him name is briar :3
shoutout to regressors who:
have facial hair
have body hair
are men or masculine-aligned
regress to a teen or younger adult
arent “aesthetic”
dont fit beauty standards
cant or dont have gear
experience intrusive thoughts
dont like to be touched
cant form words when regressed
cant form words when big
experience flashbacks when regressed
regress to give themselves the past they never had
have dermatillomania or other compulsive disorders
experience joint pain
i see you, you are loved, you are as important as any other regressor. you deserve to express your regression and feel safe.
You can enjoy stuff that makes your inner child happy even if you:
💕 are dating/married
✨️ have kids of your own
🌈 have a job (no matter how "important" it is)
💕 are out of school
✨️ have a budget
🌈 enjoy not-kid-friendly stuff too
💕 choose not to share with others or engage online
✨️ got rid of your childhood stuff in an attempt to "grow up"
🌈 have "no reason" to do inner child work (i.e. trauma)
basics with pumpkin 𖤣.𖥧.𖡼.⚘
sometimes people don’t know to do the basic things of life + that’s completely okay! i’m going to do my best to explain the basic day to day things for the little ones who need it <3.
this one was requested on babble talk !!
today’s task : flossing
flossing can be really confusing to understand, i know i struggle with at times too !! - so here are miss pumpkin's tips + explanation !! ♡
🦷 the right size of floss would be around 45 centimeters (18 iches) !!
🦷 once you've cut it to size, wrap the floss around one of your forefingers (index or 'pointing' finger) + hold the floss tight between your forefinger + thumb on your other hand.
🦷 the length should be long enough to reach each front, middle + back tooth!!
🦷 hold the floss tight + move it towards your teeth.
🦷 place the floss gently between the tooth + pull down. - the floss should slot down between the side of the tooh and the gum line (be gentle!)
🦷 use a gentle rocking motion to get all the little icky bits stuck in between the teeth + should also help you prevent any unneccessary irritation to the gums.
i hoped this helps sweetpeas !! ♡
gif isn't mine
i really want to tell mine, and i've gotten close before, but i was just never brave enough to do it. and i know that in reality she'd probably accept me. i know it's something we could work through together. i'm just scared that she wouldn't understand or that she wouldn't want to work with me anymore. and then i'd have to find a new therapist and i'd have to come up with a reason why to my parents and UGH. i just wish i could not be so afraid.
does anyone have any advice? >.<