Monday:

Another update of active Theme Days. It’s been over 3 months since the last update, so you may notice a number of changes. I have added some new and awesome themes to this list, and I have deleted some as well. Theme Days come and go here on Tumblr. There are a select few that have been very constant and huge in their submissions. Then there are others that go inactive for a couple of reasons. Some aren’t able to pull in the attention and others get tired of running them. Just know if I deleted your theme day, don’t take it personal. I want this list to be strictly for fully active Theme Days. Also, if youve not even started a theme day, please do not ask to be added to this list. Get your theme day organized and established first. You are all welcome to add your themes in the comments below as well. I am not helping anyone to create their theme. This is merely a list of fully active Theme Days. When any go inactive, I will delete them from this list. If I miss any, let me also know in the comments below, and I will update the list and post the date so you know when its accurate. Todays date: April 20, 2017 @lillybgoddess

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Monday:

Lingerie Monday @sassysexymilf Jean Porn Monday @luvtoplaydirty Words Brought To Life @filthykissesandwhiskeywords Man Hands Monday @milflatina Man Handled Monday @kinkyinour40s Mouth Monday @monchichitamberine Morning Cup @mv-wonderwoman BoobBoost Monday @nerdybustybabe Beautiful Mom Monday @mehorneydaddy Music Monday @nubin2002 Man Candy Monday @ucancallmeshades Misc Monday @sexyclassydirtygirl Remember Me Monday @panties-on-or-off Man Crush @newvixenlifestyle

Tuesday:

Titty Tuesday @dallas-hotwife Touch of Color @robeatsbooeybox Tie Porn Tuesday @aurorasangels Titty Tuesday @han–and–leia Tips/Tits Out Tuesday @luvtoplaydirty Tattuesday @mv-wonderwoman Toes on Tuesday @toeslave361 BewbsDay @mrmrssecret Tease Me @newvixenlifestyle Titty Tuesday @bigtitmilflover Hotwifing 101 @lillybgoddess Sexy Bra and Panties @scwife09

Wednesday:

Panty Wednesday @smexymacmilf4 Black & White @mischievouschivette White Wednesday(bi weekly) @southerngent67 Squat Booty Wednesday @sexygirlwholifts Super Hero @mv-wonderwoman Humpday @mrmrssecret Hump Day Wednesday @sexyclassydirtygirl HotWife Wednesday @dvlktty521 Workout Wednesday @faithygrl Wet N Wild @redheaded-horny-wife Hump Day @pleasinghernow Smoke Break Wednesday @lancemoon13 Sexy Men Hump Wednesday @kinkybbygirl1 Wednesday Wiggle @whatucravin Sexy Arms & Chest @bunny-n-badger Wet Wednesday @newvixenlifestyle Pokies Wednesday @inklov3r Work Tease @matureseeker89 Wowzers Wednesday (bi weekly)@ucancallmeshades

Thursday:

Babes N Bling @lillybgoddess

Tshirt Thursday @hot-wife-atl Towel Porn Thursday @luvtoplaydirty Thong/Thigh High Thursday @mrmrssecret Thick Women Thursday @kinkybbygirl1 Soapy Thursday @hornycalicpl Sexy Shower & Bath time @ganowncgirl Mirror MaGGic @boy-toys-best-friend Thirsty Thursday @sirvadermaul Thigh Highs and Thongs @hosser69 Naughty Nipples @carriecherry71

Friday:

Braless Friday @hotblondemilfjea Lips & Tits Friday @texassunflower10 Couples Only Friday @mmlewis6609 Full Frontal Friday @sexygirlwholifts Red Hot Friday @a-cunning-linguist-13 Fishnet Friday @mrbuckeyebeastman Fine Ass Friday @hotblondemilfjea Babes N Beer Friday @germasian-couple Forearm Friday @faithygrl Flash em Friday @vandalsginger Freckles Friday @brodydangeldorpher Smiles Friday @vinnyvienna From The Floor Friday @nubin2002 Bum Fun @jessygirlxx Sexy Feet Friday (bi weekly)@ucancallmeshades Dad Bod Friday @miss-mischief-00 Foot Fetish @opentolife37 Office Cleavage Friday @whycantistoplooking Flash Friday @greytcpl4fun Red Friday @mv-wonderwoman View from the Top @wenjoy3 Fingers in Mouth @miss-golightly-if-you-please Parade on Friday @inklov3r

Saturday:

Share Your Sexy Saturday @mrmrssecret Sexy Saturday @inkdnready Bookish Saturday @milflatina Spoturday @ottydots SSMILF Saturday @sacohen See Thru Saturday @splani Nerdy Saturday @han–and–leia Sexy Shoe Porn @the-ladyleopard Cups and Coffee @sirvadermaul Squat Shot @lovesrealcurves Sexy Dad Saturday @themrsbush2010 Switch Saturday @miss-golightly-if-you-please Submission Saturday @annawolfhall Hotwife Sexy Saturday @knjyoungcouplelove

Sunday:

Sexy Outdoor Sunday @robeatsbooeybox Cleavage Sunday @curiouswinekitten2 Seasonal Sexy Sunday @want-2-shareher Mom Bod Sunday @carnal-erotic-desires Coffee & Boobs Sunday @wenjoy3 Sexy Smiles @centexcpl38 Goddess Sunday @titsgoddess Squat Shot @Lovesrealcurves Sexy Cock Worship @thefuckmeplease Hot N Sexy @hotnsexycouple Self Love @wisconsincpl2009 Country Pride @hotandfrench Stay in Bed @sexxxyones Slippery/Stiffy Sunday @bunnyropah Ask Autumn @autumn0sky S&M Sunday @infinitebdsmcouple

Multi-day Submissions and Themes:

The No Bra Club @thenobraclub Everyday Submissions @pornocchio101 Daily Selfies @eroticselfiesblog Heels 4 Days @salntandslnner submissions welcome @mrmrssecret Expose your Titties daily @exposeyourtitties Daily Themes @assnation85 Sat, Sun, Mon Themes @colorsofanudist Daily Submissions @j-and-t-midwest-hotwife World Premiere @lovewatchingwife Daily Submissions @sokissable

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Ok this list has been updated, and accurate as of today April 20, 2018 Lots of new themes have been added and many have been deleted due to inactivity. /Quick note: If you use this format to create your own list, feel free but leave credit to me. Thank you! ~LillybGoddess

Dominant Power

A week or two ago I asked @cynicaldom for a spanking. He told me “good girl” and said some stuff about how it was so good of me to ask for what I needed/wanted.

Praise or positive feedback isn’t a rarity here, but I suppose I have a natural tendency to try to dismiss or downplay things in my head. There was something in the way that he expressed himself in this particular instance that has made the conversation really stick with me…I think I could just so easily see that he was proud of me so I couldn’t dismiss it.

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Yesterday we worked on a soft limit and got really far. It’s something that I’ve always hoped to accomplish in kink, but at times, I wasn’t sure if I’d get there…but I have a couple of times now. And it feels really good (psychologically and physically, haha).

I think these two things are connecting in my mind because early on, I think that deep down, I thought my greatest accomplishments in submission would be kinks. I thought succeeding physically would make me feel the most successful as a submissive. I am proud of the kink accomplishment, don’t get me wrong. It isn’t quite as deep, though.

And honestly? I think if CD wasn’t passionate about encouraging me to use my voice and advocate for my needs in our relationship, and/or if he prioritized kink notably more…I think I would experience it that way, too. I think I only manage to “allow myself” to feel proud of advocating for my needs because I see that he genuinely wants me to speak up so I can help him take care of me. I’m able to find pride in myself because I feel it genuinely occurring in him, first.

I hope that I’d protect myself by not submitting to someone who prioritized kinks and didn’t prioritize taking care of me…but when I think back to when we first started D/s, I’m not sure if I would have, if I’m really, really honest.

He had already hung the moon in my life by that time…so if he had taken the power of being my Dominant and used it selfishly…I think I probably would have done my best to go along with that. I get why subs can end up in ugly situations when the person they love and respect uses their dominance in selfish ways.

There can be a lot more power wrapped up in D/s relationships than what you specifically agree to submit to. When a sub has love and respect for their dom, it’s easy for their doms priorities and values to have a big impact on the sub. If something naturally makes the dom proud, or if a dom doesn’t care about something a sub does, that’s likely going to impact the sub regardless of whether you’ve specifically agreed to that being part of your D/s or not.

Anyway. I mostly got lucky, but I’m really grateful that I have a Dom who has values that I believe in and prioritize me because I don’t have to choose between taking care of myself and submitting. They’re one and the same.

@sccwriting

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likeyung83

6 years ago