SOFT SPOT // stills from a đłď¸âđ comic about two strangers who find themselves having to prep for a baby.
This is May, sheâs 22, an Aquarius who loves art and nature, sheâs short but has the personality of the tallest girl in the world.
Nakakalungkot na sa dami ng kailangang atupagin ng gobyerno sa ganitong panahon at estado ay pagpapatahimik at pag-atake sa malayang pamamahayag ang isa sa naging unang hakbang nila. Hindi lamang ang mga manggagawa ng ABS-CBN ang maaapektuhan nito, malaki ang epekto nito sa mamamayang pilipino.
Ika nga, "ang atake sa isa ay pag-atake sa lahat."
confidence! youâre the sh!t, period .. look in that mirror, say those affirmations and be THAT GIRL
happiness! let the world be mad on their own, donât let anyone steal your joy. so many people are miserable, grumpy and rude for no reason, donât be one of those people. if they canât match your cheerful energy then they donât need to be around you.
self love! no more letting opinions of others get us down or make us doubt ourselves. no more needing validation from anyone other than ourselves. anything negative said to you is pure jealousy. weâre going to love ourselves so much that no words or actions of others will affect us.
self care/maintenance ! we are taking better care of our hair, skin, nails and bodies. start a hair routine/schedule that consists of wash, deep condition, hair mask, trimming ends etc and how often you should do it depending on your type of hair. no more being lazy, take your makeup off before bed and do your skin routine in the morning and at night. letâs start a workout routine for a couple times a week; walking, gym, at home workouts, dancing, pilates, yoga etc. letâs pamper ourselves and get a mani/pedi regularly, at the nail salon or at home.
being productive! letâs wake up at a decent time each day and fill it with excitement and things worth while. letâs start the day with journaling and meditation, tidy our space, get work done, run our errands, make time to do something fun or something we enjoy, do or pick up a hobby, make sure we have a yummy meal everyday, take a relaxing bubble bath at night, read or catch up on some comfort things and then get to bed at a decent time.
knowing our worth! no more letting boys treat us any kind of way. we are goddesses, we are princesses and we should be treated as such. any one who treats us with disrespect or treats us less than we show them the door! no more third and fourth chances (i wouldnât give a second but thatâs up to you). have pride! set boundaries! no more putting up with bullshit! because guess what, what one person wonât do, someone else will! thereâs someone out there that will treat you how you deserve to be treated so donât put up with bums, we deserve top tier treatment.
romanticizing your life! letâs make every little thing in our lives magical and whimsical. letâs wear our prettiest clothes no matter where we go, letâs wear our cutest pajamas each night, use our best mugs for our coffee, light those candles, have dinner dates with ourselves, buy ourselves flowers, take ourselves on dates, eat breakfast outside, have picnics more often, explore museums and libraries, dress like Elle Woods for school, make sure all of our stationary is super cute, play music while cleaning up, get dolled up even to go grocery shopping. letâs always feel pretty and find the beauty in each day
finding your style, your aesthetic! find whatâs comfortable for you, what type of clothes you feel confident and beautiful in. try out different styles and aesthetics until you nail it! create your dream wardrobe one piece at at time. whatâs your color palette? how do you want to express yourself through fashion? clothes are so fun to wear and it brings out your creative side. need help or tips on how to find your aesthetic? let me know and iâll direct you to my âhow to find your aestheticâ post
procrastinating! no more putting things off for a later time. the best time is now. whateverâs on your mind, your bucket list, your vision board, put in the work to get it done. donât let fear or laziness stop you from living life and achieving things.
letting fear hold you back! if you want to go for that job, go for it! if you want to be friends with someone but scared to approach them, do it anyway! they probably want to be friends too and their too shy to say anything. if you like someone tell them! the worst that could happen is them not liking you back and thatâs okay, youâll live! if you want to change your style, aesthetic or hair, do it! life is too short to let fear get in the way. itâs normal to be scared but taking that chance is worth it! even if things donât go completes as planned atleast you can say you tried and you wonât have to wonder âwhat ifâ
responding to negativity/allowing people to drain your energy! girl do not give them the satisfaction, IGNORE IGNORE IGNORE. haters and mean people want that reaction out of you, they crave it, so guess what, donât give it to them. block them and move on with your day. hang up the phone if someone raises their voice at you. it will eat them alive knowing that what they said didnât make you break a sweat! continue on with your positive, peaceful day. donât match anyoneâs negative energy, maintain your positive energy. remember : only YOU have control over your emotions.
getting in relationships just because youâre bored or lonely! learn to love your own company. learn how to be comfortable doing things on your own. itâs okay to go eat out alone, itâs okay to travel alone, itâs okay to go see a movie alone (stay safe and aware of your surroundings ofcourse), itâs okay to stay home on weekends and just relax. you are the best company youâll ever have. spend time with yourself
being obsessed with numbers! 1) if youâre trying to start a blog, have a platform, you canât obsess over your follow count! that will drive you insane and it will discourage you. just do what you love, manifest, make posts, hashtag, promote yourself on your other platforms and then let things be. 2) if youâre trying to lose weight or gain weight, do it the healthy way and plan a time to weigh yourself â for example : twice a month .. (donât obsess over the number on the scale) just eat right, workout and you will get the results you want
COPYING! for the love of God letâs be original. no more stealing other peopleâs tweets, ideas, content etc. lets be creative and come up with our own thoughts and ways of doing things.
staying in unhealthy relationships and environments! even if youâre scared of being alone, even if youâre scared of change, you owe it to yourself to leave these situations. if he/she isnât treating you right, leave. if that job isnât good for your mental health, get a new one. if your family is toxic, distance yourself. donât deal with unnecessary stress. donât stay somewhere just because you donât want to hurt anyoneâs feelings or just because itâs familiar. you have to put your feelings first and do whatâs best for you. you will eventually be okay and your future self will thank you
Imagine the woman you want to become. Envision her embracing a lifestyle woven with healthy habits that radiate positivity and well-being. Picture her waking up early, greeting the day with gratitude, and setting intentions that shape her mindset for success.
In her daily routine, she prioritizes self-careânourishing her body with wholesome meals, staying hydrated, and indulging in regular exercise that she genuinely enjoys. Whether it's a morning yoga session, an evening run, or a dance class, physical activity is not a chore but a celebration of what her body can achieve.
This woman values the power of mindfulness. Picture her taking moments throughout the day to breathe deeply, practice meditation, or simply appreciate the present. It's in these mindful pauses that she finds clarity, resilience, and a profound connection with herself.
As she moves through her day, healthy habits extend into her work life. This woman is organized and efficient, using time management techniques to tackle tasks without feeling overwhelmed. Regular breaks and moments of reflection help her maintain focus and creativity.
Evenings are a sanctuary for winding down. She cherishes a good night's sleep, prioritizing rest as a cornerstone of her well-being. Unplugging from screens, engaging in calming activities, and maintaining a consistent sleep schedule contribute to the rejuvenation her body and mind need.
Remember, becoming her doesn't happen overnight. It's a gradual process, a collection of intentional choices and persistent efforts. Start incorporating these healthy habits, step by step, and watch as you evolve into the empowered, balanced woman you aspire to be. đżđŞđşđ
This pretty picture is my birthday gift đĽş
if I could see it for reaÄş, what then? WHAT THEN???????
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you used to be able to go into a tag after you watched a little movie and find a gorgeous little gifset or photoset or 12 and now you're lucky if you can wade through all the xreader posts to find even one we used to be a website
Why do they do that to people, i mean honestly? Why do they harass people just because THEY are already accepted as is?
I mean why? Why do they have to spread bs about a person just because of reasons they shouldn't be concerned with?
if you look at yourself for long enough in the mirror, you begin to think you're someone else. an imposter. why would a photo be any different?
marilyn monroe / lauren bacall with a portrait of herself / naomi watts / all about eve / debbie harry / perfect blue / adam bernstein / photo of a seoul subway station with bae joohyun posters / david thompson
The âgetting it done in an unconventional wayâ method.
The âitâs not cheating to do it the easy wayâ method.
The âfuck what youâre supposed to doâ method.
The âget stuff done while you waitâ method.
The âyou donât have to do everything at onceâ method.
The âit doesnât have to be permanent to be helpfulâ method.
The âbreak the task into smaller stepsâ method.
The âtreat yourself like a petâ method.
The âit doesnât have to be all or nothingâ method.
The âput on a personaâ method.
The âact like youâre filming a tutorialâ method.
The âyou donât have to do it perfectlyâ method.
The âwait for a triggerâ method.
The âdo it for your future selfâ method.
The âmight as wellâ method.
The âwhen self discipline doesnât cut itâ method.
The âtaking care of yourself to take care of your petâ method.
The âmake it easyâ method.
The âjunebuggingâ method.
The âjust show upâ method.
The âaccept when you need helpâ method.
The âmake it into a gameâ method.
The âeverything worth doing is worth doing poorlyâ method.
The âtrick yourselfâ method.
The âbreak it into even smaller stepsâ method.
The âlet go of shouldâ method.
The âyour body is an animal you have to take care ofâ method.
The âfork theoryâ method.
The âeffectivity over aestheticsâ method.