Iwishyouwerehere001 - Daisiesandpoetry

An open letter to Lauren Jauregui

Dear Lauren,

I am an eighteen-year-old queer woman from a ‘third world’ country, that is nowhere near to Latinx culture or America. We have a hard time finding ourselves and finding people like us around here, in India, although it is changing pretty fast. In such a scenario, people like you give us a lot of hope and courage and help us believe that yes, we are valid.

Now I could’ve written this before, or a few months later, or never at all, considering you might never read it. But this is coming after your recent podcast interview with Becky G where you said a lot of stuff, that hurt me, and it pains me you had to go through stuff like that as a teenager. Traumas internalized during teenage years can change you totally as a person, but mostly, it remains in some form of the other, haunting us for the rest of our lives.

It was heartbreaking to hear how you were bullied by your friends in your predominantly Christian school. It was heartbreaking to hear how your family wasn’t necessarily very queer loving at first. But you know what was the most heartbreaking? To hear you never acknowledge your other bandmates, who spent more time with you than your family. Never acknowledge a certain Camila Cabello, who was raised in the same culture as you were and is vocal about her allyship, even if we disregard for a second that she might be queer too.

I hate how you could never open up about your internalized homophobia to people who loved you. Being ‘fans’ that you so much hate with a passion, we, unfortunately, monitored every step of yours. Well not me personally, I’m only 18 now, and I didn’t even know about you 2 years ago.  I speak for everybody like me. It is unfortunate how closely we monitored you, but we saw Dinah Jane not opening her mouth for once, trash-talking Camila when she left the group. We regrettably thought those friendships were real.  We saw how a fifteen-year-old Camila looked up to you and respected you and stuck to you like a leech. It is kind of heartbreaking how you acknowledged her for only the rumors, but never as a friend who might have helped you accept yourself.

It is none of our businesses to be invasive about who you sleep with. I will apologize on behalf of every goddamn Camren shipper to exist. But I will also tell you that WE WERE THE ONLY ONES WHO NEVER JUDGED YOU FOR YOUR SEXUALITY, WHO WERE SUPPORTIVE ABOUT EVERY GODDAMN THING YOU DID, EVEN AFTER YOUR MULTIPLE DISPLAYS OF PURE HATRED FOR US.

If your traumas of accepting yourself as a femme presenting bisexual woman stemmed from the numerous fanfictions, it is very sad. But somehow Camren shippers knew about you before you knew about it yourself. Yes, it can be very daunting for someone as strong-headed and sure of themselves as sixteen year old you wanted herself to be, but if you could, for once be, vulnerable to us and talked about how these were affecting you, instead of reprimanding us brutally and denying your sexuality multiple times till you were outed, I think it would kill the Camren rumors much more effectively.

Remember that your fans will always love you with a passion no matter what you do because you have given us enough art and love as ember for our hearts,  for us to sustain ourselves for a century. That passion might come off as a little obsessive at some times, you can hate us for that, but we’re sorry we love you too much to ever judge you very harshly.

 Now for the rumors that you brought down for the umpteenth time. I have a few questions, Camila style:

1)      Why does Camila continually write about a green-eyed person even though all her boyfriends have brown or hazel eyes and Michael Clifford is engaged?

2)      Why did you tweet that synchronicity message?

3)      Why are you not friends with her anymore even platonically? She was one of your best friends in the group like Normani or Dinah.

Lastly, I want to tell you why we ship you guys with a passion. Sorry for putting together disturbing clips. But maybe they disturbed you because we didn’t conjure them out of thin air. After all, you people very much did all of that. Let’s say it was all fake and you guys were just friends being overly affectionate. But you two presented us with a hope that we needed to identify with. A hope that it was okay for two perfectly feminine cis women to be head over heels in love with each other since their teenage years. It gave us material that we only dreamed of for our own lives.  Can you blame people for idolizing a perfect yet tragic love? Every time we hear songs like consequences or questions, we bawl our eyes out. It’s not because we fetishize you in bed together. It is because we intensely crave you to be happy and we want something as meaningful in our lives that can birth songs like that.

I think you should be a little glad that when all your friends and family could ostracize you for being gay, we were the only community who were ready to embrace you for YOU, no strings attached.

And please apologize to Camila for outing her as straight. She will be heartbroken.

With a lot of respect,

Basudha (bet you can’t pronounce my name, I’m Indian)

Shoutout to @stuckinapatriarchalbullshitland @emisonme @sun-to-my-luna and @into-control for being extremely sensitive and perceptive. Shoutout to @artfromjoh for being so creative . Shoutout to Blake0Tyler on Wattpad for writing a masterpiece that took Lauren’s internalised homophobia into consideration. I have to say this. Lauren hates us here, but Camren shippers are actually creative as fuck and talented as fuck and deep as fuck. It’s a shame she couldn’t pick one of these amazing people and anonymously pour her heart out.

Can’t believe saphics aren’t giving them the love they deserve 🥺♥️ #rosmello

I had like a friend…

imagine being this beautiful

Romance///ArtWork

Women. Women loving women. Men loving men. Love. Art. Matriarchy. Ancient Greece Mythology. If I had to define Camila’s art work in Romance the words I mentioned above I think they could express what I see on the album cover.

No wonder Camila’s desperate PR circus with Señorito in this case. They have created a whole “heterosexual” show so that Camila had full freedom (or everything they wanted to give her) to express what ROMANCE means to her.

And this meaning brings us to this other image of the art work of Romance

In the image we can see two different concepts but at the same time they go hand in hand with what we have known about Camila. The first part is the part of ancient Greece and the goddesses, priestess, the matriarchy … the women.

And this image can also be very related, (next to the cover of Romance) with Lauren’s post about women and her song Burning. 

Women loving women

Both girls have agreed to teach us that Greek mythology has to do with their music. If we remember, in ancient Greece, same-sex couples were not unusual. It was a matriarchal age in some aspects and very patriarchal in others but I will not go deeper into that subject because it is not the most important thing in this case. What really caught my attention in Romance’s second art work was the image of Camila holding a kind of red apple pierced by three daggers.

At least it’s what I see but it’s not the most important thing either. That image of her with that in her hand looks a lot like the representation of a tarot card called three of spades

It is a heart pierced by three swords and its meaning is not very happy that we say

(We all know who was the rose also)

Another thing that caught my attention on the cover is that the apple seems to be “bleeding” between Camila’s fingers and the other end of the apple has flowers. The image of the tarot card has a rose and in another of Camila’s works of art they also have roses

The most curious thing about this cover is that I remember posting a video of reading tarot cards about Shonmila where the girl who reads the tarot cards mentions that Camila has been involved in three relationships but that there is one of them that she cannot forget and that It’s about the past because the girl with the cards pulled out a card with three images. Right now I don’t remember if the tarot card was a three of spades or three of pentacles but it was a three and three meant THREE PEOPLE. Three people related to Camila. Two from her past and one from her present. Her present we already know what circus it is, her past has had a circus and a real relationship where the same girl from the tarot cards asked if Camila was engaged. In the artwork Camila is holding the apple (the hearts, her heart) with three daggers. A lot of a coincidence, isn’t? But the cover not only has the apple representing her heart but also butterflies flying around her and perched on her hair and body. The butterfly is a symbol that represents it completely and that it has been doing since 2016, long before the current fucking it has and that they have wanted to link to it just because señorito has a butterfly tattoo. Idiots. (I’ll edit the post with the link when I find it)

What the butterfly means is also interesting because knowing the meaning so painful that the apple / heart has, the butterfly comes to mean rebirth, endurance, change and life.

Camila is a survivor and she has proved it by far. She has loved so much and at the same time suffered so much for love that she would not mind going through the same suffering again and again if in the end she is able to be with that special person to whom she has dedicated almost all her music.

Don’t forget folks, this is my own interpretation of the images. probably I’m wrong and Camila will explain it differently, but this is just my vision, thanks for reading.

// pastel purple thunderstorm with daisies //

requested by @hues-of-purple

Girl you’re going to be the end of me 🥵