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BDSM Links And Resources

I thought I would update the list of BDSM links and resources I posted a while ago, as some links were no longer working and I had several new ones to add, including a list of books. These should be particularly helpful to those who are new to BDSM and looking to explore D/s relationships, as the best way to go about that is to first read everything you can and then read even more! Not only will this allow you to educate yourself, help keep you safe and avoid any potential mistakes or regrets, but also the more you understand something, the less intimidating it will seem.

If you have anything to add, please don’t hesitate to let me know and I will update this list, in particular if there any books that a submissive might find helpful or informative, as most of the books I have read or included are intended for Dominants.

Note: For the sake of consistency and readability, I have used capitals throughout this document and have not used lower case when referring to submissives or slaves.

Websites:

Babygirls ‘n’ Daddy Doms: Website dedicated to littles, babygirls and Daddy Doms, with a lot of useful information on the subject.

Collarme: A free BDSM dating website and community, that is probably the most popular and a better option than the commercial alternatives.

DS Arts: Academy of DS Arts, fairly self explanatory.

Evil Monk: Ambrosio’s BDSM Website, featuring many useful articles.

Fetlife: An online BDSM community that I would highly recommend and which is perhaps best described as Facebook for the kinky, allowing users to create a profile, publish photos or writing and join interest groups where you can ask questions.

Kink Academy: An online resource with many educational and instructional videos on various aspects of BDSM, although users must pay a small fee to access all of the content.

Submissive Guide: As the name suggests, this is an online resource for submissives.

The Iron Gate: A general BDSM online resource, with many aticles, essays and even stories on the subject.

Dating and Relationships:

10 Principles For Healthy 24/7 D/s And M/s (Source: sexgeek.wordpress.com)

Difference of Dynamics in BDSM (Source: the-little-kitten.tumblr.com)

Finding Your Dominant (Source: asubmissivesjourney.com)

How To Find A Partner (Source: Jack Rinella / leathernews.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 1 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 2 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Initiating a Discussion About BDSM Interest with a Vanilla Partner Part 3 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

So You Want Your Boyfriend To Dominate You (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate Her (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

The Unfortunate But Common Misconceptions About DD/lg Relationships (Source: a-lolitas-life.tumblr.com)

Play:

Consent Is Mandatory And Non-Negotiable (Source: fortheloveofasub.tumblr.com)

Food Play (Source: bdsmsadomasochism.tumblr.com)

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive (Source: domwithpen.tumblr.com)

Initial Steps Into Orgasm on Command Training (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Rules and Tasks for Building Confidence (Source: themostdangerousplaything.tumblr.com)

Tools of Consent in BDSM (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Training in D/s - Why? (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Training in D/s - How? (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Training in D/s - Thoughts And Concerns (Source: her-master.tumblr.com)

Wax Play (Source: bdsmsadomasochism.tumblr.com)

Safety:

Basics Of Safe, Sane And Consensual Power Exchange (Source: Molly Devon / the-iron-gate.com)

Common Sense (Source: Sean R. Powell / the-iron-gate.com)

Emotional Safety (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Offline/Online BDSM Safety Rules (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Ouch Is Not A Safe Word: Safe Words, Limits, and Scene Protocol (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Rules For Meeting Strangers (Source: Jack Rinella / leathernews.com)

Safewords and Safesigns 101 (Source: kinkology.tumblr.com)

S.S.C. VS R.A.C.K. (Source: Justin Medlin / the-iron-gate.com)

Checklists, Communication and Negotiation:

BDSM Play Partner Check List (Source: Sovereign House / the-iron-gate.com)

BDSM Scene Negotiations (Source: daddyvinnie.tumblr.com)

Can I Get That In Writing: Basics of Negotiations (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Communication (Source: submissivesupportgroup.tumblr.com)

If I Ever See Another Checklist I Will Scream: An Extremely Thorough Play Checklist (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Negotiation Forms (Source: Jay Wiseman, SM 101: A Realistic Introduction / greenerypress.com)

What Are Negotiations Good For? (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Sub Drop and Aftercare:

Aftercare for submissives (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Aftercare for Dominants (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Aftercare for Switches (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Emergency Self-Administered Aftercare (Source: Mistress Abode / brairthornblog.wordpress.com)

Sub Drop (Source: David Williams / subshelpingsubs.tripod.com)

Sub Drop and Aftercare (Source: desires-of-a-domimant-man.tumblr.com)

Dominance and Dominants:

A Dominant is NOT… (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Advice to a Novice Dom (Source: Washington Sexuality University / the-iron-gate.com)

Advice to a Novice Dominant (Source: cherhatton.tumblr.com)

An Open Letter To A Novice Dom (Source: evilmonk.org)

Qualities of A Successful Dominant (Source: Polly Peachum / the-iron-gate.com)

Daddy Doms: They’re Not What You Think (Source: edenfantasys.com)

Domination for Nice Guys (Source: Franklin Veaux / the-iron-gate.com)

How To Spot A Non Dominant (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Learning To Be A Dom (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Run Don’t Walk: Warning Signs of A Predator Dom/me Part 1 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Run Don’t Walk: Warning Signs of A Predator Dom/me Part 2 (Source: submissiveguide.com)

Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts - Part One: Dominants (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

The Dominant (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

What Is A Daddy Dom? (Source: babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com)

What Makes A Good Dominant (Source: Kim Debron / kimdebron.tripod.com)

What Should A Dominant Be (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Submission and Submissives:

10 Considerations For Inexperienced Subs (Source: fortheloveofasub.tumblr.com)

A Submissive Bill of Rights (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

A Submissive’s Creed (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

A Submissive’s Ethics (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Introduction To Submission (Source: Kim Debron / kimdebron.tripod.com)

Learning to Trust Your Instincts (Source: bewildbetruebekinkybeyou.tumblr.com)

Red Flags, Warning Signs, and Intuition: Learning to Trust You Instincts- Part 2: Submissives/Slaves (Source: the-iron-gate.com)

Some Rules For The Submissive (Source: daddylookingforhisbaby.tumblr.com)

Submissive Owner’s Manual (Source: youmadememe.tumblr.com)

Ten Tips For The Novice, Heterosexual submissive Woman (Source: Jay Wiseman / the-iron-gate.com)

Warning Signs for Submissives (Source: RC Bauer / the-iron-gate.com)

What Is A Babygirl? (Source: babygirlsndaddydoms.webs.com)

Books:

BDSM: The Naked Truth by Dr Charley Ferrer

Dear Raven and Joshua: Questions and Answers About Master/Slave Relationships by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera

Devil in the Details I: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - The Master, The Slave, The Power by LT Morrison

Devil in the Details II: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - Mastery Refine: The Issues, The Skills by LT Morrison

Devil in the Details III: The Art of Mastery, A Mentoring Trilogy - Sustainable Structure and Traning by LT Morrison

Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by William Brame, Gloria Brame and Jon Jacobs

Living M/s: A Book for Masters, slaves and Their Relationships by Dan and Dawn Williams

Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice by Robert Rubel

Master/slave Relations: Communications 401 by Robert Rubel

Master/slave Relations: Solutions 402, Living in Harmony by Robert Rubel

Protocols: A Variety of Views by Robert Rubel

Real Service by Joshua Tenpenny and Raven Kaldera

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Phillp Miller and Molly Devon

SM101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman

The Control Book by Peter Masters

The Loving Dominant by John and Libby Warren

The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.

The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy.

The Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino

This Curious Human Phenomenon: An Exploration of Some Uncommonly Explored Aspects of BDSM by Peter Masters

Where I Am Led: A Service Exploration Workbook by Christina Parker

Do it or don’t do it — you will regret both.

Søren Kierkegaard, Either/Or (via wordsnquotes)

god I’m such a whore for older men. an older man gives me the slightest bit of attention and I’m practically on my knees for him. I’ll be talking to an older man and as soon as I get an ounce of affection, im a brain dead cumdump that’s willing to slut myself out for him however he wants. he degrades me or talks condescendingly and I’m rubbing my cunt like a bitch in heat just to get his approval 😵‍💫

Her type. The group of girls giggle and talk about what they like. “Oof, tall guys make me melt.” Says one, twirling her hair. “I love a woman with piercings.” Says another dreamily. “Blue eyes. Send help.” Says the third, kicking her feet. “What about you?” The group asks. The shy girl stares out the window, avoiding the question. “I… uh… I… don’t have a type?” Her friends roll their eyes.

The bouncer checks her license thoroughly. She’s used to it. He hands it back suspiciously. “Okay, go ahead.” The group takes over a booth in the busy bar. A few rounds of drinks as they laugh and tell stories. As the designated driver, she sips on her soda. Her eyes scan the crowd, barely paying attention to the anecdotes.

She makes a solo trip to the bar to refill her glass. Standing in line, the man behind her strikes up a conversation. “Hello, can I buy you a drink?” Primed to refuse, the girl turns to look at him and freezes. “eep!” She squeaks. The man is at least two decades older than her, fit and well dressed. Inches away in the crowded space, she babbles incoherently.

“…is that a yes…?” His tone is gentle and calm. The girl awkwardly points at her empty glass. “…uh, soda… just…” She trails off. “Okay, even better.” The man chuckles as they approach the bar. He orders for her, collecting two beverages. Handing her the free drink, the older man tries to carry on their conversation. At a loss for words, she laughs at everything he says. Her eyes keep darting to her friends, terrified they might interrupt.

“I don’t want to keep you too long…” The man reads her nervous disposition. “…can I give you my number?” Her jaw drops. “I… would that be inappropriate…?” Pangs of fear as her friend makes eye contact with her from across the room. Only seconds to make her decision. “Yes! Here, take it…” She snatches his phone from his hands and types in her phone number. A hasty check to make sure she put it in correctly, and she scurries back to her table.

“Ohmygod, was that old guy hitting on you?” One of her friends asks. “Ew, He’s like forty at least.” The girl leaps to his defence. “No! He was just being nice! We were just chatting in line.” The group doesn’t believe it. “I bet he was trying to fuck you. You’re like half his age, what a creep.” She takes an awkward sip of her soda. “…you really think so…?”

The night gets sloppy. She herds her friends into the tiny car and makes sure they all get home safe. At the first stop, one of the drunk girls loses her keys in the cushions and takes forever to fish them out. The girl checks her phone. A text from him. Nice meeting you tonight. Her heart jumps. I hope I didn’t make you too nervous. She hides her screen as she types her reply. Not at all! I thought you were really kind.

“Who’re you texting?” One of the passengers slurs. “Just an email.” She lies. Are you home? Almost, just dropping off my friends. The keys are found. Will you tell me when you are? Yes! Thanks for checking in <3. Another stop, another friend deposited. The girl checks her phone compulsively. Finally, her car is empty. She parks at her house and goes inside.

Home safe! She stares at her screen until he replies. Glad to hear it. She chews on her lip. A quick decision. She taps her reply and tosses the phone on her bed as if it bit her. The girl paces around her room. When it buzzes, the girl pounces on it. Below her home address is his response. You’re pretty close. I can be there in fifteen minutes. She giggles to herself. Great~ see you soon <3

He knocks at her door. She cracks it and peers past him as if her friends would be waiting on the street, judging her. “Uhm, hi.” An awkward greeting. “Hello, miss.” A confident greeting. The girl lets him in. Panic fills her body as he gives her a gentle hug. “I… uhm, I don’t usually do this… I just, uh…”

The older man closes the door behind himself. Turning back, the girl is on her knees. Panic, shame, and embarrassment fill her eyes as she undoes his belt. Irrationally terrified that he’ll run away, or someone will walk in and make fun of their age gap, the girl seizes her opportunity. Wrapping her lips around his soft cock, she starts to suck.

Compared to a younger man, it takes him a minute or two more to get hard. She gets to enjoy feeling him grow in her mouth for a bit longer. His fingers stroke her cheek as she gives him head in the entrance of her home. I hope he likes it. His cock twitches when her tongue runs underneath his shaft. “Ah – good little girl…” She gets wet like a good little girl does.

“Let’s get comfortable.” The man suggests. They strip each other as they work their way through the house. In the kitchen, he pulls down her soaked panties and buries his face between her thighs. “Oh gawsh… you… do that…?” A muffled chuckle as he licks her cunt. “Of course, sweetheart. Your pussy tastes amazing.” He fingers her as she squirms. “I love that, thank you…”

The girl’s stomach drops when he sees her room. Pink and girly and covered in stuffies. “I think it’s cute…” She tries to justify her décor. “I think it’s very cute, too.” He holds her hand, walking the girl to the bed. “You don’t think it’s dumb…?” She spreads her legs, looking for his approval. “You’re a young lady, there’s nothing wrong with having a cute bedroom.” The girl shudders as he licks her pussy again.

“Is this okay?” Naked in her pink sheets, he rubs his cock against her wet hole. She panics. “What, do you mean because I’m too young for you?” The older man kisses her forehead. “I meant the way I’m touching you.” The head of his dick makes circles around her clit. She whimpers, embarrassed again. “…yeah, sorry…” He runs his fingers through her hair.

“Nothing wrong with fucking an older guy, sweetie…” The girl stares up into the faint laugh lines around his eyes. “…just a little hookup…” Her face lights up in a bright smile. “Yeah… You’re right...” She reaches down and touches his cock. “…Just a little hookup…” Guiding him inside her, they feel each other’s warmth. “Oh, yes. God, you’re tight.”

The girl giggles, then gasps as he thrusts inside her. “Mmhm! Tight and wet for you, mister…” Her hands press against his muscled chest. “Might have to be a little rough with me to make it fit.” She bites her lip, still shy. The girl shudders when he growls and forces his cock all the way inside. “Don’t worry kiddo, I’ll make it work.” A shared moan. Kiddo. She presses her lips into his.

He’s strong and firm and cautious and powerful. The experienced man keeps a steady pace, letting her enjoy every thrust. He takes breaks to lick her pussy. He rubs her clit and hugs her close. When he needs her to move, she feels him gently lift her and set her down in just the right spot. The man spanks her with just enough force to make it sting. He chokes her with just enough pressure to make her cum.

She’s soft and pliable and sweet and sexy. The young lady is encouraging and brave, begging and asking for more. She sucks his cock and drools spit onto her pussy. The girl takes his hands and puts them everywhere. Full of youthful energy, she’ll ride his cock for as long as it takes. She lets him use her like a sex toy until he cums inside.

A text from her friend in the morning. Did I forget my jacket at yours? She responds instantaneously. No. I’ll look for it later. I’m busy, don’t come over. The older man laughs at her brash response, reading over her shoulder. They sit in front of her mirror, the girl in his lap, his cock in her pussy. He finishes putting in her pigtails as she grinds on his dick.

“There you go, princess.” The braids start to bounce as her hips drop against his. “Ah! Thank you, daddy… do I look pretty?” He admires the naked girl’s reflection. “You look perfect.” She grins shamelessly, increasing her pace. Worn hands stroke her back. “…Will you hold onto them while you fuck me, daddy…?”

Shout out to subs:

- that need a lil extra hip support when they’re getting fucked.

- that press their inhaler into their dom’s hand before they swallow them down.

- that have aftercare plans including getting their blood glucose levels checked.

- who live with chronic pain but still beg to be slapped around.

- who wear headphones not for the deprevation but to prevent sensory overstimulation.

- who can’t be penetrated but still are a perfect toy.

Shout out to the subs who have altered care plans, modified scenes and who tell a punk ass dom to fuck off if they don’t wanna pay attention to their needs.

ok but like imagine you were tricked into being the office fuckdoll for a night 🙈

you’re brand new to the office and get invited to the office christmas party last second

you accept not knowing the last person to accept the offer has to be entertainment for the night

you get there and are immediately manhandled by a strong male coworker

before you can really begin to struggle and fight back you’re tied down to a table

you’re forcefully stripped naked

everyone can see your pussy absolutely dripping and making a mess

you go to cry but your panties are stuffed in your mouth

it starts with people groping your tits

caresses and squeezes turn to painful pinching and twisting

people start exploring your fuck hole

at first people just give you a rub here and there, some just collecting your girl juices to taste for themselves

one woman temporarily removes your panties to force her fingers down your throat, making you taste your own girl juice

then people start inserting things into your needy hole

you get fingered over and over again, the people fucking you barely acknowledge your presence, chit chatting with other party guests as if you aren’t there, you leak even more

someone forces a beer bottle into your cunt, they rub your clit and force you to have cummies around the bottle

the bottle catches some of your girl cum, you’ve never been more humiliated

then people start pumping your inferiority hole with cocks

at first the men pull out to finish on your tits and your thighs but then they start shooting their hot sperm inside you

the panties in your mouth prevent you from screaming that you’re not on birth control

some of the men grunt filth about breeding your fuck hole anyway, as if they know they can impregnate you

your panties are ripped from your mouth as people begin forcing you to perform oral

cocks and pussies alike take turns sitting on your face, men and women alike forcing you to lick their dirty assholes

at this point though you’ve accepted you’re nothing more than a cumdump

someone starts using the cum from your pussy to lube up your ass, you’re too distracted with the fat cock down your throat and someone pinching your nipples to notice

you can’t even scream when your asshole is r4ped in one swift go by the fattest cock you’ve ever felt in your life

by the end of the night everyone in the office has had their fair share of you, at one point you had 4 dicks inside of you

you had so many cummies and squirtys you lost track, truly being fucked dumb by the end of the night

all of your holes were used, abused, and puffy, you were absolutely covered in cum and you were sure you’d be leaking even more for days

the office had turned you in to their perfect bimbo slut doll

the next time you go into work your tits are hanging out of your blouse and your skirt is so short everyone can see your bare pussy underneath

you understand your new role at the office