Everyone Repeat After Me:

I don't worship Ares, but I've always imagined he would be like this.

Everyone says Ares feels like protests and Anger

And he does but he also feels like running to your big brother for help,

Crying into the chest of a man who won’t hurt you,

Someone teaching you how to throw a punch, with no judgement

Someone picking you up when you fall and scrape your self up

He feels like tattoos of a woman with snakes for hair to remind yourself you can’t be broken

He feels like someone finally recognizing the anger and rage inside you with honor and acceptance instead of demanding peace and forgiveness

Yes girls and boys Ares is big and scary and in the spirit of rebellion but he’s also a safe place to run don’t forget that 💕

You being alive is enough reason for you to be worthy of shifting realities.

Remember,

You are a practicing pagan. You don't have to do spell work everyday. You don't have to talk to your deities everyday. You don't have to spend every waking second focusing on your practice to be a valid pagan.

Your valid. No matter how often you're able to work with your deities. No matter how often you do spell work. No matter if you dedicate little or big things to your practice.

You make an effort once in awhile and thats more than enough. Save your spoons, it's ok.

That's so true! You can be in a desired reality where it isn't perfect, where you aren't perfect. You can just be, just be how you are now just in another reality, and that's perfectly okay!

It's okay for your DR to still be of human experience. It's okay to WANT to feel human in your DR.

You don't have to script that you always smell nice, never have acne, and your clothes always fit right. You are allowed to live in an average house and drive an average car that needs regular maintenance. It's okay if you get the wrong coffee order sometimes, or if you're a few minutes late for work. It's okay to have hair that gets greasy after a few days and to have to shave your armpits on a regular basis.

Some of these little things, these minor inconveniences, are simply a part of being human.

And what a beautiful thing to be ❤️

It's okay to have a shorter time with deities if your tired or you've had an eventful day and need some time to recover, they will understand.

I have a routine with Loki and Lady Hekate, at 5pm I devote an hour for them both. But yesterday so many things happened and I walked to get dinner, then my sister offered to watch a movie with me (that never happens) and I agreed. By the time when that was all done, it was 7pm, I was starting to get a little tired.

I gave Loki a new candle as an offering and to keep my promise I gave him the day before. I didn't give neither Loki or Hekate a incense offering because it was late and I just wasn't up to it. I meditated for four minutes, then gave Lady Hekate a glass of milk for an offering. I wished them both a good day, apologised that I didn't do some of my normal routines with them and then blew out their candles.

I felt bad but then realised they knew we're human. They know we can get tired and lose track of time. They know we have people in our lives and other things that require our attention as long as you make it up to them later, then you can relax. Just breathe, they understand.

HELLO MY BABES/LOVES/CHILDREN/THANES/KINGS/QUEENS/DEITIES/JESTERS!

My name is Kai, I am 17 years old. My pronouns are: They/Them. I am a Gender fluid, Lesbian and Asexual person who has been into spirituality since I was twelve, when I first saw my late sister's spirit. I am a medium, although I do have trouble at times communicating and seeing spirits. I also identify as a witch and a shifter. My religion is something that I don't know the name of but just my beliefs: That all gods/deities are real, but there is a hierarchy.

1. God, the universe, Brahma, Allah are number one and just the same being but go by different names to attract different people.

2. Jesus, Budda, avatars in Hinud, any messiah.

3. Any gods and goddesses from any religion and Lucifer, Satan and Lilith.

4. Angels and Demons and Fae, mermaids and dragons

5. Angel guides and ancestors (whether human, animal or alien)

6. Spirits, ghosts

And that when we die, we just experience the Void unless we believe in a specific afterlife for ourselves. All religions have some similar things but are all a bit different to appeal to different people because a number one creator would understand and know that just like students in school, people learn things differently.

I am an Empath, medium, Witch and pagan. I've been a Witch on and off since I was 12. And I've been an empath and medium since I was 5.

This blog will be a mix of poems I've written, my thoughts/beliefs/encouragement with deity work, deity worship, witchcraft, spirituality, shifting realities, self-love, and care.

I worship: Lady Hecate

I used to worship: Loki, Hades and Persephone

If you are rude, disrespectful, homophobic, transphobic, anti-shifter, racist, and/or close-minded, this blog is not for you. I would request for you to go and find someone else.

Anyhow, I hope this blog finds people who are meant for it, and I hope whoever reads this has an amazing day. If anyone has any questions for me or want me to share my thoughts on a specific subject that falls into what this blog is for, I will be glad to answer any of your questions and/or post my thoughts on the manner.

My DMS are ALWAYS OPEN TO YOU AS LONG AS YOU HAVE GOOD INTENTIONS

-Kai

So, I've had the most roller-coaster of a ride with religion. At this point, I just don't care. They're all real. They're all there in the world, and when you die, you go to where you believe. Because I've had enough about religion because there's too many in the world and it's confusing.

But that's not the point. So I decided to put up my Hades, Aphrodite, Loki, Apollo, and Hermes alters up.

Before I decided to do that, I brought some 18+ dice for some fun, and just why not, and that was before I decided to put the alters back up.

Explain to me... why I felt drawn to giving Loki those dice, with the explanation of how to use those dice on his alter with three fidget toys near it and a (porcelain?) goose with its head smashed??? He/They/She/It (whatever Loki identities as) is really showing their chaos already!

thinking about all the aromantic people who died thinking they were broken. thinking about all the aromantic people who died settling for "at least I care about this person". thinking about all the aromantic people that died without ever being able to know why they couldn't reciprocate the feelings of anyone, men, women, people of other genders and more. thinking about all the aromantic people that died being called sluts that never found the right person to marry. thinking about all the aromantic people that died that had to tell themselves that it was fine, they were fine, this marriage will be okay and it will be for the future of their lineage, while crying themselves to sleep every night. thinking about all the aromantic people that died that we will never know about, because being aromantic isn't even close to a possibility in the mind of society at large. because love is supposed to be the force that saves everything. because love is supposed to bring everyone together. because to love is human.

It's okay for you not to script how you and your s/o end up dating. It's okay not to script how a battle happens. It's OKAY if you want to be surprised and not know how those things happen in your desired reality, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. But it's also OKAY if you script every detail of what happens in your Desired Reality. No one can stop you from doing either of those things. It's YOUR desire reality, no one else's.

I think we can overcomplicate offerings for deities, like each and every offering that is for a deity should ALWAYS be respectful. There's no 'if/buts/maybes' on that.

But some offerings can be simple like saying thank you outloud or in your head after eating your meals to Demeter, Artemis, or any other deity that are similar to that in your religion. Saying that your skincare, makeup, and brushing your hair is dedicated to Aphrodite or Hekate, for example. Saying good morning to Apollo in the morning when you open up your curtains and doors, meditating out in the sun for Apollo and Lucifer. Doing something risky and playful in honour of Loki and Hermes. Having a glass of water by yourself or washing your hands in honour of Poseidon. Learning how to defend yourself for Ares and Odin, paying your respect to the dead for Hades, and Anubis. Those are all examples of offerings, devotion or doing something in their name that you can do if you currently don't have any offerings for them at the moment, or if your sick and don't have the energy for offerings, or if you can't do any offerings because of unsupportive family, ect.