compliment people more often
pick up a crafty hobby
start to learn a language that you've always wanted to speak
take more photos and videos
watch movies, documentaries, shows, read, write, etc etc..
practice your makeup skills and try different styles
law of affirmation
start a blog (or just read mine hehe <3)
write essays on whatever interests you at the moment
make new playlists and update old ones
workout, stretch, go for walks
allow yourself to be bored sometimes; you don't have to constantly be doing things
talk to yourself with love and kindness
go thrifting and update your wardrobe
try new coffee shops and find your favourite one
embody the energy that you'd like to attract
dress up every day, you don't need a special occasion to wear your favourite outfits
decorate and rearrange your room until it feels like you
journal and write about your day, dreams, and ideas
manifest and visualise
reach out to your friends more often
visit more museums and art galleries
talk to the moon
As always, please feel free to share your own suggestions and tips in the comments! <3
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a guide to looking effortlessly perfect
"You’ve got the false narrative of a girl who spends 30 seconds on her appearance, when, in fact, you probably spent hours.”
1. basic hygiene:
having clean teeth and good breath
smelling good 24/7. i highly recommend finding a signature scent as a scent is associated with memory, id suggest something sweet yet not too overpowering like vanilla.
being clean in general. regularly shaving and exfoliating your skin to get rid of bodily hair and dirt that accumulates on your skin to make your skin glow.
clean nails. having clean and maintained nails (with a simple design if you wish) looks better than having acrylics that are wayyy too long and appear tacky.
2. hair :
having smooth healthy hair looks much better than dry and damaged hair. take care of your hair by finding the best products for your natural hair. get rid of your split ends as they make the hair appear really damaged.
in my opinion, loose waves look the most effortless yet pretty. but don’t ruin your natural hair by applying too much heat! you can try heatless styling methods to achieve this look.
3. diet and exercise :
being toned is the way to go to fit this aesthetic
avoid oily foods or sugary foods that damage your skin. don’t completely get rid of these as we all have our cravings, but try your best to avoid it
find a workout plan that works best for you, keeps you healthy but doesn’t burn you out! moreover exercise releases endorphins that improve your mood.
4. makeup and skin care :
natural makeup on clear skin fits this effortless aesthetic perfectly!
take care of your skin by finding a routine that fits you the best, consult with a dermatologist for the best results.
having smooth, blended makeup creates an illusion that you aren’t wearing any at all! this appears much effortless than a full face. also try to avoid those really huge false lashes that make you look tacky.
maintain your eyebrows and find a shape that fits you best!
5. outfits :
having a signature style which suits your body type is essential. experiment until you can find what suits you best! you can use a body analysis app for this.
wearing outfits you’re confident in, hot but not too revealing goes a long way. confidence is key. wearing overly revealing clothing might seem like one is trying too hard, but if you can carry it with confidence then that’s great!
jewellery : having dainty, signature pieces is key! find out which suits you better (gold or silver) through an ai analysis and invest in timeless pieces. personally, i think minimalistic pieces such as solitaires, simple pendants, classic hoops etc. look much more effortless.
6. personality :
don’t be too judgemental towards anyone as you don’t know what they’re going through and this makes you seem unapproachable
don’t talk too much or overshare! this creates a mysterious aura which draws people to you more
confidence is key! posture is very important too, carry yourself with confidence and walk with your head held up high.
7. examples and references :
serena van der woodsen (gossip girl)
mia thermopolis (the princess diaries)
cher (clueless)
elle woods (legally blonde)
rory gilmore (gilmore girls)
robin scherbatsky (how i met your mother)
gigi hadid
Some of my fave personal spreads 😊
Rezept :
Insgesamt = ca. 601 kcal (statt ca. 1200)
Teig :
100g Mehl
7g Hefe
Salz
50g Joghurt 1,5%
80ml warmes Wasser
Hefe in eine Schüssel, Wasser dazu geben und verrühren. Nun Mehl, Joghurt und Salz hinzufügen und gut verkneten. Mit einem Geschirrtuch abdecken und 30 Minuten an einem warmen Ort gehen lassen.
Wenn der Teig aufgegangen ist ein Backblech mit etwas Mehl bestäuben und alles mit einem EL aus der Schüssel kratzen und in der gewünschte Form verstreichen. Nun für 10 Minuten bei 200°C Umluft vorbacken.
Belag :
80g Passierte Tomaten
50g Geriebener Käse light
15g Putenschinken
15g Gutfried Geflügelsalami
80g Champions
35g Zwiebeln
Salz
Pfeffer
Italienische Gewürze
Die passierten Tomaten mit allen Gewürzen vermengen und beiseite stellen. Zwiebeln, Salami, Putenschinken und Champions klein schneiden. Wenn der Boden etwas angebacken ist, raus holen, Sauce darauf verteilen. Nun die restlichen klein geschnitten Zutaten darüber verteilen. Zum Schluss den Käse gleichmäßig darüber geben und nochmal für 15 Minuten bei 200 °C Umluft backen.
Wer kein Fleisch mag, kann die Pizza natürlich auch mit anderen Dingen belegen. Der Teig allein hat ca. 388 kcal und kann ein ganzes Blech abdecken.
Gutes gelingen! 😊
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