You Have Zero Control Over The Actions Of Another Person. You Can Only Control How You React And Respond.

i made a little quiz. it has gentle wisdom to take with you. whatever i can give you is yours. love u. take the wisdom & run.

turns out that being compassionate towards myself during moments of uncertainty and stress is the best thing i can do for myself

to put it simply, the right people will get you. you will not have to fight for breadcrumbs of love. you will not have to beg for attention. the right people will love you freely and easily, and will carve out space in their life for you. the right people will check up on you on your bad days & laugh with you on your good. you will find friends who embrace every part of you, and who will push you to grow. someday, any trace of those who hurt you will be filled with warmth from those who never will.

little comic about self care and growth [instagram, store, etc]

If you’re unhappy with who you are, view yourself as a foundation. You will expand, you will grow and you will reassess, while also realizing that who you are is necessary to who you’re becoming, and that there’s an inherent goodness inside of you already. It’s okay to start from where you are, with who you are.

he will never be too much for me. i want him to hug me until the last possible second, i want him to tell me how happy i make him every five minutes, i want him to tell as many people as he can about me, i want him to text me and tell me how much he misses me two minutes after i leave, i want him to send me songs and tumblr posts that remind him of me, i want him to tell me about his day, i want to listen to him infodump, i want to just listen to him. i will never tell him that he is too much because he isn’t. he’s my boy and i want everyone to know it.

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