I Never Understand Why Many People Think Jotaro Hate Woman, Like The Reason He Yell At The Girls I Not

I never understand why many people think jotaro hate woman, like the reason he yell at the girls i not because of their gender, but how they act. Even if u change their gender to male jotaro would still yell at them. And someone said how jotaro treat woman so rude, its not like he treat male better. He clearly wasn't being polite when talking to Joseph in part 3, and the first line he talked to polnareff is get away. And its not like he really treat woman so so badly, he covered ann's eyes when there was bloody scene, he bought drink for her and helped her escape in that wheel of fortune fight. The most important reason he want to kill dio is because his mum is dying, and the only reason jotaro visit the jail and catch the bullet in part 6 when he fully know it is a trap is to save jolyne.