I'm In. I Want To See Subs Have Higher Expectations And I'm Sick Of The "Tumblr Dom" Who Thinks They

I'm in. I want to see subs have higher expectations and I'm sick of the "Tumblr dom" who thinks they can just boss around a sub just because they're a dom and no other reason.

Doms are like leaders - the good ones use influence rather than authority. Influence is built from developing relationships and trust.

I need, NEED, these BDSM advice posts to stop treating subs like they're passive participants in kink and Doms like they're robots.

Subs: you need to convey your needs to your Doms directly. Don't wait for them to bring up things, before you start doing stuff, you come with your needs in hand. Also, ask about your Dom's needs as well. Give THEM aftercare as they were in whatever scene you just did experiencing all of those emotions as well. Tell them they aren't monsters for liking it and that you wanted it.