So I have a lot of free time
So I set up a match making system for the cgl community (if match making isn’t for you, try my cgl group chat on kik!) Just fill out the form that applies to you and I will contact you about possible matches.
Caregiver Form
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfUvM1TdQshHGQN4G2O0cVvPRYxmnaj6m1VxTbS9kIjY59RUg/viewform
Little Form
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf1B4sGseompcW6hkyf17vPM9c-VZOKusGgo1oagnC16SiAAw/viewform
Switch Form
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSclSdizVxbg6_bK_EEh3yQoTk03XRVhV9_e0GZVpxCEOdv1rQ/viewform
-Wake her up for school/work/breakfast (Waking up to a nudging Daddy is better than waking up to a noisy jump out of your skin alarm clock).
-Make her breakfast.
-Know her health problems, issues and allergies.
-Make sure she takes her medicine.
-Draw her a bubble bath, lots of bubbles. LOTS of bubbles.
-Wash her.
-Help her with any studying or classwork she may have. Midterms and finals suck.
-Set up a rewards system with stickers or fake money to “cash in” for special things or an outing.
-Know her favorite characters and cartoons.
-Watch said favorite cartoons with her.
-Let her crawl in your lap and snuggle.
-Snuggle her any and everywhere you can.
-Build a blanket fort with her.
-Color with her
-Print out coloring pages/ buy coloring books for her (Littles need variety!)
-Talk to her. Ask her about her feelings, her day, all that.
-Lay out her clothes for her.
-Set up a bedtime that you BOTH can adhere to, no little should be going to bed alone if it’s preventable.
-Let her know that she can wake you up anytime during the night whether she can’t sleep, has a nightmare or just wakes up earlier than you.
-Let her cry. It doesn’t matter if you don’t always understand her feelings and emotions, it matters that you be there for her when she needs it.
-Spray her pillow with your cologne while you’re gone for the day.
-Make/pack her lunch how she likes it so she eats well when you’re working/adulting.
-Pick her up. Littles love rides!
- Know her stuffies, her blankies and her binkies.
-Keep her sippies clean and full.
-Make her a physical little space where she can burrow up in when she’s in her mental little space. (under the table with pillows and stuffies, in the corner or a whole bedroom decorated in things she likes)
-Keep them company when they’re sick. Watch their favorite movie with them and make them soup with fun shapes.
-Let them be little! The world is hard on everyone. She goes to you for refuge. Remind her why she picked you to be her Daddy out of all the other Daddies in the world.
-Love them. Whether they are whiny, bratty, or downright all out bitchy. Love them. They love you when you’re the same way. Yes, Daddies can be bitches.
As you can see, there are plenty of things to do with your little girl that doesn’t require sex. Being intimate with your little is important, but sex isn’t the only intimacy out there.
1. Be their cheerleader, caregivers do so much to make sure littles have everything they need. Show appreciation for their success in everyday life.
2. Take care of yourself before anyone else. Be somebody they’re proud to take care of and show off to the world. (Eat healthy foods, workout, complete regular hygiene routines and take any medication you might be on.)
3. Make sure your caregiver has enough time for themselves. Having a needy little who wants attention is a full time job in itself. Respect that your caregiver needs time to unwind and do the things that make them happy.
4. Don’t ve afraid to ask for help when you need it. Going to your caregiver for advice shows that your respect their opinion, and trust that they know what’s best for you.
5. Say thank-you for everything they do, big or small. If your caregiver does not feel that their efforts are appreciated, they may stop doing some of the things that you count on to make you happy.
6. Greet your caregiver at the door with a smile and a kiss when they come home from a hard day. It can make that terrible day they’ve had at the office dissappear when their little is eager to see and embrace them.
7. Be enthusiastic about bedroom play. Whether you are the caregiver or little, nobody feels good about themselves if they get sexually turned down. Make sure they know you want them, and how much you love to please them in the bedroom.
8. If your caregiver wants to discuss something with you, give them your undivided attention. Put your phone down, turn off Netflix or stop running around the house. Make sure you use eye contact and pay attention to every word they say.
9. If you were told to do something by a certain time, make sure you complete it by that time. Prove that you respect their decision, and can follow through.
10. Do not act out to get attention. Your caregiver knows you want attention, snuggling up to them or writing sweet messages about how much you miss them is enough. There is no need to anger them and be disrespectful just to get a rise out of them.
ATTENTION ALL DADDIES AND LITTLES
Want your little to drink more water but don’t know how to motivate them? Are you a little that wants nice dewy skin but is forgetful about drinking water throughout the day? I present to you… PLANT NANNY (a free app for your phone!) You can pick out cute little seedlings and take care of them so they grow. But you can only water them with how much water YOUVE drinken in that day! At the beginning of the game you enter your weight and activity level and the app calculates how much water you should drink daily. Then it reminds you throughout the day to drink (and water your plant!) it’s gets cuter as it grows. You can buy different plants and pots to put them in. It’s the CUTEST game ever AND helps remind you to drink!