Like To Charge, Reblog To Cast

wrote a fanfic and posted it to ao3. was literally shot in the chest with a comment from a guest that said, and I quote, "there is the dark web for stuff like this that I think you would like. leave these characters alone and go participate in your degeneracy somewhere else, you disgusting freak."

ME????? I'M THE DISGUSTING FREAK???

Ok, since antishippers make my brain fry with the amount of shit they say, reblog this post with the most shocking experience you ever had with an anti, since i'm really curious

Why should you support, or at least respect, paraphiles?

Stupid little [informational] rant on why there's nothing wrong with paraphilias and paraphilic disorders, yes that includes the bad ones, and why anti-paraphilia is technically ableist. "S-so i'm ableist for not liking pedophilia?!" shut up and listen.

Before I go all out here's some terms you should know ;

anti-contact : someone who doesn't support *practicing paraphilias, more specifically ones that cannot be consented to.

pro-contact : someone who supports *practicing paraphilias

there's also neu-contact, complex-contact, blah blah

*practicing : a paraphile who practices (acts on) their paraphilia

non-practicing : a paraphile who doesn't practice (act on) their paraphilia

okay keep reading for the actual reasons, please repost to spread awareness /nf.

To start, paraphilias are completely uncontrollable just like any other fetish or even mental condition. Their causes are mostly trauma, internet exposure at a young age, and sometimes can be passed down through genetics. Again, they cannot control any of those, so why judge them for it?

Because of the way paraphilias are looked down on, it makes it difficult for them to seek treatment or even supportive communities. Especially younger paraphiles who may not be in a good environment or feel too ashamed to tell anyone about it. Not being able to get help can lead paraphiles to harm others or themselves.

Paraphiles do not choose to be paraphiles, they do choose however, whether they act on their paraphilia or not. If you still don't understand, let me explain it in a different light. Take NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) for example, people view those with that disorder as horrible and abusive (which isn't true mind you.) NPD is also caused by trauma or genetics, and narcissists have the choice of being abusive or not, just like any other person.

So what makes it so different from other mental conditions, especially since paraphilic disorders are also a thing? They're only viewed horribly because of the stereotypes, just like almost every mental condition. Does that make them deserving of being discriminated against, for something they have no control over?

Now take anti-para and replace it with something else, like anti-PTSD or anti-hypersexual, now that doesn't sound like something you'd want to be, does it? Be support of all neurodivergent / mentally disabled people, not just some.

Selfshipping because I'm allowed to.

destroy each other anon: it would be in the most poetic and beautiful way 💗

I'd love that,,, =w=

which one of u was going to tell me that tea tastes different if u put it in hot water?

people after touching me in a flirting way after I explicity told them to fucking stop, knowing that it makes me extremely uncomfortable

"You should go talk to a therapist" and you should listen to all the therapies that say being into taboo fiction is okay!

this art is making me feel things

Hmmm....evil lion

when she says she doesn’t send nudes