Keep Your Goals And News To Yourself No Matter How Little Or Big. You Speak Too Soon And It’ll All

Remain disciplined. Stay strong. Nothing can stop you if you don’t stop for anything. When it gets painful push harder. Have discipline to keep going when it hurts. Life gives you what you deserve. Work for it. Sacrifice for it. Give your all. Otherwise you won’t get it. Show your character. Remain disciplined. Stay strong. Don’t say “why me?!” Say “try me!” Keep going even when you don’t see results. Be strong. Be brave, remain disciplined and your time will come.

-Spotify “Fearless Motivation” Playlist

No one else cares for your success, so you have to care. You have to force yourself to get up early, you have to force yourself to turn your phone off and revise, you have to force yourself to workout, you have to care for the whole world because no one else cares until they start seeing results. And they won’t ever see your results if you don’t care enough first. It’s your life, they are your goals, your dreams, it will be your success but it has to be your effort and your work first and foremost x

~masterlist~

tysm to the anon who asked me to make this :)

also i have 128 posts, not all are listed. i've excluded anon asks that didn't have any advice, since this masterlist is supposed to be just my advice posts. they're also in order from oldest to most recent

self improvement journal prompts

how to be your best

how to be confident

romanticizing life

learning to live/dealing with social media addiction

how to improve

healthy habits that changed my life

becoming your highest self

starting the day off right

basic beauty tips

becoming more positive

reinvent yourself

school advice

how to become "that girl"

living a healthier lifestyle

school advice pt. 2

how i changed my life/my self improvement journey

habits for success

homework tips

putting yourself first

how to be confident pt 2

period advice

becoming "high value"

tips to become healthier

starting small

dealing with rude/unkind people- anon asks

it girl: alexa demie

getting through rough times

starting the day (similar to earlier post)

it girl: marilyn monroe

how to feel good without makeup

coquette gift ideas

becoming happier

ways to get into the christmas spirit

reset

coquette styling/outift building- anon asks

my beauty routine

what helps my mental health

glowing up for the new year

my focus going into 2023

healing your inner child

how to feel energized

don't lower your standards

getting out of a slump/getting motivation- anon asks

how to be organized- anon asks

feeling feminine

how to feel like a princess

self improvement mistakes

2023: improving mental health

things to avoid

my new habits

glow up tips

going from a toxic to a non toxic person- anon asks

2023

boosting brain power (one of my fav posts that i've made)

becoming your dream you

getting over a guy- anon asks

travelling alone- anon asks

simple habits that can change your life

ways to improve health pt. 2

motivation with studying/avoiding procrastination- anon asks

becoming productive

bringing joy into your life

giant advice post (getting ones life back together, finding oneself, self love, aesthetics, saving money and finding a vibe)- anon asks

fixing your sleep schedule

self improvement made simple

weekend reset

healthy breakfast ideas- anon asks

affordable skincare reccomendations

tips for being sick/sore throat- anon asks

that girl reminders

letting go of the past

organize your life

hair tips for 2a hair- anon asks

self deprication and self love

increasing costumer reach on your page- anon asks

energy drainers

combatting procrastination

balance

making new friends/being likeable- anon asks

positive and negative influences

dealing with guilt and regret + growing- anon asks

recipe recommendations (except i can barely cook)

being taken seriously

cultivating kindness- anon asks

things to do when you're bored

being respectful

look put together

accepting your flaws. (idk y but this one has a period in its title)

habits that have changed my life pt. 2 (more in depth)

finding a signature scent- anon asks

making friends

style advice- anon asks

shopping smartly

fiixing sleed schedule/dealing with distractions- anon asks

it girl: hedy lamarr

dealing with negative emotions

making a good first impression- anon asks

how to be self disciplined with 0 motivation- anon asks

document your life: get a polaroid camera take loads of pictures, print them and stick them in an photo album, record videos and save them to a hard drive, record mini vlogs and upload them privately to your YouTube to watch later in life, journal about your hardest moments, collect things from the moments that brought you great joy and happiness….

but don’t forget to be present in the moment!

START FUCKING AFFIRMING

and this is YET the nicest way to put it, you guys. speaking generally, I am sickandtired of y‘all going through every manifesting page on tumblr, instagram and god knows where to collect the information YOU ALREADY KNOW. you know damn well to affirm for your desires and to simply stick to that no matter what, WHAT‘S STOPPING YOU???! babygirl I need you to start right now. put away all of your notes on your phone trying to plan yourself an ideal routine on when exactly to affirm, when to do this and that, etc. I‘m saying this just to remind you that manifesting is something NATURAL. I even hate declaring it as "manifesting" BECAUSE YOU ARE SIMPLY THINKING AND BRINGING IT INTO LIFE. the only thing you need to know about manifesting is that it’s just your thoughts! what you are thinking at any given moment, most of the time and during the day.

I WANNA GENTLY REMIND YOU THAT

your dominant thoughts manifest.

you can manifest anything anywhere anytime.

the way you affirm doesn’t matter.

you don’t have to believe your affirmations (thoughts!).

circumstances don’t mean shit.

your desires are there, literally right here.

the 3d will catch up BECAUSE IT HAS TO.

you and you only are in control.

you are god.

you want it? you got it.

just start. it doesn’t matter how you do it, if you do it right, aesthetically enough, "technically" correct… even if your affirmations feel unnatural to you, there is no wrong way to manifest. yesterday I was so fed up with myself being unproductive and not starting shit (and yes, it’s because of mercury retrograde), I affirmed for 30mins STRAIGHT, only thought about my desire and did it a few times during the day. and I reached my goal.

everytime you "jokingly" say "I have my desired …", it counts. it matters to your process. and it brings you one step closer to your desire manifesting into the 3d. I know it might feel weird. for many people, manifesting feels so difficult to do because they all have this "I gotta plan x and y" mindset. don’t overcomplicate it. you have it. fuckin act like it sorry for being so mean oh lord please I love you and I believe in you babygurl!! :( ♡

my formula for success

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no bullshit,

straight-to-the-point

manifesting guide

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Disclaimer: this post is about my personal experience, beliefs and what works for me. If you don't resonate with what I'm saying it's totally fine, you keep doing you.

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living in your head

doesn't mean being delusional, or crazy. imagination is the only reality. as simple as that. the faster you realize it the better things will be.

detachment

I've noticed that being objective of certain aspects of my desires had led me to instant success. but detachment from what? not from the desire itself but from the need of getting it. realizing that i don't desperatly need something somehow makes things easier and faster. lessening the importance of getting certain things makes you free from anxiety and fear, in my personal experience. and why would you be anxious about getting something you already have (see living in your head and daydreaming). go on with your day and stop sulking.

keeping it simple

if it feels like a chore, it won't do it for me. the simpler the better. only affirm or do methods when i want and feel like it. don't force it.

daydreaming

again, I'm a sucker for effortless stuff. for me, daydreaming has always been something natural to do. and if you can see and imagine yourself living your best life then you can have everything.

you do it to yourself

what you see is a reflection of your thoughts. you can't complain and ask why things are "not working" when you are the one who is in control. if you think you can't manifest, you won't. if you think manifesting is hard, it will be. you want to manifest effortlessly and fast, then say you can. you don't like something? change it.

don't question it

don't question how it works or how long it will take. don't question if you can get it or not. doubting is a waste of time. just trust that drive that won't make you give up your dreams.

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@bastarrda

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"No one will love you before you love yourself" is a really fucking bad way of articulating "if you don't see your own value you're more likely to allow other people to mistreat you, so be extra careful when entering relationships if you're struggling with low self worth."

Punta del Este,Uruguay

if you want to find me then look for abandoned house surrounded by big garden where I grow my flowers, wear only lace dresses, bake cookies and cakes drink lots of wine and dance under the Hozier and Florence and the Machine