My Being Asexual Doesn't Cause Me Distress Nor Does It Negatively Affect My Daily Life. It Is Other People

I think I'd hate to live in a world where everyone has I same opinion as me.

Only you can decide if you want to come out. Personally I don't foresee myself coming out to my parents unless my aromatism becomes an issue with them. But at 27 they haven't really pushed the issue of my complete lack of relationships. I have told a few friends but no one has really given me grief. I don't make a big deal of sexuality irl.

no ones paying attention to me anyways so i doubt people will answer me but?? are u supposed to tell people ur asexual?? or like come out to ur parents as asexual?? or no one care?? idk!! or what about demisexual too??

K’s Sterek Starter Kit

We heard there are new people still coming! Poor souls, that’s gonna be a painful journey, but trust me, I would not change it for anything else!

This list is my personal STEREK STARTER KIT/STEREK MUST READ LIST, so I hope you will enjoy it! (most of the links are to our recs, where you can find more details and notes ;))

The first thing I always recommend new people in fandom is Important Things by suzvoy (which was my first Sterek fic and I love it to bits and pieces) and it works like a charm every time!

Then you just have to read (Sacred) In the Ordinary by idyll because of reasons.

Best Harry Potter AU every fandom needs? I’m sure you will just love Untamed by rosepetals42.

The happy making ones you can read over and over again:

Fireman Derek’s Crazy Pie [Cheeseburger Baby] by owlpostagain

DILF by twentysomething

Daddy Do’s by bookgodess15

Cupboard Love by mklutz 

This is not even a fic, but you have to see it - Needs More Sparkly Pens by mm_coconut

Some more serious fics, which I love forever:

[Not!Fic] Random Craigslist Missed Connections Derek/Stiles Not!Fic of Doom by fire_juggler

oh what a shame by omelet

Sense of Home by siny

the broken radio is playing suicide by decideophobia

when the highway takes me by paxlux

The one that will make you love Allison, if you don’t already - You Know What I Mean by stilinskisparkles

And this one make you love Peter for sure - The More Things Change by KouriArashi

The original ones with amazing plots:

There’s Monsters At Home by calrissian18

What You Can’t See by darkmagess

Courage Through Fear by Pookaseraph 

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I was kicked out of my best friend’s wedding party and then the next week I was told I wasn’t allowed at the wedding. It’s been a year and haven’t spoken with her. Still not over it.

why does no one talk about how friends can break your heart so devastatingly intimately sometimes a million times worse than romantic partners why does no one talk about friend break ups

You are correct. Aromantism is a orientation based on an individual's experience or non-experience of romantic attraction and is not based in sexual attraction.

Asexuality is a valid sexuality. Aromantism is a valid orientation.

Casual reminder that “aromantic” is not a valid sexuality.

Because we would be happy eating at the same three places and nobody else likes to do that so instead we ask them to choose.

The people who ‘don’t care where we eat’ also happen to be the pickiest

“you cannot hide from something you take everywhere with you”

“if you do harm and lie about it, where will it end? without responsibility & truthfulness there is no limit to evil”

I don’t know where I found these quotes but I wrote them down two years ago in the grips of a very low point in my life. Flash to New Year’s Day 2016 and I am holding myself accountable and have started the path to a brighter future.

Never thought I’d be happy to be me, guess I was wrong <3

My dog died and fuck anyone that says I'm incapable of love because I've been miserable for two weeks.