Woe!

So uh...

DON'T ASK WHY I NEVER POST AUDJSJS

I wasn't very sure about posting this, but eventually I said eh, why not, because this is just a funny ship that's more like a crackship to me, if the chart didn't already give that away. I do not take this too seriously.

They are the reason I haven't been posting much, I have so many small doodles that I never post.

I might be a little distracted but shhhhhhh

sometimes you look at someone’s art and you know EXACTLY what’s going on and you’re like

I’m already missing HHN

I’m really tired of seeing people broken up into labels of absolutes.

People are not just “good” or “bad”.

People are not a list of labels. 

People are complex, situations are complex.

I know, that makes it a lot harder when you want to just write off everything someone’s ever done as bad – but that’s not how people actually are, and it would do everyone good to stop pretending they are.

I am tired of hearing about the fear people have in putting themselves out there. And it is a scary thing! Putting yourself out there means subjecting yourself to people who want a really good reason to tear you down, who will jump at the first chance to feel “good” by labeling someone else as “bad”.

I reject this. I reject the idea that there should be fear in speaking up and talking about experiences and trying to reach an understanding of a situation.

I’m unhappy to see people spitefully urging others to cut off ties with their friends under the guise of “well, that person’s just inherently bad, so if you talk to them you’re bad too.” That is fucked up. You definitely have the right to let the friend know you don’t want to hear about whoever troubles you, but you do not at all have the right to decide who their friends should be. This includes guilt trips.

Anyway, just try to be more aware of others. Everyone else is a person like you. They might not have the same experiences as you. They might not understand how their words are harmful, or how what they’re doing is wrong. They certainly won’t if you never tell them.

Most people are trying to be good, but they’re going to mess it up sometimes. Try to keep that in mind. Even when people do really fucked up shit, sometimes they are trying to do good. “The road to hell is paved with good intentions” and all that.

Nothing gets solved, no growth happens when you put people into a box from which you’ll never let them escape.

Yes, you absolutely must be careful about people who have tendencies and patterns that are harmful to you. Sometimes people try to overcome those patterns and they fail, and you have to distance yourself from them: that is the sad reality of life. Sometimes though, they can overcome it. But they certainly won’t if the first thing you do is write them off after a fuck up. 

Be sincere. Use your best judgment.

dunes mayonnaise madness

she wouldnt have missed though lets be real

Wut ur fav frog

I haven't really looked into any frog species, but going off of vibes I really like the blue poison dart frog, it's so pretty! I also like the black eyed leaf frog because it reminds me of my own character that's on my profile. I love the big ol eyes of that frog, but all frogs are cute.

those mutual follows where you’ve never spoken but you quietly reblog things from each other every now and then

heeppy hoolida

Your occasional reminder that if you post an art piece or a piece of writing that isn't very good, nothing bad will happen.

It's nothing to be scared of, what are people gonna do, be mean to you? Cruel people never need a "reason" to be mean to you, they do that anyway!

Fuck it!