enjoy the experience.

Not to forget that this arrangement does not always have a happy ending – sometimes partners develop intense, intimate feelings for their swing partners and sometimes they are unable to cope with their guilt or the thought of their partner being with someone else. Obviously, it is always too late to act on such situations.

How can you meet couples who are ready for swinging?

Have you got an invitation for a party in a private house, farmhouse, elite club or a mini vacation to an exotic location? If you have and are in a mood to swing, then don’t ignore such invitations. A whole new world of adventure under the sheets is waiting to be explored. So how do you get invited to such parties? You need to get started online, as there are many websites where you can register and get started.

Here is how swinging works

Selected couples get invited to such parties

You get enrolled into a group or club with a membership fee

A background check is done before giving the approval

Special lunches for husbands are hosted to lay down the rules of the games

Wives have a separate gathering where they are initiated into this game

The party venue is disclosed two days before the event

Related reading: This is the reason why couples are getting into swinging for sex

How do wife swapping parties work?

The swinging parties are governed by some rules. You are not allowed to carry cell phones and cameras and a background check is done. This is to ensure confidentiality. A health checkup is always done to avoid the risk of HIV and STDs. Most swinging party organisers meet the husbands and wives separately to explain the rules. During the party, men either pick up the heels of the women who are there, or women pick up car keys. Accordingly, the owner of the heels is swapped with the wife of the man for a whole night of casual, sexual fun.

Wife swapping id not illegal in India: Believe it or not, wife swapping is not termed as illegal in India. Our laws do not validate it as illegal, as this act is performed with mutual consent between all parties involved

Beware, swinging is addictive too: In India, talking about sex is still considered taboo. When couples finally get to live up to their desires and fantasies via swinging, they get addicted to it. All of a sudden, sexual desires repressed over the years get an outlet that offers much needed respite. But sometimes it can be addictive in nature and can take a toll on a couple’s marriage and children

There are swinger clubs in metros and cities: For the uninitiated, there are swingers clubs spread across the country. The trick is to find them and connect with them. Try searching for them online to get some leads. Or reach out to someone you know who has been a part of these swinging clubs. This can be the starting point

All sex and not love: Don’t look for romance with swingers. It is a pure sexual relationship where partners keep all other emotions aside. No attachment, it’s all about sex so don’t feel guilty for committing a sin. Emotional attachment can ruin your married life

Swinging in India thrived before the Internet came: Yes, back then when there were no computers or the Internet, couples did swing. Some trace this trend way back to the 1970s, where couples explored swinging a few months into their marriage

Married for fun: You can stay married and now walk apart due to sexual incompatibility. Swinging allows couples to stay ‘happily’ married for real. In fact, couples get a chance to revive their relationship from being dull and boring to refreshing. The boredom gives way to excitement

Get tested before the game: With AIDS and HIV on the rise, swinging clubs ensure that every member undergoes a medical test to ensure that no one is infected. This is to safeguard health concerns of all the members and avoid threat of STDs and other highly communicable infections

Know the fake from real: There are many fake couple profiles on swinging websites. Before you fall into the trap, cross check the credentials before extending a swinging night out. Try meeting out in person and only then go ahead

Related reading: 7 things to remember before starting the swapping lifestyle

Why do some people enjoy wife swapping?

It may sound strange that people enjoy their spouses having sex with other people outside the marriage, but it is true. The reasons why wife swapping is accepted as a lifestyle have been summed below:

It gives men and women a chance to have a liberated and open sex life, where they feel that love and sex are different. Since they are clear why they are swapping partners, there are no resentments

To satisfy their sexual desires outside the marriage

Some men and women are turned on when they watch their significant other having sex with a third person. They feel aroused and hot with desire and satisfaction. This can be one major reason to participate in wife swapping culture

Some couples believe that swinging will get the spark back in their sex lives

Adult swinging gives partners a chance to cheat without feeling guilty, since both the partners are on the same page

Either one partner or both the partners are polyamorous

Implications of wife swapping for fun

Swinging has taken the urban India by storm, and in a country that believes in the sanctity of the institution of marriage and swears chastity, it also comes as a surprise. However. for some this casual fun becomes an addiction and they expose themselves to many vulnerabilities – both mental and physical. These episodes can have serious implications on a couple’s marriage and affect the family, most likely the children. Sometimes, swapping results in emotional connections that involve a lot of pain and hurt. To have a successful relationship while swinging requires a great stability in the relationship and great amounts of trust.

Swinging works only if a couple is very stable in their relationship and have very liberated minds. It may not be easy for an average person to see their partner getting all aroused and climaxed by someone else, more so if he or she has not been able to do so. Couples who are instable and unsure of their relationship should not try swinging as it will likely ruin the marriage.

Sexual infidelity is no stranger to a marriage, whether you like it or you do not. While many couples have their names on every wife swapping party today, some withdraw after an episode or two.

To swing or not to swing

If having sex with one person all your life is dull or boring, and definitely not your cup of tea, then swinging is for you. It offers a venue to explore intimacy, passion and desires on a different level altogether. Instead of cheating clandestinely, swinging offers a platform to be partners in a crime that only offers sexual bliss. Some might argue this is not in our culture, but what’s the harm in having some fun?

Swinging is here to stay. Like it, hate it or love it – take it in your stride. For those who are happy with their partner, let porn be their source of excitement.

Else swing it baby, shake that booty now.