How I taught my husband to love me being his hot-wife! (How I made him my happy, horny, motivated cuck). (Not intended as marriage advice but for information and education only. / Well maybe a little bit ;).
Well let me just say to start off that my husband didn’t know what hit him. I have ladies ask me how to get their husbands minds, hearts and cocks open to the possibilities of this lifestyle. This is what happened for us and others report this also worked for them!
Today my husband is so happy and in love with me and our marriage that he thanks me that I used my natural female influence to bring this into our now near perfect marriage!
Initially, I had to realize what I desired and at first I personally battled with my natural sexual needs. At times I felt I started to lose interest in sex and at other times I struggled desiring more than I had with my husband. I loved sex with my husband -at first. Yet, out of about 70 white guys I could remember having sex with in my life, he was 1 of only 4 I ever had orgasm with. But all along I would remember stories of when I was in college.
A few of my girlfriends told me how amazing sex with black men can be. It simmered in my mind every time I noticed an attractive white woman looking so into and confident with her black man next to her. I didn’t see this with attractive ladies next to their white husbands or boyfriends in the same way, there simply was apparent difference.
We live in Atlanta which is a city with a lot of sexy black men, so there are many interracial happenings here to see daily. There simply is an obvious difference which I kept noticing.
I work in a hospital and in the clinic I work there are typically about a dozen women whom work there. In the space of a few months 4 of them (one married!) began to date black men and the stories began around again. I was so curious! Bit by bit I would hear them describe how they were having the best sex ever and how good it was to them. They seemed more confident somehow. They acted happier, healthier, more alive in some noticeable ways and yes more sexual.
Then, I found out the married one was what I found out is called a hot-wife. She dated her lover with her husband’s knowledge and encouragement! I couldn’t believe she got away with it. I even began to dream of what that must be like and noticed I was even a bit envious. So I began asking questions here and there. She told me how it all came about and what worked for her and her husband. Do I need to say that I took mental notes?
Well this is what happened because I found myself more and more motivated to live like she did. I joined a gym not only for fitness but to see if I could flirt with hot guys. I began looking around at the black men everywhere. I had to implement a plan. Ladies this changed my life and became so, so worth it!
Here is what I did…
I would look and stare just a second or two too long at sexy black men when my husband was with me (really all the time!). I would try to get him to notice me doing this but wouldn’t say a word. Then I would make a sudden “breath” sound when a black man would pull beside us or walk by us when we were at stop lights. Again I wouldn’t say a word. I knew he started to notice but I made him stew on this. Occasionally when a very sexy black man was close by to us like at a restaurant or a waiter I would do the breath and seemed to “unconsciously” put my had over my breast, sometimes I would squirm a little in my seat. This too he noticed but I didn’t say a word but noticed that he wanted sex those evenings and was particularly eager! It was working ladies!!!!!!
Then at times when a tall sexy MAN would walk by (you know what type) I would react and say, “Some people are just plain SEXY!” And would be clear I was becoming aroused. Sometimes he would enquire and other times I could just see him thinking and reacting. I would usually just dismiss it from the conversation and make him think. Again and again we had better sex those times.
Then I would go quiet for a while and purpose myself to try not to show whom I was noticing. I wanted him to miss it!
I repeated this cycle for some time making him desire more (he was a little slow to get it) until he would bring it up during sex and he would be so turned on. That’s when I knew he was soon to be my cuck and I would soon get laid by the sexiest men without guilt or in any way harm my husband. I already knew I wanted this. My personal orgasms were more intense and more frequent when this was part of our conversation, day, fantasy or when I would flirt with a black man with or without my husband’s awareness.
Sometimes we looked at real amateur interracial or cheating wife porn and masterbate together or have very turned on intercourse. It was just more exciting than anything we had done. Sometimes I would lock the bedroom door and turn on interracial porn loud in the bedroom and make him stay outside and imagine! This took us to new places of excitement I never knew could be available in a sex life that had previously become less than we hoped for.
It took about a year and a half and my husband was asking me to try it. FOR REAL. He went back and forth for a while until he was always there. That’s when I went for it. And OMG! Not only was the first black man I got taken by the best orgasm I ever had to that point in my life but I had many that night! (Many, many more since and even better).
I had sex with 70ish white guys and one black man and he was better than all 70 combined! I kid you not!
Our marriage has changed for the better and is happier than ever and we love each other with a deeper bond and trust while experiencing all this fun and exciting energy of this secret we now shared. Any regrets? -Wish we started sooner! My husband says the same. Today, almost 6 years later we are both full of life, very fit as opposed to both being overweight and on medication previously. Now we wonder why the entire world isn’t doing this yet. Ladies this is earthquaking and world flipping and will rock your body, mind and your pussy will explode as it shouts Yes, YES, YESSSSSS in its own special way. Yes, it’s THAT good.
Any jerks along the way? Yes, we’ve had a few, but not the majority. Exciting too to know that out of the exactly 28 black lovers so far you know only one didn’t bring me to orgasm! Only one! That’s 27 out of 28 verses 4 out of 70 with white guys! Most of the time the black cock was better than all I ever experienced with the four white guys that seemed to struggle typically to barely get me there. So this is totally worth it. Black men are usually bigger but it’s the way they move, kiss, control, have nicer skin to the touch, better looks, better dress, their masculinity and strength plus they are just very sexy to be with. I know white guys have talents too but sex isn’t one I’ve noticed.
Occasionally in the past (before our new found marriage agreement) I would suffer from lack of motivation and would just take life one day at a time to get by in hopes it would get better. Well it did and I have plenty of zest and motivation now. In the gym, while out running errands, while cleaning house (next is a maid), in my life period but yes most of all with my lovers and clothes coming off!
I only feel it is a shame that too many women and even wives are missing this. At least right now. I see that changing and I am pretty sure you see it too because this is certainly more common than most of us know and it is growing in acceptance and more and more marriages are either fantasizing or actually already doing it.
I cannot seem to find anything stopping this kind of marriage from growing more common. Do you see anything of significance opposing this? If I bet I would bet that you do not either.
While only you know if this is “for” you or not, it is going through a normalization process in cultures world wide.
As more and more talk about it whether by the ladies around us at work or the majority of the real “amateur” porn, from the media to the mall, your neighborhood or friends -this is hidden in plain sight.
More marriages are doing it everywhere in America especially in the bigger cities and it has become common in France, England, Germany and even Korea with the black service men there.
Major credible magazines and professional journals are writing about it and how it can benefit a-lot of marriages who have become a little “dull” like was written about in “Psychology Today” and others.
They talk about the benefits and growth of both open and hot wife / stag or cuck marriages but leave out the bbc component at this point, due I am sure to politics.
In short, this is happening for us all and will happen with or without your being ‘in on it’ or not.
Finally I would like to share a bonus I am experiencing that I did not at first expect! My husband is in sales and I reward him by a taking a new lover everytime he makes a certain amount of extra income in the month. So with his career and MY income this has been very good for us economically as well! I love his new motivated self!
Just this last Christmas (2024) he bought me a new sexy and expensive SUV that I’ve told him I desire and takes me on trips to meet up with new lovers occasionally. I even went on one trip without him as he had to work. Before this we always were lacking with finances. I love having a motivated man with ambition (even if and especially because he is my cuck ;).
Your life is passing and life is too short to be afraid of what happens when you try something new!
If your marriage love is real this will actually improve your marriage! (If it’s not real, it could break it by the way). In my case, my husband is so into it and nearly worships me now and I am no longer afraid of him cheating on me. I used to worry sometimes and this fixed that as well!
Shall I go on or let you begin?
Girl! -just live!
-Olivia T. (just another Atlanta hotwife)
(Sharing is encouraged, just leave me as author).
Just remember she deserves better …
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