Ahhhhhhhh

Stop.

Pyre.

Even if you identify as asexual you can still experience sexual intimacy. Orientation does not dictate behavior. Asexuality will probably color your perception of sex differently but everyone perceives differently. I lamented this same thing for many years, I spent so long wondering and upset that I didn't fit into the categories of straight or gay. I'd advise against putting pressure on yourself to identify. Be comfortable with what you decide.

Honestly just so sick of thinking about everything right now it all seems so confusing ugh. I thought I was done with the whole “trying to figure out my identity thing” and now it’s like… Occupying 90% of my thoughts and I hate it right now. Why can’t I figure it out? Like how am I supposed to know if I’m asexual if I’m not even sure I know what sexual attraction feels like? I’m not sure I’ve ever seen a person and immediately thought “yeah I’d like to do them” like I generally just really love looking at people aesthetically?? I don’t KNOW I don’t know I hate iiiittt. I mean idk I guess I very rarely have sexual thoughts but not the urge to act on it really? Like I think of it in passing as an entertaining thought and then I just go on with my life and never really dwell on it.

idk I just feel really confused and not sure what to do. I seem to be really fighting against these thoughts like for some reason I don’t want to be asexual, I want to experience that part of life sometimes but I just never really… Feel it.

I made a mossy stone path border!

Simple planks, designed for iron bridges in ACNH

my friend told me to watch this cooking video while listening to sad music. so i mixed a little something for you all

You are not alone here. Check out acesovertwenty .

I really think I’m asexual. I’ve been wondering about it for years but i’m pretty sure of it now. I’m almost 21 and have never had any desire to have kiss anyone, let alone have sex, and other than harmless innocent celebrity crushes I’ve never had a crush on anyone, male or female. I don’t check guys out when i go out nor do i stalk them on facebook, insta, twitter, etc. I see couples holding hands or kissing in public and don’t feel jealous at all. I’m very unattractive to say the least so avoiding relationships will never be an issue for me but i just wish asexuality was more talked about and recognised so that i wouldn’t feel so alone. I just wish I could talk to someone who’s going through the same things and who could give me advice on how to deal with being asexual and how to tell people about it without creeping them out

autumn dirt path 🍂

Every time a post on queerplatonic relationships makes its way around tumblr, the comments are inevitably filled with a flood of “IT’S CALLED FRIENDSHIP” or “WHY DO YOU NEED A WORD FOR THIS.”

Do you honestly think society regards friendship as an acceptable substitute for romance and marriage?  The thing is, most aros would LOVE if it could just be called friendship.

Because that would mean a world where:

Friendships are considered equal to or sometimes *SHOCK HORROR* more important than romantic relationships.  This is not an exceptional occurrence.

Romantic partners know that they might not be their datemate’s Most Important Person and are not bothered by this.

People commonly plan major life events around their friends up to and including housing, finances, employment, ect.

It is common for people to be in their 30s, 40s, 50s, hell even old age having lived with friends that entire time and no one has ever asked them why they’re not married.

It is common for people to have a committed lifelong partnership with their friend and no one bats an eye.

Having a life friend is considered something that can be regarded as equally close to marriage.  It is also taken just as seriously.

Until the day that those are true, friendship is unfortunately not an accurate word to convey the types of relationships we’re talking about. 

this is my FB cover photo, i have zero mention on what the colors are supposed to mean so only anyone already in the know will understand. baby steps

Low key wanna shake things up and make it general knowledge via Facebook that I’m asexual but low key not ready to find out how many of my friends don’t think I exist so

What Happened To Thor In "Avengers: Endgame"? https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/jennaguillaume/avengers-endgame-fat-thor-chris-hemsworth-body-positivity?utm_term=.tlQkZy8Qpv#.tlQkZy8Qpv