Female Domination, two simple words apart from one another but you put the two together and the possibilities are endless. For me, female domination is more of a lifestyle and a way to express my love for my wife, who is my Mistress. I am regional sales manager in a large international company and have to meet all kinds of demands of customers as well as oversee several different parts of our company. When I come home after a day at work, it’s nice not to be able to be submissive and not have to worry over decisions. I let my wife handle all of the decisions at home, she tells me what to cook, what groceries we need to buy and more specifically when we can have sex.
My interest in the world of female domination started many, many years ago when I discovered a website by the name of literotica.com. This site is an online erotica database of stories to fit any fantasy or fetish one might have. While browsing one night I stumbled across a story about a woman who had restrained her husband and had him perform cunnilingus on her then proceeded to have sex with him. After he had ejaculated into her vagina, she then had him perform cunnilingus again, eating his own semen. The next chapter she had her husband restrained and used a strap-on dildo in his anus. I was hooked, I can’t tell you what about this ignited a spark in me, but I liked it and wanted more. Ever since then, all I can think about is how I would like to be that guy, to serve and be used by an assertive and dominate woman. After several years of watching and reading porn relating to female domination, I started to see the male as inferior to the female. Sex rules and runs the world; females have the ability to control any male simply by denying him sex or simply bribing him with the idea of sex. Males may be in charge of large companies or have lots of power within their respective organizations but they are powerless when it comes to an assertive woman who knows what she wants and how to get it.
There are several different areas of female domination that one can get involved with. You could be into something as simple as verbal humiliation from some phone sex company or you could be in a 24/7 relationship with a Mistress, Goddess, Dominatrix, or whatever she prefers to be called, where you are in role everyday and all day. There are also some areas of female domination and bondage that are very extreme and involve blood play, scat, and needles, these are not for me. I basically fall in the middle, I want and have an actual relationship with a female, that I am lucky enough to call my wife for the last 5 years, that is dominant at home but the normal wife outside of the house. If you were to meet us on the street or out at dinner you’d never know what happens in our house, more specifically in our bedroom. I first introduced her in to bondage, very slowly, by randomly pulling out a blindfold or handcuffs during foreplay. She was apprehensive at first, as are most people when exposed to something new. Then one night, after we both had have several drinks, I broke out my toy collection that was quite impressive and any professional dominatrix would love to have access to. She accepted the idea of bondage but soon found her niche as the dominant, as I would always request to be bound and to serve her. My wife would then surprise me randomly by selecting a new toy and trying it out on me or allowing me to use it on her. Now we play weekly, it may be as simple as performing oral sex on her multiple times a day or on a larger scale where we empty out the toy box and it seems as though we use every toy imaginable.
One of these toys my wife really likes is the chastity device I had purchased prior to beginning our relationship. Chastity devices come in all shapes and variations. We use either a plastic or silicon cage that will restrict the person wearing it from having an erection and penetrative sex or masturbation. Sometimes when my wife isn’t feeling in the mood, she’ll lock my penis up and forget about it for days. Other times she will lock me up and continuously tease me by sending me naughty texts and pictures while at work or having me perform oral sex on her for hours on end. She enjoys the fact that when I’ve been locked for several day that I am more attentive to her needs and hornier than ever. She has me at her mercy and has incorporated this into our life on a more regular basis. The longest I have ever been locked up is only a couple of months which may not seem like a long time but when you can’t enjoy a simple morning erection, it seems like an eternity. The best part about being locked by my wife is that I am pleasing her, even if it means that I am suffering. Recently my wife went on a trip to Europe with several girlfriends; she made sure I was locked up and used a website that we play on to find a remote key holder to keep me on my toes while she was unavailable. This temporary key holder has taken over where my wife left off; the only difference is she isn’t here in person. She has me perform certain task periodically during the day with the threat of punishment if I don’t comply or possibly a reward if I perform as asked. She was my Mistress in all aspects as my wife gave her permission to do anything to me that she would do to her own submissives. This guest Mistress was a great experience and I hope my wife decides to loan me out again when she goes traveling.
In addition to chastity, my wife has started incorporating more discipline and corporal punishment. Any infractions, such as not taking the trash out in a timely manner or not washing a dish properly by leaving spots on it, she will keep a tally and score them on a scale. When I have received 5 major infractions, she will give me the most severe form of punishment, 25 strokes of the cane. The cane can be very severe form of punishment and can actually cause significant damage or injury to the person on the receiving end. This punishment is very intense but my wife doesn’t want to physically injury me but to teach me a lesson, that is why she limits the amount of strokes I get at one time. It normally takes a week or two for me to get that many infractions and can take the same amount of time for the marks and bruises to disappear. She will also use some other milder forms of punishment, such as making me sleep naked and bound on the floor beside the bed. On these nights, she will turn the air conditioner and ceiling fan on in order to make sure I suffer. Or my favorite form of punishment is when she places thigh cuffs on her thighs and connects them the collar I am wearing, thus trapping my face between her legs. Sometimes she is wearing shorts or panties and is just teasing me, some days she will be naked and I will have to perform oral sex for hours while she watches television or reads a book or even goes to sleep. Most forms of punishment my wife gives is more for her pleasure, not a discipline related punishment.
The many different realms of female domination and bdsm are very vast and differ from person to person. The most important thing to know is what makes you happy and brings pleasure to you. What makes me happy is serving and pleasing my wife, my Mistress. She is what completes me and is what I wanted to find for many years. She may make me suffer or punish me but I know that is what makes her happy and in turn that makes me happy.
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My wife, who is also my Mistress, has been gone on a girl’s trip with her 3 best friends over the last week and I have missed her dearly. I have missed her scent, her warmth in the bed, but most of all I have missed serving her. There is nothing in this world that pleases me more than when I please her. Seeing her smile is what I live for and I try my best daily to see to that. While my Mistress has been gone, she loaned me out another Mistress that has kept me on a very strict regiment and made me walk a fine line. She has given multiple time teases and made me administer several forms of self-punishment, the reason for this, to please my Mistress.
The scent that my Mistress has when she comes in a room is intoxicating and is a scent that I’ve loved ever since the first day I met her. Over the last week that scent has faded to a mere memory. The other scent that slave has missed, is that of Mistress’ pussy. It is the most beautiful, womanly smell you have ever smelled. My temporary Mistress had me to do all the laundry except for Mistress’ panties. They were then used to remind me of what I was missing. I love burying my face in Mistress’ crotch and laying there, being perfectly still and breathing in the pure essence of Mistress. The leftover scents in the panties also served a reminder that I was pleasing Mistress by doing what my temporary Mistress had assigned me.
Another thing this slave has missed during Mistress’ absence is the warmth of snuggling in bed together. Once someone is accustomed to something, it takes time to adjust, this was one of those things that I still haven’t adjusted to. I hate sleeping alone. I miss the nights Mistress would have me spoon with her to keep her warm at night, or she will have me place my head between her thighs so I can lick her gently while she falls off to sleep. Over the past week my temporary Mistress has allowed me to sleep on the bed with no covers and restrained, on the cold hard kitchen floor without any type of cover, and then last night she allowed me to sleep in the garage on the concrete. I did all of this knowing that if I please her, that pleases my Mistress.
The biggest and hardest adjustment this week was the fact that I was all alone in the house, there was no one, for a slave like me to serve. I normally do the all of the household chores, and I did this week, but she is normally here to provide feedback or correction when necessary. I enjoy serving Mistress a plate of warm food at the dinner table or a hot cup of coffee in bed in the mornings. I have missed pleasuring Mistress by a simple foot massage or drawing her warm bath. I miss pleasuring Mistress’ pussy the most, whether it’s by my tongue, a dildo, or her massager. Seeing the glow that Mistress has after an orgasm makes my soul smile.
I miss the little things that I do every day for her that I have taken for granted. I have learned this week that I should cherish every minute that I have to serve Mistress and pleasure her and that I should be thankful for her allowing a slave, like me, to care for her every need. I am ready for my Mistress to return home, so I can catch up on a week’s worth of pleasing her.
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