I think the reason a lot of leftists struggle with disability justice is that they haven't moved past the concept that discrimination isn't bad because it's objectively "wrong." yes, sexists are objectively wrong when they try to claim women are dumber than men. yes, antisemites are objectively wrong that jewish people are inherently greedy and run the state. yes, racists are wrong when they try to claim that white people are the superior race. and so on.
but then with disabled people, there are a lot of objective truths to the discrimination we face. people with IDs/LDs do fall behind and struggle with certain concepts. physically disabled people are often weaker and less capable of performing demanding tasks than able bodied people. many of us with mental illnesses are more reckless and less responsible. a lot of us are dependent on others and do not contribute much "worth".
and guess what? disabled people still deserve a place in the world. disabled people still deserve the supports they need. because they are people, and that should be enough to support them and believe they deserve a place at the table.
if your only rebuttal against discrimination is its objective inaccuracies, you are meeting bigots where they are at. you are validating the very concept that if and when people are truly incapable of being equal to the majority, that means they are worth less. this causes some leftists to then try to deny the objective realities of disabled people and/or become ableist themselves.
your rallying behind marginalized groups should start and end with the fact that people are completely worthy of life and equity, because they are fellow human beings and that should, frankly, be enough.
ive also come to the conclusion that "laziness" is probably the stupidest, most hurtful, least useful, deliberately cruel concept in the world
okay but the American education system literally didn't tell us how to defend against horse archers
And the leaks about how terf are creating a Moral panic keeps on coming!
Crying with my mama—
I ask what the limit to her love is.
She says that there’s nothing,
still some clarity is wanted.
She doesn’t understand
becoming something different,
but I can hold her hand
and she can ask forgiveness.
There’s a
blue sky ahead—
it grows
by keeping promises.
If god
made wheat
for bread,
then god made me to be an honest man.
Daily in communion with my deepest wishes—
shaving in the mirror,
reading science fiction.
Tomorrow and tomorrow, I will learn the meaning,
of the lengths that I will go to be alive, and love, and listen.
There’s a
blue sky ahead—
it grows
by keeping promises.
If god
made wheat
for bread,
then god made me to be an honest man.
I will not repeat the tenets of my born religion,
or lend weight to an argument that I am not sufficient.
I am not determined by the love that I am given.
I am here because I’m here because I’m here,
and it is written.
There’s a
blue sky ahead—
it grows
by keeping promises.
If god
made wheat
for bread,
then god made me to be an honest man.
I will choose myself over the institution.
I will not believe the propaganda that I’m used in.
I can break my heart to own my revolution.
Oh, and I am more courageous for the wanting.
I am more courageous for the wanting.
And I can choose to be
an honest man.
Mama, I won’t plead,
I’m simply what I am—
and you can still believe
whatever that you can.
My transmasc experience was being fine being seen as a girl but growing up and hating the idea of being seen as a woman. “Young woman” was too much for me even before I knew I was trans. Womanhood seemed to come with so many more expectations for gender conformity than girlhood. As many other trans men and mascs have shared, about when I hit puberty was when I started being gifted makeup and spa kits that I was so uninterested in and never used, instead of toys and books and art supplies like before. I understand what people mean when they say “child” is treated like a separate gender.
No one is safe until trans women are safe
This Pride I hope that all of you never ever forget that no amount of sanitizing your sex life or sanding down of your LGBT edges will make bigots accept you. So, don’t debase yourself by capitulating an inch to them, especially in ways that throw your fellow community members under the bus.
shit(and sometimes serious)posts of a 22yo trans man
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