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Why should you support, or at least respect, paraphiles?

Stupid little [informational] rant on why there's nothing wrong with paraphilias and paraphilic disorders, yes that includes the bad ones, and why anti-paraphilia is technically ableist. "S-so i'm ableist for not liking pedophilia?!" shut up and listen.

Before I go all out here's some terms you should know ;

anti-contact : someone who doesn't support *practicing paraphilias, more specifically ones that cannot be consented to.

pro-contact : someone who supports *practicing paraphilias

there's also neu-contact, complex-contact, blah blah

*practicing : a paraphile who practices (acts on) their paraphilia

non-practicing : a paraphile who doesn't practice (act on) their paraphilia

okay keep reading for the actual reasons, please repost to spread awareness /nf.

To start, paraphilias are completely uncontrollable just like any other fetish or even mental condition. Their causes are mostly trauma, internet exposure at a young age, and sometimes can be passed down through genetics. Again, they cannot control any of those, so why judge them for it?

Because of the way paraphilias are looked down on, it makes it difficult for them to seek treatment or even supportive communities. Especially younger paraphiles who may not be in a good environment or feel too ashamed to tell anyone about it. Not being able to get help can lead paraphiles to harm others or themselves.

Paraphiles do not choose to be paraphiles, they do choose however, whether they act on their paraphilia or not. If you still don't understand, let me explain it in a different light. Take NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) for example, people view those with that disorder as horrible and abusive (which isn't true mind you.) NPD is also caused by trauma or genetics, and narcissists have the choice of being abusive or not, just like any other person.

So what makes it so different from other mental conditions, especially since paraphilic disorders are also a thing? They're only viewed horribly because of the stereotypes, just like almost every mental condition. Does that make them deserving of being discriminated against, for something they have no control over?

Now take anti-para and replace it with something else, like anti-PTSD or anti-hypersexual, now that doesn't sound like something you'd want to be, does it? Be support of all neurodivergent / mentally disabled people, not just some.

why do you have asks enabled when you appertly get death threats and never answer any asks? do you not know how to turn them off?

i actually haven't gotten any asks since I haven't been quite active on Tumblr till recently,,,

as for the death threats,, I find it entertaining to watch an anti self destruct in my mailbox over pngs =w=

i do know how to turn them off though, don't worry

HELP I-😭 I DECIDED TO WEAR A PROSHIP SHIRT IN SCHOOL AND THE BOYS YELLED "WOW PROSHIP!" AND I INTRODUCED MYSELF(I have a proship voice lol) AND THEY ALL STARTED SHARING THEIR PROSHIP OTPS😭😭

crying because what did they think this was gonna do

when she says she doesn’t send nudes

Dottore from Genshin Impact!

Dottore from Genshin Impact is pro ship and pro para!

(I hope this is the right character 😅)

"...reblogged your post" ok so you want to fuck me?

sometimes I like arguing with antis who disrespect their own dni for the hell of it because it always has me crying laughing they're always so pressed about nothing at all

literally this image,,,

Me: I don't like getting into drama

Also me:

like to charge reblog to cast

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