A Really Needed Father’s Hug

I know we’ve all been waiting for the impending Ladynoir fight/fallout, but this line makes me wonder if it’s going to really be much of a fight at all. This whole moment was absolutely heartbreaking because he just sounds so resigned to it, like he truly believes he has no use to her anymore. It punched me in the gut almost immediately, but it also struck me how different of a reaction it was from his previous reactions we’ve seen this season. He doesn’t seem so angry anymore, and it makes me wonder if by the end of the season instead of accusing Ladybug of ignoring him/leaving him out, if he’s just going to offer his Miraculous to her silently somehow. Just resign from being Chat Noir entirely because he thinks it’ll be what’s best.

Adrien's anger is a direct parallel and learned behavior from his father. Remember how Gabriel destroyed that front room over A BOOK and Adrien's response wasn't of shock, but of sadness? He's used to this behavior from his father. Adrien also has an expectation placed upon him to always be perfect and avoid showing his emotions (I mean Gabriel outright compared him to his emotional mother when Adrien confronted him in the past), so it's no wonder he experiences emotional outbursts due to holding everything in for too long. Even at the end of senti bubbler he smiles with ladybug and pretends he's okay, but he's not. Maybe he's not even fully aware of the resentment that's brewing, and/or he's afraid of ladybug's reaction if he expressed his concerns because of how he's used to his father reacting to conflict. The difference between Adrien and Gabriel though is that Adrien seemed to regret destroying that wall and said "I guess miraculous ladybug will fix it," and he stopped himself from destroying that christmas tree, whereas Gabriel has rarely if ever shown remorse for his anger. It shows that Adrien has room for growth, while Gabriel is almost irredeemable

Ladynoir doodle dumpppp

Part 152 of my bakery “enemies” au!

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gabriel agreste killed himself so everyone could be gay

based on this post by @settledownsummer :3333

Not people saying Adrien “lost all character development by the end of the episode” 💀 When are people going to realize losing their feelings for their original love interests is NOT character development and doesn’t resolve anything lmao. There’s nothing wrong with them being in love. This is a romance series ffs. Enough of that “reverse the lovesquare” bs

They need to learn how to HANDLE their feelings. They need to learn how to be themselves around their crushes. They need to be the ones to take initiative to overcome their personal barriers and show their crushes who they really are. That’s character development. 

Y’all, Adrien literally experienced THE most important character development in regards to the romance plot. Hearing Marinette’s confession about how she acts around her crush, and how she thought her crush was stuck up and pretentious before she realized how kind and genuine and sensitive he could be and fell for him, made Adrien finally realize what’s been holding him back. Adrien finally realized he needs to stop playing casanova and crossing Ladybug’s boundaries and just be himself - i.e. kind, genuine, and sensitive - to have a chance at Ladybug returning his feelings. This means Ladybug is finally going to be able to see ADRIEN shine through Chat Noir.

Recall Origins, where Marinette realized she was wrong in what she initially thought of Adrien after he opened up to her about how new he is to school and friendship, and she fell in love with him after seeing his kindness and vulnerability.

Now we’re moving towards that repeating with Ladynoir - and this time Ladybug will see Chat Noir’s vulnerabilities. We’re now closer than ever to not only having Ladybug realize her feelings for Chat Noir, but also to her eventually learning and coming to terms with his identity, which is something she hasn’t considered at all thus far, unlike how Adrien has already thought about Marinette being Ladybug. And given how it’s been foreshadowed all season, I’ve been betting on Ladybug learning Chat Noir’s identity by the end of this season — whether it happens this season or later, this is a big step in warming her up to seeing the resemblance before it happens.

Adrien realized he has to be genuine and vulnerable with Ladybug if he wants any chance of her truly loving him. THAT’S HUGE. That’s the realization he’s been needing to make for three and a half seasons. That’s the realization Kagami was trying to get him to make in the art room scene back in Lies -

That even when he’s being silly he’s still playing a character and not being genuine. He wears the mask of a perfect dutiful son as Adrien. He doesn’t stop wearing a mask as Chat Noir – he puts on a different one. One where he can ignore and hide all his vulnerabilities and loneliness and solely play the part of the charming, funny Cat-sanova with superpowers. Just because it’s a character he LIKES playing doesn’t make it any less of a character. He wasn’t ready to come that realization then, but he’s done it now.

And what did he do in the very next ep that comes after this one?

He was vulnerable and honest with her about his feelings. He opened up about how terrified he is of losing her, of being abandoned. It can’t have been easy given what we know about what happened with his mother, and you can see that it wasn’t easy for him – his voice wavers and he curls in on himself and looks away from her. But it worked, and it brought her closer to him – both literally with her hand on his, and emotionally, by softening her up to him more and helping her understand him a bit better and finally allowing her to give him heartfelt reassurance.

Hate how the show just never addresses that even though the entire hero squad got there identities revealed, ladybug still gave them their miraculous back even though she explicitly said that she can’t give them back…

“We were in love.”