Keep your goals and news to yourself no matter how little or big. You speak too soon and it’ll all go downhill. Trust me on this. People are out there waiting to give you the evil eye. Manifest your success in silence, let your results speak for themselves. No one can touch you once you’ve accomplished what you desired.
Remain disciplined. Stay strong. Nothing can stop you if you don’t stop for anything. When it gets painful push harder. Have discipline to keep going when it hurts. Life gives you what you deserve. Work for it. Sacrifice for it. Give your all. Otherwise you won’t get it. Show your character. Remain disciplined. Stay strong. Don’t say “why me?!” Say “try me!” Keep going even when you don’t see results. Be strong. Be brave, remain disciplined and your time will come.
-Spotify “Fearless Motivation” Playlist
No one else cares for your success, so you have to care. You have to force yourself to get up early, you have to force yourself to turn your phone off and revise, you have to force yourself to workout, you have to care for the whole world because no one else cares until they start seeing results. And they won’t ever see your results if you don’t care enough first. It’s your life, they are your goals, your dreams, it will be your success but it has to be your effort and your work first and foremost x
tysm to the anon who asked me to make this :)
also i have 128 posts, not all are listed. i've excluded anon asks that didn't have any advice, since this masterlist is supposed to be just my advice posts. they're also in order from oldest to most recent
self improvement journal prompts
how to be your best
how to be confident
romanticizing life
learning to live/dealing with social media addiction
how to improve
healthy habits that changed my life
becoming your highest self
starting the day off right
basic beauty tips
becoming more positive
reinvent yourself
school advice
how to become "that girl"
living a healthier lifestyle
school advice pt. 2
how i changed my life/my self improvement journey
habits for success
homework tips
putting yourself first
how to be confident pt 2
period advice
becoming "high value"
tips to become healthier
starting small
dealing with rude/unkind people- anon asks
it girl: alexa demie
getting through rough times
starting the day (similar to earlier post)
it girl: marilyn monroe
how to feel good without makeup
coquette gift ideas
becoming happier
ways to get into the christmas spirit
reset
coquette styling/outift building- anon asks
my beauty routine
what helps my mental health
glowing up for the new year
my focus going into 2023
healing your inner child
how to feel energized
don't lower your standards
getting out of a slump/getting motivation- anon asks
how to be organized- anon asks
feeling feminine
how to feel like a princess
self improvement mistakes
2023: improving mental health
things to avoid
my new habits
glow up tips
going from a toxic to a non toxic person- anon asks
2023
boosting brain power (one of my fav posts that i've made)
becoming your dream you
getting over a guy- anon asks
travelling alone- anon asks
simple habits that can change your life
ways to improve health pt. 2
motivation with studying/avoiding procrastination- anon asks
becoming productive
bringing joy into your life
giant advice post (getting ones life back together, finding oneself, self love, aesthetics, saving money and finding a vibe)- anon asks
fixing your sleep schedule
self improvement made simple
weekend reset
healthy breakfast ideas- anon asks
affordable skincare reccomendations
tips for being sick/sore throat- anon asks
that girl reminders
letting go of the past
organize your life
hair tips for 2a hair- anon asks
self deprication and self love
increasing costumer reach on your page- anon asks
energy drainers
combatting procrastination
balance
making new friends/being likeable- anon asks
positive and negative influences
dealing with guilt and regret + growing- anon asks
recipe recommendations (except i can barely cook)
being taken seriously
cultivating kindness- anon asks
things to do when you're bored
being respectful
look put together
accepting your flaws. (idk y but this one has a period in its title)
habits that have changed my life pt. 2 (more in depth)
finding a signature scent- anon asks
making friends
style advice- anon asks
shopping smartly
fiixing sleed schedule/dealing with distractions- anon asks
it girl: hedy lamarr
dealing with negative emotions
making a good first impression- anon asks
how to be self disciplined with 0 motivation- anon asks
document your life: get a polaroid camera take loads of pictures, print them and stick them in an photo album, record videos and save them to a hard drive, record mini vlogs and upload them privately to your YouTube to watch later in life, journal about your hardest moments, collect things from the moments that brought you great joy and happiness….
but don’t forget to be present in the moment!
and this is YET the nicest way to put it, you guys. speaking generally, I am sickandtired of y‘all going through every manifesting page on tumblr, instagram and god knows where to collect the information YOU ALREADY KNOW. you know damn well to affirm for your desires and to simply stick to that no matter what, WHAT‘S STOPPING YOU???! babygirl I need you to start right now. put away all of your notes on your phone trying to plan yourself an ideal routine on when exactly to affirm, when to do this and that, etc. I‘m saying this just to remind you that manifesting is something NATURAL. I even hate declaring it as "manifesting" BECAUSE YOU ARE SIMPLY THINKING AND BRINGING IT INTO LIFE. the only thing you need to know about manifesting is that it’s just your thoughts! what you are thinking at any given moment, most of the time and during the day.
I WANNA GENTLY REMIND YOU THAT
your dominant thoughts manifest.
you can manifest anything anywhere anytime.
the way you affirm doesn’t matter.
you don’t have to believe your affirmations (thoughts!).
circumstances don’t mean shit.
your desires are there, literally right here.
the 3d will catch up BECAUSE IT HAS TO.
you and you only are in control.
you are god.
you want it? you got it.
just start. it doesn’t matter how you do it, if you do it right, aesthetically enough, "technically" correct… even if your affirmations feel unnatural to you, there is no wrong way to manifest. yesterday I was so fed up with myself being unproductive and not starting shit (and yes, it’s because of mercury retrograde), I affirmed for 30mins STRAIGHT, only thought about my desire and did it a few times during the day. and I reached my goal.
everytime you "jokingly" say "I have my desired …", it counts. it matters to your process. and it brings you one step closer to your desire manifesting into the 3d. I know it might feel weird. for many people, manifesting feels so difficult to do because they all have this "I gotta plan x and y" mindset. don’t overcomplicate it. you have it. fuckin act like it sorry for being so mean oh lord please I love you and I believe in you babygurl!! :( ♡
my formula for success
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no bullshit,
straight-to-the-point
manifesting guide
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Disclaimer: this post is about my personal experience, beliefs and what works for me. If you don't resonate with what I'm saying it's totally fine, you keep doing you.
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living in your head
doesn't mean being delusional, or crazy. imagination is the only reality. as simple as that. the faster you realize it the better things will be.
detachment
I've noticed that being objective of certain aspects of my desires had led me to instant success. but detachment from what? not from the desire itself but from the need of getting it. realizing that i don't desperatly need something somehow makes things easier and faster. lessening the importance of getting certain things makes you free from anxiety and fear, in my personal experience. and why would you be anxious about getting something you already have (see living in your head and daydreaming). go on with your day and stop sulking.
keeping it simple
if it feels like a chore, it won't do it for me. the simpler the better. only affirm or do methods when i want and feel like it. don't force it.
daydreaming
again, I'm a sucker for effortless stuff. for me, daydreaming has always been something natural to do. and if you can see and imagine yourself living your best life then you can have everything.
you do it to yourself
what you see is a reflection of your thoughts. you can't complain and ask why things are "not working" when you are the one who is in control. if you think you can't manifest, you won't. if you think manifesting is hard, it will be. you want to manifest effortlessly and fast, then say you can. you don't like something? change it.
don't question it
don't question how it works or how long it will take. don't question if you can get it or not. doubting is a waste of time. just trust that drive that won't make you give up your dreams.
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@bastarrda
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"No one will love you before you love yourself" is a really fucking bad way of articulating "if you don't see your own value you're more likely to allow other people to mistreat you, so be extra careful when entering relationships if you're struggling with low self worth."
if you want to find me then look for abandoned house surrounded by big garden where I grow my flowers, wear only lace dresses, bake cookies and cakes drink lots of wine and dance under the Hozier and Florence and the Machine