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Ways to show your caregiver (Mommy/Daddy) respect everyday:

1. Be their cheerleader, caregivers do so much to make sure littles have everything they need. Show appreciation for their success in everyday life.

2. Take care of yourself before anyone else. Be somebody they’re proud to take care of and show off to the world. (Eat healthy foods, workout, complete regular hygiene routines and take any medication you might be on.)

3. Make sure your caregiver has enough time for themselves. Having a needy little who wants attention is a full time job in itself. Respect that your caregiver needs time to unwind and do the things that make them happy.

4. Don’t ve afraid to ask for help when you need it. Going to your caregiver for advice shows that your respect their opinion, and trust that they know what’s best for you.

5. Say thank-you for everything they do, big or small. If your caregiver does not feel that their efforts are appreciated, they may stop doing some of the things that you count on to make you happy.

6. Greet your caregiver at the door with a smile and a kiss when they come home from a hard day. It can make that terrible day they’ve had at the office dissappear when their little is eager to see and embrace them.

7. Be enthusiastic about bedroom play. Whether you are the caregiver or little, nobody feels good about themselves if they get sexually turned down. Make sure they know you want them, and how much you love to please them in the bedroom.

8. If your caregiver wants to discuss something with you, give them your undivided attention. Put your phone down, turn off Netflix or stop running around the house. Make sure you use eye contact and pay attention to every word they say.

9. If you were told to do something by a certain time,  make sure you complete it by that time. Prove that you respect their decision,  and can follow through.

10. Do not act out to get attention. Your caregiver knows you want attention, snuggling up to them or writing sweet messages about how much you miss them is enough. There is no need to anger them and be disrespectful just to get a rise out of them.

Use your words baby

Me: Daddddddyyyy

Daddy: yes kitten

Me: iiiiiii waaaant

Daddy: want what? Use your words

Me: * DINOSAUR NOISE *

Daddy: oh geez

Self Love / Banish Negativity Spell

This is going to be a spell for bringing about self love and banishing negativity around yourself.

What you will need: ▪ A black candle ▪ White sage ▪ Oil of your choice (I’ll be using peppermint) ▪ Incense stick of your choice (I’ll be using white lotus) ▪ Optional: rose quartz

This spell is best performed outside, under the moonlight.

Steps: 1. The night before, charge the rose quartz in the moonlight, should you choose to use it. 2. Anoint your candle with the oil of your choice. Choose an oil that will bring positivity/banish negativity. 3. Place the candle in front of you, and sprinkle the white sage in a circle around it. 4. Place the incense of your choice before the circle of white sage, either in a holder or in the ground. 5. Light both the candle and the incense. 6. Holding the rose quartz, meditate. Focus on the flame of the candle, and the scent of the incense. Let the smoke bless you. Let the candle absorb the negativity. Feel the bad energy leaving your body with each breath. Allow only good energy to flow into your body.

Once you feel full of light, and free from the negativity, meditate for a few minutes. After doing so, you may snuff out the candle. Let the incense burn itself out.

Blessed Be 💓

earlier this year i did extremely brief descriptions of the new/full moons just because but never shared so…

full moons

march 12th - healing but feels wronged april 11th - change, change, change may 10th - passionate and relationship-oriented june 9th - childish july 9th - TEMPERAMENTAL august 7th - condescending september 6th - euphoric october 5th - ostracizing november 4th - love on the edge december 3rd - destructive and nostalgic

new moons

march 27th - soulfully liberated, purpose oriented april 26th - unknowingly demanding, unsure whats gonna happen next may 25th - vastly abundant but suppressing, to act or not to act on opportunities june 23rd - lonely, confused, risky july 23rd - dramatic and blatantly erratic august 21st - wising up september 20th - communicative, a bit hazy october 19th - ABSOLUTE MADNESS november 18th - social justice december 18th - cunning

Fat people deserve body positivity

Thin people deserve body positivity

Curvy people deserve body positivity

Thick people deserve body positivity

Petite people deserve body positivity

Fit people deserve body positivity

Disabled people deserve body positivity

Mentally ill people deserve body positivity

PoC deserve body positivity

Queer people deserve body positivity

Trans people deserve body positivity

Non-binary people deserve body positivity

Do you have a body? Congratulations, you deserve body positivity!

fucking white people

If you’re a sleepy and tired little reblog this post *clap clap* If you’re a sleepy and tired little reblog this post *clap clap* If you wish you’d stay in bed and cuddle with a stuffie instead If you’re a sleepy and tired little reblog this post *clap clap* (See? It’s a play on if you’re happy and you know it! Heehee)

Yaaaaassssss

I am a straight, white, middle-class American.

Can someone give me practical steps on how I can use my privilege to actively advocate for those who are marginalized by this election?