Femme Fatale Playbook: How To Embody Queen Energy

Commit to your new life.

When you become aware of how you speak, how you think and how you act, you are no longer programmed by the past.

Teach your body how your future is going to feel like. Feel the emotions in the present moment. Right now, feel the emotions you want to feel in the future. 

You can become grateful and abundant before the promotion, or before you get the job.

You can feel in love before the relationship happen. You can fall in love with your life, your body, your choices.

You can steer your emotions with your thoughts.

So if you have been waking up grumpy for the past year, start disciplining your mind to feel grateful in the morning.

Practice guided meditations to create the feeling of abundance in your life. Start a gratitude journal. Praise yourself in the mirror. Flirt with yourself. Spoil yourself. You are the captain of your thoughts. Your thoughts influence your emotions. Emotions create your life. 

Build a new personality. 

If you really did believe your thoughts create your future, you would show up and do the work. You would observe your thoughts daily and when any negative thought pops into your head, you would flip it and built constructive ones. 

All it takes is awareness and discipline. Start today. Start right now. You are capable of changing your life just like anybody else.

Sending you much love 💖

how i manifested my dream life with extremely hard circumstances + how you can too ♡

♡ sections of this post:

the importance of making this post

my take on manifestation + the 3D

HOW I DID IT - my journey in 4 phases i went through that include my mindset changes up to the moment i got my desires 

your new rules & routine from this moment on

a note from me!

frequently asked questions: separated into topics regarding the 3D, self concept + miscellaneous questions to have you leaving this post stress free.

now let’s get into it. read every bit of this post “ ~ ୨୧ ♡ ·

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~Manifestation spell to have unexpected money come your way~

Sacred numbers of abundance ⬇️

777 88 808 520 318 798

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This is all about putting energy and intention into this post.

Like to charge, reblog to cast

Listen to this to manifest abundance

~masterlist~

tysm to the anon who asked me to make this :)

also i have 128 posts, not all are listed. i've excluded anon asks that didn't have any advice, since this masterlist is supposed to be just my advice posts. they're also in order from oldest to most recent

self improvement journal prompts

how to be your best

how to be confident

romanticizing life

learning to live/dealing with social media addiction

how to improve

healthy habits that changed my life

becoming your highest self

starting the day off right

basic beauty tips

becoming more positive

reinvent yourself

school advice

how to become "that girl"

living a healthier lifestyle

school advice pt. 2

how i changed my life/my self improvement journey

habits for success

homework tips

putting yourself first

how to be confident pt 2

period advice

becoming "high value"

tips to become healthier

starting small

dealing with rude/unkind people- anon asks

it girl: alexa demie

getting through rough times

starting the day (similar to earlier post)

it girl: marilyn monroe

how to feel good without makeup

coquette gift ideas

becoming happier

ways to get into the christmas spirit

reset

coquette styling/outift building- anon asks

my beauty routine

what helps my mental health

glowing up for the new year

my focus going into 2023

healing your inner child

how to feel energized

don't lower your standards

getting out of a slump/getting motivation- anon asks

how to be organized- anon asks

feeling feminine

how to feel like a princess

self improvement mistakes

2023: improving mental health

things to avoid

my new habits

glow up tips

going from a toxic to a non toxic person- anon asks

2023

boosting brain power (one of my fav posts that i've made)

becoming your dream you

getting over a guy- anon asks

travelling alone- anon asks

simple habits that can change your life

ways to improve health pt. 2

motivation with studying/avoiding procrastination- anon asks

becoming productive

bringing joy into your life

giant advice post (getting ones life back together, finding oneself, self love, aesthetics, saving money and finding a vibe)- anon asks

fixing your sleep schedule

self improvement made simple

weekend reset

healthy breakfast ideas- anon asks

affordable skincare reccomendations

tips for being sick/sore throat- anon asks

that girl reminders

letting go of the past

organize your life

hair tips for 2a hair- anon asks

self deprication and self love

increasing costumer reach on your page- anon asks

energy drainers

combatting procrastination

balance

making new friends/being likeable- anon asks

positive and negative influences

dealing with guilt and regret + growing- anon asks

recipe recommendations (except i can barely cook)

being taken seriously

cultivating kindness- anon asks

things to do when you're bored

being respectful

look put together

accepting your flaws. (idk y but this one has a period in its title)

habits that have changed my life pt. 2 (more in depth)

finding a signature scent- anon asks

making friends

style advice- anon asks

shopping smartly

fiixing sleed schedule/dealing with distractions- anon asks

it girl: hedy lamarr

dealing with negative emotions

making a good first impression- anon asks

how to be self disciplined with 0 motivation- anon asks

TWICE x Cosmopolitan (2022)

Remain disciplined. Stay strong. Nothing can stop you if you don’t stop for anything. When it gets painful push harder. Have discipline to keep going when it hurts. Life gives you what you deserve. Work for it. Sacrifice for it. Give your all. Otherwise you won’t get it. Show your character. Remain disciplined. Stay strong. Don’t say “why me?!” Say “try me!” Keep going even when you don’t see results. Be strong. Be brave, remain disciplined and your time will come.

-Spotify “Fearless Motivation” Playlist

Not too long ago I had an anon ask me how to fake it till she makes it in manifesting her luxury lifestyle. I gave a bit of advice (you should read that before finishing this) but I want to elaborate more on a certain aspect that is crucial to obtaining an ideal life: becoming your ideal self. That ask was focused on lifestyle, but what about the self glow-up? That’s where this guide comes in. I see a lot of guides where the OP tells you the type of woman you should become, and it’s usually based on their own idea of what is desirable. This is different. This is a barebones guide that requires you to think hard about yourself and what would satisfy you to live in your own skin. To no longer wish to be anyone else. To be the best version of YOU. Who is the the ideal woman you are aspiring to be?

Here’s how to start:

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Step 1: describe your dream girl and create a list of 12 essential qualities/skills she has. Things that are controllable by a person themselves, not reliant on another person or location. (Good: she drinks tea every day. Bad: her boyfriend makes tea for her every day)

Step 2: make a list of how you can acquire those qualities

Step 3: dedicate one quality to each month of the year and for every single day of that month, cultivate habits that will make those qualities now belong to you. 30 days is a great amount of time to build a habit that you can continue on with even after the target date has passed. It’s not too long to feel scary but it’s long enough to make really good progress. Plus you won’t feel overwhelmed about doing all of these new things at once. Just one quality at a time :)

Step 4: after 12 months, you will have dedicated 365 days to your own personal growth and transformation and will now emerge a brand new woman.

To make this even easier on you, I will create an example using a mix of things that are about me.

My dream girl is: a beautiful and fit domestic goddess who speaks multiple foreign languages, plays instruments, is a wiz in the kitchen, and has a killer style

12 qualities to create her:

Takes expert care of her outward appearance

Eats healthy and works out every day

Speaks french

Speaks korean

Speaks spanish

Plays piano

Cooks a proper meal every day

Always dresses well no matter what

Keeps her home spic and span

Manages her emotions well to always be kind and composed to others instead of combative and volatile

Is a minimalist

Studies hard in school

(When you make your list of 12 qualities, don’t worry about making them perfectly correspond to a certain month just yet. First, just get them all written down and then you can rearrange it later. For the sake of this, let’s just pretend that mine are in a perfect order as is)

January: takes expert care of her outward appearance

For January, I will spend 31 days focused on beauty. Every single morning and night I will do my skincare routine, a face mask, use my serums and exfoliants (when necessary), and make sure to apply sunscreen. I will get a skincare consultation if needed, I will schedule a dentist appointment or do at home teeth whitening treatments. I will take a bubble bath once a day and always make sure that I’m exfoliated. I will always make time to shave/wax/epilate/whatever and maintain manicured nails and eyebrows. My hair care will be completely on point because my hair will always be deep conditioned, well moisturized, and styled to perfection.

(Keep a log and make sure to do this every single day. You will now be in the habit of taking care of your external appearance and will be used to looking and feeling a certain way)

February: eats healthy and works out every day

For February, I will find a list of healthy breakfasts, lunches, and dinners and make sure to use them as my eating guide. I will watch my calories and eat foods that nourish my body. I will cut out sugary drinks and extra sweets and do a workout for at least 30 minutes every day. I will watch a lot of content on health and fitness to keep me on track and make sure that I know what I’m doing.

(Keep a log and make sure to do this every single day. You will now be in the habit of making and eating healthy foods, have a 30 day workout streak, and will have a new relationship with your health and fitness. Because you have successfully committed a whole month to this lifestyle, it will be easier to keep it going to reach your body goals)

March: speaks French

For March, I will study french every day for at least an hour. I will watch french movies and tv shows, learn grammar and memorize vocabulary. I will always keep my flashcards on an app and study them frequently so that I don’t forget anything. I will find a french language exchange partner online and talk to them everyday so they can correct my mistakes.

(Keep a log and make sure to do this every day. You will now be in the habit of studying a foreign language for a dedicated amount of time each and every day. This will get you to a strong start and make it much easier for you to continue learning the language as time moves forward)

November: is a minimalist

For November I will focus on living a minimalist lifestyle and being intentional with the items I allow into my space. I will go through my whole house and declutter all of the things that I don’t need. I will not buy things this month unless they are essentials to me and my growth. I will watch/read a lot of content on consumerism and try to understand why I own so many things. I will have a better relationship with my possessions and take better care of the things I own so that I won’t need to keep buying new ones.

(Keep a log and make sure to do this every day. You will form a better relationship with your possessions and learn to let go of unimportant things. This will build the habit of being mindful of the things you allow into your space and allowing you to make better buying choices in the future)

You get the idea. So basically you will elaborate on each of the 12 qualities and make it very clear what your daily goals are for that month. The most important thing is to stick to it. You have to build the habit so that it becomes your new normal. This is how you acquire a new lifestyle and persona. You do it every day until it’s your default setting. You don’t call someone an a good student because they got an A one time, right? You call them a good student because they consistently demonstrate the actions that makes one a good student on a daily basis.

“But 2pretty! How can I stick to these things every day? What if I don’t feel like it sometimes?”

It’s all about discipline and consistency. Having your effort correspond to how badly you want something. Focusing on the big picture and sacrificing a little bit of comfort. Choosing to be your most excellent self rather than the easiness of staying the same. Growth is hard! But that’s what makes it worth it.

You all can sit here and read level up posts until you turn blue in the face but the fact of the matter is, The Ideal You can only emerge if you put in the work to become her. I believe in you.

I can’t wait to meet the new you in 12 months. See ya then.

living near the lake in the cottage surrounded by forest, spending time swimming in the little boat, resting in the garden with the book, growing flowers, wearing big cotton shirts and long skirts, and enjoying warm weather

Dog’s favorite view 

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You're so inspiring and your blog is so cute and aesthetic, I just wish I had the motivation or willpower to do anything, or let alone the discipline for any of it. I've tried but it never turns out good and I almost feel like giving up

hey honey 🤍

start by stop worrying about it, change the way you look at it, tell yourself that you are capable of doing anything and you always feel very motivated what do you want to do? do you want to create healthier habits in your life? commit yourself to do it, make it your goal, but always remember to start small for me what has helped me the most to stay motivated are two things: small daily goals and a good routine

for example, when i started on this "journey" i was motivated to start incorporating little by little healthier habits into my days, like starting to do 10 minutes of exercise every day, here you say what you want for your days, what is it that you want to feel motivated to do for this, you can support yourself with a journal, start writing either in a notebook or on your phone 3 things you want to achieve during the day and commit yourself to fulfill, believe you will feel very satisfied and that will give you motivation

and the routine can really help you feel motivated because liking your routine is what gets you up and energized to start your day every morning. i always say, you're not going to create the perfect routine in a week, but you can try it out until you find what works best for you, and don't be afraid to change anything! on my blog, you can find many examples of routines that you can try out

and the best way to stay motivated is to start being aware that this is a promise you make to yourself and do it for you, to get everything you want

have a beautiful day and i hope I have inspired you 🤍🧿✨