Y’all The New Richard Siken Poems Are So Goddamned Sad (and Also So Fucking Good, As Expected) Y’gotta

My ongoing goal in life is to become more free in every way, and a lot of my shackles disappeared the moment I realized, "Oh, wait...I never actually HAD to participate in this in the first place!"

For example, after quitting makeup, I realized that actually there's very little that I need to carry around with me. I don't need a purse anymore to carry a makeup bag, and once I started buying cargo pants with lots of sizeable pockets, I was able to just put my wallet, chapstick and phone in my pockets and go. I even created a cool custom chain to attach to my wallet. I dont care a fig if that's a "guy" thing; its practical. (It seems as if fashion that is simple, practical and comfortable is allotted to men, and the fussy burdensome nonsense is allotted to women.) If you've worn a purse since you were 13 like I have, you can understand how freeing it feels to leave the house without it. I know that seems like a small thing, but not having a constant heavy thing hanging on your shoulder (which has to be guarded from theft at all times) is glorious.

And no makeup has meant no fretting about touch-ups. For the first time, I can splash water on my face on a hot summer day in town. More freedom.

I know that the belief that I needed to do these things as a woman came from societal influences, but suddenly it feels like I've been living an existence based on totally imaginary "rules" for SO long, and every time I discover another one that I can disregard, I feel like celebrating. Question everything you take for granted!

Was just diagnosed with “need to bite you” disorder. Yeah sorry it’s terminal. The only cure is biting you. C’mere.

as a kinda of cheap european we can't even access fx and disney puts the new season 1 month after its release 😭I'm pirating for now will be making them official money by rewatching in official sites when the time comes ☝️

when is my husband(wwdits) will come back from war(one week break for literally the next episode) so I can be normal about gay vampires in my casual daily life

the ones who are left behind are in debt to ones who left and I'm tired of waiting for a vengeance that will never come. Just let me fade away it wouldn't be right but it would be easier than fighting.

For gyns who didn’t read my other repost, I’ll post it here.

If you want help with your resume, in regards to reading it over or even helping you make one, I will help you.

If you want help with answering interview questions, I will help you.

In high school & college, I studied on interviews and resumes. I studied it for years. I did many practice interviews, both the interviewer and interviewee. I’ve also did the same with resumes, both making my own in different templates, and reading other people’s resumes.

I am also willing to read over essays, read for mistakes, point them out to help you, or suggest edits.

For free. Just let me know. If you want live help, I can call on discord.

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idk why people are surprised the fans are eating up the gay incest plotline in the White Lotus, did you think mommy and daddy are only straight fetishes?

(incest is a form of validation run for the subordinate in the relationship and since queer people usually got it less than their counterparts...)

remembering last year when my male cousins shit talked about my outfit and how a daughter from our family wouldn't show that much cleavage so I inhaled, opened my mouth to put them in their place and stopped because I was curious what my father would say to them and he never even defended me, didn't open his mouth, just laughed "you could do that on your own, you always have" I KNOW. I could've but I wanted YOU to show solidarity. "they don't actually think that they know you're a hotheaded feminist so they try to rile you up" so the constant judgement of women's clothing is a joke to you and shouldn't be taken seriously?

s6 thiam as tumblr text posts i’ve rbd at some point :]

I truly do apply the idea of "prioritizing women" in my daily life. I will stop to help women with things but not men. I do data entry for work and if I receive something to enter from a woman that has a typo or punctuation error I fix it for her, but if it's a man's work I just copy it exactly as is and send it through. I extend the benefit of the doubt to women but never to men. Even on the road if I can see a woman driver who needs to merge I let her in, but if I know it's a man, he's gotta wait till I pass. I treat women how men treat each other and give the same amount of grace to men as they spare for women (nearly none). It's the little things.

I watched the last episode of good omens season 1 and i wanna do an analysis like the other eps but I didn't get screenshots bcz of focusing too much on the episode I mean it was greeeat so now I'm kinda proscinatig and scared that I don't have anything worth to say