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Cuck Fear

I think this is important for everyone to understand, it’s a very real thing that can happen and it can have quite an effect.

We all say a lot and use a lot of words to describe a cuck but at the end of the day a cuck is a man, a man in love, accepting certain needs that you’d not often find at the front of their facebook page. Feelings that are hard to share with some friends, family and publicly in general. This means at first a cucks thought and conversations are initially within ones self.

As always I will share about myself, I am a leader, within my friends, family and work, people look to me, sexually I have also been this way, leading gfs and booty calls down rabbit holes. I had a real hard time with these cuck feelings because at the time a cuck was a weak boy who had little worth, this birthed fear and that lead to me hating myself at times, being disappointed and just out right being miserable about it, too scared to want to even think about other than when I am eyeing up porn and stroking.

As time went on more fears came up, what if I try and talk to my partner about this and she leaves me for him? What if she thinks it’s gay? What if it makes me less of a man?

I’ll keep the answers short because it’s important to be direct here.

If you lose your partner to her bull, she simply isn’t worth your time. This isn’t a woman who values a relationship over sex or maybe you’re just not the right fit. There are a ton of people out there and it’s all about searching for that one. I don’t fear my partner running away with her bulls because I know how she feels and the separation between great sex and emotional connection.

A lot of guys ask me if it’s gay to be a cuck and it’s sort of confusing to me. I don’t think seeing a mans cock is gay, that would make 99% of porn gay. This fear is internal, it’s only you having this fear and no one is going to think this about you. If I see a giant thick black cock that I know my partner is going to like, why wouldn’t I send it to her? Why wouldn’t we talk about it? You’re you, stop worrying about such titles and boxes, be yourself.

Less of a man. This is a big one. I struggled with this a lot. My partner wants and needs black men and therefore I am an inferior white boi loser right? Wrong. I have expressed my feelings about this inferiority complex. I totally disagree with it. I don’t believe in comparing cuck to bull as they’re totally different but here. A bull is someone who turns up fucks your partner and leaves. You as a cuck are someone who loves that woman, potentially watches her act and receive pleasure in a way you can’t and then finally you’re there afterwards. You dealt with fear, placed great trust and then went through with it. Which of the two roles requires more strength of will and character? Which one is the hardest path?

Cucks you are strong, you are men, you go to places and deal with things people are too scared to try and come out happy. You are not a lesser man, you are more of a man than ever before.

Real strength is the ability to overcome, weakness is giving in.

I want to share something, something I discussed with my partner, this was soon after she was talking to a bull and lost her mind, she was crazy for his cock, needing it and down right black dick drunk. Then she said something. “You give this all meaning” When someone says that to you, how can you be scared? Current cucks, future cucks and cucks in denial, that’s where you can end up. Being a cuck in the cuckold lifestyle isn’t being the third wheel or being the weakest member. It’s giving it all meaning. Without you, it’s all just plain old meaningless sex. (Damn good sex but still)