Yeah Bitch....YOU

It's sad because it's true.

“The worst feeling is feeling unwanted by the person you want the most.”

In the years before I found asexuality, the thought that repeatedly ran through my head was “I don’t like boys… but I don’t like girls either. Can’t I just be nothing? Just nothing?” And for a year and a half now I’ve had a name for it. I love knowing that there are so many of you out there that feel the same, and that it’s not just me. Thank you tumblr and thank you ace awareness week!

Kylo Ren: Control yourself. A lightsaber? Interesting.

Stormtrooper who's about to get promoted: If there's one Jedi left, it's not you

Some people just never get how imprudent l important this is.

i really wish platonic relationships were more important. i’m tired of losing friendships because i’m less important than their significant other. i hate that i’m automatically not as close to my friends because i’m not the person they’re dating/sleeping with. and i hate how whenever i complain about it the response is “you’ll find someone too someday!” like no I shouldn’t have to “find someone” to feel loved and important, maybe we should stop promoting investing all your time and effort and physical and emotional intimacy into one romantic/sexual partner idk

cat falling off table

2022

acrylic on canvas

30 x 40 cm

I bought a silicone ring from Knot Theory on Amazon. I abuse the hell out of my hands and I ruined six different rings until I found Knot Theory. They even come in different colors.

new ace and aro rings!! honestly i just want a whole bunch of different pairs to wear every day and alternate and stuff

made by wrapping old, tarnished, too big rings with embroidery floss. it does make them a bit smaller tho. these originally fit onto my thumb (i dont have very thick thumbs tho) and now theyre pretty much perfect on my middle fingers, plus the traction of the thread prevents them from falling down, although i have a feeling they might wear the inside of the surrounding fingers raw. oh well, ill see.

Try Knot Theory on amazon too

Ace Rings on Amazon

If anyone’s looking, a reader sent in these two lovely options:

Black 7mm Stainless Steel Ring Band Engraved Florentine Design - $9.99

Stainless Steel Black IP Grooved Edge Center Chain Spinner Ring - $0.99

let’s play a game

how to win: try to guess if i’m a lesbian or not...

how to play: too bad i don’t discuss my sexuality at work, i’m your manager and it’s inappropriate but solid effort with your attempt at discreet questions