I Got Into An Argument With A Friend Of Mine About Relationships And What's Considered Cheating.

I got into an argument with a friend of mine about relationships and what's considered cheating.

They told me it's immediately a red flag if their s/o snatches their phone/hides it from them but like? No it's not? I'm not sure about everyone but I know for a fact that there's people out there who struggled to have privacy growing up.

Parents taking phones and going through it, having friends take it and do stupid shit, etc.. Hiding something from your partner and wanting privacy are two very different things!

I've never been given privacy, especially in my early teen years when I had a phone. My parents would constantly snoop around and ground me for dumb reasons just to have an excuse to look through it. Or they'd read my diary without my consent. My door/locks have been taken away multiple times. That's not right and seriously fucked up. Every human being deserves privacy.

Ask your partner to use their phone. Don't just assume it's free to use when no talks of boundaries have been set. There are conversations with friends and family that they don't want others to see because it's private and meant to be between two people. (Another example I've been put through: My father demanded I tell him the "truth" when I panicked and tried grabbing my phone away from him. My reason? A close friend of mine came out and talked to ME about THEIR feelings and thoughts. No one else was supposed to read that. It's not always because the kid is hiding something horrible like wtf lol)

And yes I understand parents can be worried about online friendships and relationships but at a certain point, when they're old enough to handle themselves mentally and emotionally, parents have no right to take action and steal/take away phones or take down doors/locks.

Respect your partner. Respect your kids. It's not that hard like c'mon now lol.

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Blitzo Has His Priorities As A Father Right Better Than Stolas

Blitzo Has His Priorities As A Father Right Better Than Stolas
Blitzo Has His Priorities As A Father Right Better Than Stolas

Seriously, looking back at these episodes it really hammers how both are as fathers. Even in the face that their wealthy, powerful proprietor is facing assassination, he chooses his daughter's health over being a white knight to this pompous, entitled bird who then is ungrateful that his employees were the ones to save him. On the other hand, when Via needs him the most he will neglect her to focus on his petty squabbles and flirting with his booty call which caused the current strife in the family. She might say he loves her but his actions really contradicts how self-centered he really is towards her regards. He will do the bare minimum after spending the previous time pushing her away. This is in contrast who will put all his focus on Loona when he feels like it is important. What's even more ironic this is from a guy who only had her since she was 17 while Stolas was always with Octavia but as time has gone by he has done less to focus and prioritize her needs over his own. Again why is Stolas called best father when that title should go to Blitzo.

1 year ago

Western colleagues say that it will be almost impossible to classify Russia’s actions as the genocide of Ukrainians. I must reassure you. When genocide comes to your lands, it will be easily recognisable.

It’s when everything inside you freezes from what you’ve seen, your knees go weak and you become speechless. It’s when the realisation comes that the evil committed will have irreversible consequences.

It’s when the enemy daily changes the landscape of your consciousness, and your psyche – the essence of what you are – is forced to form new reactions, habits and broken patterns of behaviour.

It’s when the scale of the catastrophe doesn’t fit in the finite box of your imagination. It’s when it turns out that the previous day’s wrath isn’t sufficient. And you realise you are capable of feeling even stronger rage towards the enemy.

This is when all life is fighting for the future.

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An Octopus Unscrewing A Lid From The Inside.
An Octopus Unscrewing A Lid From The Inside.
An Octopus Unscrewing A Lid From The Inside.

An Octopus unscrewing a lid from the inside.

1 year ago

shein has taken down the selling of the israeli flag, stopped its collaborations with the country's influences and also cancelled free delivery services to the country. do you know how fucking insidious you have to be for SHEIN to cut ties with you??? SHEIN???!!!

it makes me physically ill. a Palestinian on twitter's last post was about burying their six-year-old cousin without his head. a Palestinian boy on youtube dreamt of 100k subscribers on his gaming channel. and yesterday he reached 500k, but he has been killed in the bombing of the gaza strip. the class of 2023-24 in Palestine has ended early because there is no student left alive. literal children who were the teachers, artists, doctors, scientists, scholars, writers, engineers of tomorrow.

when is it enough? statistics released by Palestinian officials about the numbers of martyred isn't enough. photographs and videos of fathers scurrying to piece together their children by gathering their body parts isn't enough. presscons surrounded by dead bodies beside a bombed hospital isn't enough.

yet, somehow, the narrative they are pushing is conflict between two faiths. it is absolutely not. this is no religious conflict. this is colonization, occupation, genocide. it's systematic oppression of Palestine and its people.

the word peace has never angered me as much as it has now. and it should anger you too. there can be no peace under violent oppression. there can be no peace after 75 years of ethnic cleansing. there can be no peace in occupied Palestine.

peace is the product of white supremacy, they prod and kill anyone other than them but when retaliation occurs, it is suddenly rabid savages, unjust savages...

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