So I have a lot of free time
So I set up a match making system for the cgl community (if match making isn’t for you, try my cgl group chat on kik!) Just fill out the form that applies to you and I will contact you about possible matches.
Caregiver Form
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfUvM1TdQshHGQN4G2O0cVvPRYxmnaj6m1VxTbS9kIjY59RUg/viewform
Little Form
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf1B4sGseompcW6hkyf17vPM9c-VZOKusGgo1oagnC16SiAAw/viewform
Switch Form
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSclSdizVxbg6_bK_EEh3yQoTk03XRVhV9_e0GZVpxCEOdv1rQ/viewform
- Are you drinking enough water?
- Are you getting enough to eat?
- Are you remembering to take your medicine?
- Are you brushing your teeth?
- Are you getting lots of sunshine?
- Are you getting some fresh air?
- Are you keeping yourself clean?
- Are you taking breaks?
- Are you keeping your living area clean?
- Are you moving around and stretching?
- Are you going potty without holding it in too long?
- Are you remembering how wonderful you are?
- Are you wiggling your bum often?
- Are you remembering self love/care NOT self hate/harm?
Which of these do you relate to?
1. Be their cheerleader, caregivers do so much to make sure littles have everything they need. Show appreciation for their success in everyday life.
2. Take care of yourself before anyone else. Be somebody they’re proud to take care of and show off to the world. (Eat healthy foods, workout, complete regular hygiene routines and take any medication you might be on.)
3. Make sure your caregiver has enough time for themselves. Having a needy little who wants attention is a full time job in itself. Respect that your caregiver needs time to unwind and do the things that make them happy.
4. Don’t ve afraid to ask for help when you need it. Going to your caregiver for advice shows that your respect their opinion, and trust that they know what’s best for you.
5. Say thank-you for everything they do, big or small. If your caregiver does not feel that their efforts are appreciated, they may stop doing some of the things that you count on to make you happy.
6. Greet your caregiver at the door with a smile and a kiss when they come home from a hard day. It can make that terrible day they’ve had at the office dissappear when their little is eager to see and embrace them.
7. Be enthusiastic about bedroom play. Whether you are the caregiver or little, nobody feels good about themselves if they get sexually turned down. Make sure they know you want them, and how much you love to please them in the bedroom.
8. If your caregiver wants to discuss something with you, give them your undivided attention. Put your phone down, turn off Netflix or stop running around the house. Make sure you use eye contact and pay attention to every word they say.
9. If you were told to do something by a certain time, make sure you complete it by that time. Prove that you respect their decision, and can follow through.
10. Do not act out to get attention. Your caregiver knows you want attention, snuggling up to them or writing sweet messages about how much you miss them is enough. There is no need to anger them and be disrespectful just to get a rise out of them.
I don’t know if this post has been made yet but I just want to warn everybody that if someone stops you in a parking lot and asks you if you’re interested in some perfume and hands you a paper to smell, PLEASE DON’T SMELL IT.
i repeat, DON’T SMELL IT.
Apparently the sample papers are being laced with a drug to knock you out. Please signal boost this. It can save someone’s life!
“He is more scared than anything you could imagine right now.”