being a self shipper uncomfortable with doubles/sharing fucking sucks. people are so fucking nasty and for what
people in the self ship community that are okay with doubles 9 times out of 10 make you feel bad for not being okay with it
and people outside of the community look at you like youre a freak and they try to shit out "ohh gatekeeping gatekeeping"
like many people dont understand why some self shippers dont like sharing nor do they take the time to understand.
many self shippers dont just self ship with a character bcus "oh attractive ooh theyre my type" but because they have a deep personal and spiritual bond with said character, that character brings them a wave of comfort, safety, and serenity better that anything in reality can. seeing someone else love up on them and be like "omg i feel the same" when you gush about them literally feels like someone saying that about your ACTUAL partner. and it hurts so fucking much.
non sharing self shippers arent trying to gatekeep a character, they arent trying to stop others from enjoying/self shipping with them, they just want people to refrain from doing it around them.
like dude im not some twisted childish bitch im just trying to avoid distress and a complete breakdown. thx.
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(This picrew image literally describes me irl. Just a nervous & silly inrtovert :3)
I tag @colakissing, @sharkii22, @moondane-lovers..
..And everyone who wants to join!^^✨
(nether the quiz not the picrew are owned by me)
tagging: @spirking-and-smirking @catsndstartrek @artisan-dino-nuggets @orangesoda-fizz @belle-oftheball34
anyone is welcome to join!
tfw a movie in a language I don't understand has a cute fat scarecrow and I'm like
actually there's two of them. (two of them)
anyway enjoy these gifs lol
...I only just now realized the movie has an English title too asfagffd
but yeah, Урфин Джюс и его деревянные солдаты (2017). it has cute scarecrows.
Super fun fact: Your F/O will protect you
a bit of a personal post. taps chin. because i've been feeling highly insecure for an unspecified amount of time and so i thought i'd make an appreciation post !
putting this in big bold letters: PROSHIP DNI
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shoutout to selfshippers with bottling problems and/or tendencies. to those of us who keep our feelings locked up inside until it pops and pours out when we least want it to. to those of us who bottle so much to keep others feeling happy. to the selfshippers who are so scared to voice anything about how they feel because they've experienced negative reactions from those they've trusted, just by voicing their emotions.
shoutout to selfshippers who can't properly gush because they often feel like a nuisance to others. whether it's the kinda gushing that's about your f/o's lore, your f/o in general, your selfships— to those of us who find it weird and at times a bit uncomfortable to gush because we're so used to feeling like a nuisance. or that we won't even be given the time of day to have our stuff acknowledged.
shoutout to selfshippers who are genuinely not understood. who's reactions at times are viewed as unnecessary or overdramatic or illogical for reacting the way we do when we're scared of opening up.
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your f/o(s) wouldn't treat you like that. they'd listen to you oh so intently, to whatever you'd have to say.
if you've been bottling for so long, whether it's emotions or interests, your f/o(s) wouldn't let you keep that up. they'd gently encourage you to express yourself, even if it starts out small. they reassure you that they won't get mad about speaking your mind, that're you're not an asshole for how you feel, especially if your f/o(s) understand what cause your reactions and why you keep things inside.
your f/o(s) will do everything in their power to make you feel safe in being you, you who expresses yourself, just like every human should be allowed to.
Oh my gosh..Guys are you okay?..😟
(I know, it's just a joke and..April 1st is already gone..like..more than week ago..but)
*left a big towel for Scarecrow, and a little barrel of oil for Tin Man and then leaves*
I did one too)
(Yeah, was kinda in melancholy-like mood while doing this😌🌧)
I tag: @sunstar-of-the-north @strawbeaniie @twinsandselfships @frankys-soulmate @vergils-beloved @moxanji-real @oli-draw @alpatbuk
(No presure of course)
..And everyone who wants to join!✨
this picrew + the last song you listened to :]
original game post by @/critterofthenight ♥︎ i was tagged by @sheepie-self-ships ! tysm!!
tags : @scarecrowbf & @locally-sourced-loser & @floralpotions & @p4wn1sh3r ♥︎ ( /nf of course! )