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Waiting on “your season” is nothing but a weak excuse to be lazy about achieving the things you want. Those things will not miraculously appear in front of you if you are not willing to go after them relentlessly. The moment you decide to be the main character in the story of your own life rather than an spectator watching it unfold by is the day things will change. Don’t wait for your season, create your season.

Things I expect every woman above 17 to know.

It is not characteristic of the truth to bend itself to fit perspective. When it does so it's called illusion. The truth is the truth, take it as it is because there isn't a single thing you can do about it. It is exactly what is it, that's that. Do what you can with it and let go. It is what it is ,it will not change because you do not like it.

It is characteristic of a social species to a) bully it's weak and b) ostracize it's different (or defected). If you show weakness you will be bullied, that's that. If you are different, you will be ostracized . It's that. Back to point 1. - it is what it is. Take the truth and do something with it, as is. You can not change it.

The only thing people respect in women is beauty and power. That's it. Your brains only count when you're already rich and pretty. Your character only counts as a bonus to your looks and bank. Money. Beauty. These - then a bonus of intelligence because what's a pretty face with no brains. A pretty face can get ahead no brains like Marylin Monroe projected but a beautiful brain with no beauty will get walked over like that one nerd id in class that's painfully smart and kind and intelligent but still gets bullied and walked over. It is what it is. Take it and do with it what you can. A woman's power is her beauty and money (& intelligence. There's a reason we evolved to be smarter than them. With no brains you can get around but will be used left right center). When you level up, you start with making a crazy ton of money and being pretty. Then people will care.

Systems are innately unfair because people have different needs and it is impossible to serve everyone at the same time. It's a flaw of personality - every system out there is inconveniencing someone. Learn this now. When you still can. On the same not- there is no such thing as freedom or fairness because we have to deal with other people and one will ALWAYS have the upper hand and more power- because it is the characteristic of a social species to be hierarchical in nature. When you eat the rich someone else will replace them. When you abolish the patriarchy something else will replace it. Whoever made the rules we follow now had to change the ones that came before. A flaw of a progressive time- space reality.

It is better the devil you do not know than the angel you do. Familiarity breeds disrespect, the more time you spend with people the more disrespectful they get. Exhibit A- the family you grew up with. In conjunction with this it is important to remind you human beings are wired to assume everything they do not know as a threat- and for something to be a threat it has to be better and more powerful than you. Which is to say people that you are not familiar with automatically assume you are better than them and powerful and all that, while people that are familiar with you have you boxed and are sticking to the version of you they have the most power over because it keeps them at ease and helps them coexist with you without the risk of having you as a threat.

Human beings are animals. A survival species that has survived by elimination of competition and tearing each other apart. Like a pack of wolves they (we) unite when faced by an outside threat only to tear each other apart in the absence of one. It's not a you thing it is an animal thing. Under pressure people break . Understanding this will free you from most of your trauma, trust me. It's not a you thing & it's a survival game. You also turn into an animal under enough pressure do not act holy. Free yourself of the self centered narcissistic idea that they did it to you because you are you. They did it because we are animals and this is how we are. Let it go, it wasn't a you thing. Why drag it around. Also, it's a survival game. Learn to play it.

It is a characteristic of a social species to depend on each other for survival. No man is an island. Sigma female is just trauma announcing it's existence and going ghost is counterproductive and false, it will never work. You need people. Social skills >>>> literally every single thing out there and social politics is survival politics.

Do with this what you must.

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Anytime someone does something bad to me, I ask myself how I put myself in that position. Not because “it’s my fault” or “I deserve it” — but because I want to grow and never be put in that position again.

Hayao Miyazaki