Do You Remember The Night You Came Home From Work Crying Harder Than The Clouds Were? I Took Your Blushed

do you remember the night you came home from work crying harder than the clouds were? i took your blushed cheeks into my hands then kissed every tear away before your raincoat left your body. i guided you to our couch after your broken voice insisted being held would make the night slow down. you sat patiently as i undressed you with a shiver running through your body every so often. taking hold of both ankles gently, i shifted you onto your back & proceeded to place you into your favorite pink butterfly onesie. before zipping up the pajamas, i trailed kisses up your tummy for a smile. the sides of your mouth reluctantly upturned as rouge tears entered the valleys of your lips. my hand clutched a warm bottle just in time for your fingers to latch onto my wrist. while easing the silicone into your mouth, i picked up your favorite stuffed animal in attempts to diminish your sour day. hiding behind his soft fur, i gave him a comedic voice that sent you soaring into a positive head space. muffled giggles filled the room as milk started dripping down your chin: you couldn’t keep the bottle in your mouth any longer due to laughter. after letting out a few chuckles myself, i cleaned you up with a damp washcloth then put a pacifier back between your teeth. with whatever upset you now running far behind, the night slowly faded; your glassy irises never left mine until your eyelids stole them away. deep sleep entered your brain just as fast as your tears once fell… do you remember the night i fell in love with that little world of yours?

(via @whispymilk)

Things You Can Do With and For Your Little Girl. (The Non-Sexual Edition)

-Wake her up for school/work/breakfast (Waking up to a nudging Daddy is better than waking up to a noisy jump out of your skin alarm clock).

-Make her breakfast.

-Know her health problems, issues and allergies.

-Make sure she takes her medicine.

-Draw her a bubble bath, lots of bubbles. LOTS of bubbles.

-Wash her.

-Help her with any studying or classwork she may have. Midterms and finals suck.

-Set up a rewards system with stickers or fake money to “cash in” for special things or an outing.

-Know her favorite characters and cartoons.

-Watch said favorite cartoons with her.

-Let her crawl in your lap and snuggle.

-Snuggle her any and everywhere you can.

-Build a blanket fort with her.

-Color with her

-Print out coloring pages/ buy coloring books for her (Littles need variety!)

-Talk to her. Ask her about her feelings, her day, all that.

-Lay out her clothes for her.

-Set up a bedtime that you BOTH can adhere to, no little should be going to bed alone if it’s preventable.

-Let her know that she can wake you up anytime during the night whether she can’t sleep, has a nightmare or just wakes up earlier than you.

-Let her cry. It doesn’t matter if you don’t always understand her feelings and emotions, it matters that you be there for her when she needs it.

-Spray her pillow with your cologne while you’re gone for the day.

-Make/pack her lunch how she likes it so she eats well when you’re working/adulting.

-Pick her up. Littles love rides!

- Know her stuffies, her blankies and her binkies.

-Keep her sippies clean and full.

-Make her a physical little space where she can burrow up in when she’s in her mental little space. (under the table with pillows and stuffies, in the corner or a whole bedroom decorated in things she likes)

-Keep them company when they’re sick. Watch their favorite movie with them and make them soup with fun shapes.

-Let them be little! The world is hard on everyone. She goes to you for refuge. Remind her why she picked you to be her Daddy out of all the other Daddies in the world.

-Love them. Whether they are whiny, bratty, or downright all out bitchy. Love them. They love you when you’re the same way. Yes, Daddies can be bitches.

As you can see, there are plenty of things to do with your little girl that doesn’t require sex. Being intimate with your little is important, but sex isn’t the only intimacy out there.

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ATTENTION ALL DADDIES AND LITTLES

Want your little to drink more water but don’t know how to motivate them? Are you a little that wants nice dewy skin but is forgetful about drinking water throughout the day? I present to you… PLANT NANNY (a free app for your phone!) You can pick out cute little seedlings and take care of them so they grow. But you can only water them with how much water YOUVE drinken in that day! At the beginning of the game you enter your weight and activity level and the app calculates how much water you should drink daily. Then it reminds you throughout the day to drink (and water your plant!) it’s gets cuter as it grows. You can buy different plants and pots to put them in. It’s the CUTEST game ever AND helps remind you to drink!

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Reasons I wish I had a daddy:

1) someone to call me pumpkin, or baby girl, or something like that. 2) someone to hold me all the time 3) someone to bring me my meds when I need them so I never forget 4) someone to cuddle when I get upset or just want to cuddle. 5) someone to talk to and play with 6) someone to always care about me and help me through everyday problems because I’m too little to face this big old world on my own…

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