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get to know me meme: 3/5 favorite female characters - Clara Oswald;
“Let me be brave. Let me be brave.”
-Wake her up for school/work/breakfast (Waking up to a nudging Daddy is better than waking up to a noisy jump out of your skin alarm clock).
-Make her breakfast.
-Know her health problems, issues and allergies.
-Make sure she takes her medicine.
-Draw her a bubble bath, lots of bubbles. LOTS of bubbles.
-Wash her.
-Help her with any studying or classwork she may have. Midterms and finals suck.
-Set up a rewards system with stickers or fake money to “cash in” for special things or an outing.
-Know her favorite characters and cartoons.
-Watch said favorite cartoons with her.
-Let her crawl in your lap and snuggle.
-Snuggle her any and everywhere you can.
-Build a blanket fort with her.
-Color with her
-Print out coloring pages/ buy coloring books for her (Littles need variety!)
-Talk to her. Ask her about her feelings, her day, all that.
-Lay out her clothes for her.
-Set up a bedtime that you BOTH can adhere to, no little should be going to bed alone if it’s preventable.
-Let her know that she can wake you up anytime during the night whether she can’t sleep, has a nightmare or just wakes up earlier than you.
-Let her cry. It doesn’t matter if you don’t always understand her feelings and emotions, it matters that you be there for her when she needs it.
-Spray her pillow with your cologne while you’re gone for the day.
-Make/pack her lunch how she likes it so she eats well when you’re working/adulting.
-Pick her up. Littles love rides!
- Know her stuffies, her blankies and her binkies.
-Keep her sippies clean and full.
-Make her a physical little space where she can burrow up in when she’s in her mental little space. (under the table with pillows and stuffies, in the corner or a whole bedroom decorated in things she likes)
-Keep them company when they’re sick. Watch their favorite movie with them and make them soup with fun shapes.
-Let them be little! The world is hard on everyone. She goes to you for refuge. Remind her why she picked you to be her Daddy out of all the other Daddies in the world.
-Love them. Whether they are whiny, bratty, or downright all out bitchy. Love them. They love you when you’re the same way. Yes, Daddies can be bitches.
As you can see, there are plenty of things to do with your little girl that doesn’t require sex. Being intimate with your little is important, but sex isn’t the only intimacy out there.
- Are you drinking enough water?
- Are you getting enough to eat?
- Are you remembering to take your medicine?
- Are you brushing your teeth?
- Are you getting lots of sunshine?
- Are you getting some fresh air?
- Are you keeping yourself clean?
- Are you taking breaks?
- Are you keeping your living area clean?
- Are you moving around and stretching?
- Are you going potty without holding it in too long?
- Are you remembering how wonderful you are?
- Are you wiggling your bum often?
- Are you remembering self love/care NOT self hate/harm?