Farewell Online Privacy

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Stuff kids on tumblr better relearn

1. You are responsible for your own media experience. 

2. There is such a thing as a healthy level of avoidance towards topics that make you feel unwell or even (in a real-life clinical definition of the term) trigger you - but you are the one to actively take care of what you view.

3. Avoiding does not mean policing others.

4. You have no right to tell artists to censor themselves - you may criticize what others do, you may dislike it, that’s fine - but actively asking for censorship when you could easily unfollow or block a person just makes you look incompetent in your use of the internet.

5. Do not give people on tumblr or /any/ website the responsibility for your emotional well-being. Because these people do not even know you so no, you have no right to ask them to take care of you.

no one:

me: here’s a flow chart of 41 lgbtq+ book recommendations, have fun!

disclaimer: this is a very non-comprehensive list since I’m only including books that I’ve read

"Should parents read their daughter's texts or monitor her online activity for bad language and inappropriate content?"

Earlier today, I served as the “young woman’s voice” in a panel of local experts at a Girl Scouts speaking event. One question for the panel was something to the effect of, “Should parents read their daughter’s texts or monitor her online activity for bad language and inappropriate content?”

I was surprised when the first panelist answered the question as if it were about cyberbullying. The adult audience nodded sagely as she spoke about the importance of protecting children online.

I reached for the microphone next. I said, “As far as reading your child’s texts or logging into their social media profiles, I would say 99.9% of the time, do not do that.”

Looks of total shock answered me. I actually saw heads jerk back in surprise. Even some of my fellow panelists blinked.

Everyone stared as I explained that going behind a child’s back in such a way severs the bond of trust with the parent. When I said, “This is the most effective way to ensure that your child never tells you anything,” it was like I’d delivered a revelation.

It’s easy to talk about the disconnect between the old and the young, but I don’t think I’d ever been so slapped in the face by the reality of it. It was clear that for most of the parents I spoke to, the idea of such actions as a violation had never occurred to them at all.

It alarms me how quickly adults forget that children are people.

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I'm honored to accept the nugget of friendship!! Thanks Imma!

I'm tagging @fuckfuckfuckfuckimdying, @crackhead-bi- and @rashelsosa, y'all are so awesome.

sunsetcarnation264:

8-bit-britt:

aquamarine-machine:

pikaharambe:

rubyfroakie:

ask-your-teacher-sunny-sunshine:

harp1ntra1n1ng:

bluebloodedsweater:

yeahhiyellow:

jurdan7:

thewickedkings:

b00kworm:

awkward-avocado-s:

bisexual-boredom:

deanbean-soup:

that1nerdgirl:

the-1-and-lonly:

anxieteas-tea:

virgils-anxiety-and-insanity:

irei-art:

solicitous-lyo:

gaytothethirddegree:

goldfishgiraffe:

firedrakegirl:

ladyarkytiorofdunans:

isnt-that-something:

crippledtrashcan:

valentinetellsajoke:

quarantinemakesyoulookatthissite:

zeebee52:

onlyplatonicirl:

glimmeringsunshine:

archivefullofyoutubers:

This is the Nugget of Friendship.

It is not given lightly. Yet I give it to you.

Yes. I mean YOU.

Now shoo.

Pass on the Nugget of Friendship.

@onlyplatonicirl @lanaplaystoomuch

I ACCEPT YOUR NUGGET OF FRIENDSHIP!!!!!!!

@rainysquiggles @quarantinemakesyoulookatthissite @lunalights-stuff84 Friendship Nuggie!

!!!!! I ACCEPT!!!

@valentinetellsajoke​ @freshwerewolf-pizzaroll​ @lunalights-stuff84​ @underxthexnightxstarz​ @kikirain​ 

OH!! THANK YOU!!

@kitrien @isnt-that-something @undertaleau-headcanons @braindeadskeletons @jacketbones @crippledtrashcan @bigoltrashpile

AWWW THANK YOU!!!! :::”””DDDD

@keziha-chan @pureangleda @puppy-the-mask @snowflakeimagines @annegirl13 @isnt-that-something @rainbowut @yeehowdy-2-point-0 oh! And @greenjellyblob :•))))))))

(You don’t have to pass it on if you don’t want to, but I still give you nugget of friendships ;;DD)

I was tagged twice?! Thank you both, @valentinetellsajoke​ and @crippledtrashcan​!!  I am too tired to tag peeps but I’m passing on the nugget of friendship to whom ever wants to share!

DO NOT EAT THE NUGGET OF FRIENDSHIP! FOR AS THE NUGGET OF FRIENDSHIP IS DIGESTED, SO TOO IS OUR FRIENDSHIP!

@ariinya​ @vex-bittys​ @lizzie-tempest​ @blacksheep28​ @iconicanemone​ @ladyflame-ask​ @addicted-to-the-fic​ @grayscaleanon​ @imjustalazycat​ @kaysteroni-n-cheese​ @pureangleda​ @meldaburke​ @melodyrider​ @firedrakegirl​ @noble-noodle​ @ulskelesona​

@blacksheep28 @dianamoonposts @dizzy-gamer @ibelieeveeineevee @lost-immortality @rnd-injustice @damnedxfate @yunasightx

I’m tempted to eat the nugget of friendship! But I won’t :D

@gaytothethirddegree​ @flowersdobloom​

awwwww! thank you! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

@multi-fandom-remy  @solicitous-lyo​

Ahhhh thank you ily, right back atcha!!

@multi-fandom-remy @lavender-mochi @greenteaturmoil @supernatural-raptor @irei-art @justtrashperson @dante1138 @starbucks-remy @catadoodles @raaindropps @just-shilaylay @layschips12 @aspex-t @dioramic @tiny-pan-penguin @logicalberry @wroammin @igosploosh @wicked-universe @youthquake-in-the-making @logan-sanders-enthusiast and @ everyone else I’m forgetting and all my curious anonymous friends!! Ahhh I just love you all with all my heart and I’m thankful to know you MWAH MWAH YOURE AMAZING!!!

*gasp* thank you lyo!!

I will give this Nugget to @lavender-mochi, @bottledenigmas, @ethan-bethan, @virgils-anxiety-and-insanity, @lovelemons, @candykarkat, @wroammin, @saturn-the-art-dude, @lots-of-love-123, @ask-light-side-remus-and-friends and @naomithenarwhal!

*wide eyed* t-thank you!

@helloidkwhatimdoing-0 @kyle-cutie @hedgiehoggles @spoofy-drawings @owner-of-the-devil-cat @anxieteas-tea

ahhh??? thank you! i’d love to be friends! you are amazing! thank you!

@phoenixdoesstuff @the-1-and-lonly @its-always-the-witching-hour (@error-410-rat, @willowthedorken) @imliterallyvirgilandlogan @night-time-anxi-tea @virgils-anxiety-and-insanity!

Yay my friend!!! Tysm

@itsawitchesworld @nightanjel @night-time-anxi-tea @that1nerdgirl @imliterallyvirgilandlogan @sodapopspike (yes I mean all of y’all) @kitkat-kiwikat @drewwwbydoobydoo

Yaaaaayy!!

@too-much-chaos @hey-i-like-writing @tiny-pan-penguin @the-1-and-lonly (i know you tagged me but you get it too) @mythosnerd @anything-yzabela21 @ohnoimfangirlingagain @deanbean-soup

Thamk you :)))

@awkward-bisexual-finger-guns @bisexual-boredom @amazingdemigodstuff @monochromemelody087 @masterconstellation @witchybitchyho (sorry if I missed anyone, @you I am forgetful)

Friends! Can I tag u back?  @bitchass-slytheriny-snake @yag-but-backwards @dearevanhamilton6 @funky-gay-fae @reallyradrat @homosexual-having-tea @bitchass-slytheriny-snake @awkward-bisexual-finger-guns @awkward-avocado-s @deanbean-soup @inprisonforsparkling

@bisexual-boredom I ACCEPT THE NUGGET💛💛

@b00kworm @clockworkgraystairs @abraxos-is-toothless @acourtofmarauders

@awkward-avocado-s I ACCEPT THE NUGGET AND GIVE IT BACK TO YOU, thank you so much!!💛💛

@abraxos-is-toothless @jyoti96 @slightlyrebelliouswriter23 @clockworkgraystairs @aelin-queen-of-terrasen @negativenesta @cardan-greenbriar-tcp @acourtofmarauders @thewickedkings (I feel like I’m missing someone- I’m sure I’ll remember it later)

@b00kworm I AM HONORED TO RECEIVE THE NUGGET 😌❤ Thank you so much!!

@jurdan7 @cardan-greenbriar-tcp @dressedindustandshadows I literally can’t think right now but there are so many people I’m so thankful I met on here!!

Akrhakfb another one!! I’m crying rn,, thank you luv!! I accept the nugget!~ @charincharge @thatbitchydonutcollector @morozovasbitch @aneurwin @wonder-and-wildflowers @arushipun @yeahhiyellow @ellayulbo @rowaelinislife and so many more🥰 (sorry this took so long!!)

Nehbxksbdidwbdv thank you for the nugget!!! 💛💛💛 Luckily I’m vegetarian so you won’t have to worry about me eating it lol

There are a lot of people on here I could pass this onto so here have the friendship nugget 💛💛💛 @youknowwhoboi @manicparadox @sonic-fairyspell @mywigglybaby @bluebloodedsweater @the-delicate-sea-dryad @quackjax @russianblue22 @kara-jayne-art @willowreader @sakurablossomhime @alyonalina @flightofthestorm @emiliaf25 @abbeyplusultra @adorabeanie @emzillaspn @pzos-amiserableidiot @tin-a-can @pastel-bi-day @my-sins-might-be-your-tragedies @strixton @assortedyeets @dreamxeyes @echosilverwolf @rahzy-l7 @ajunkblogorsomethingiguess @lenotchpoodles @bookish-bacillaria @genderqueer-deity @boowoomuu @junemo10 @luminescent-city

YAY FRIENDOS 💛💛💛

Thanks, that’s cute.💙

@awful-little-goose @phoenixxi @pyrepalaver @krabandkrill @k-eke @krabandkrill @jodaaariel @jojoseames @daily-magolor @daily-gorb

DO NOT EAT THE NUGGET OF FRIENDSHIP! FOR AS THE NUGGET OF FRIENDSHIP IS DIGESTED, SO TOO IS OUR FRIENDSHIP!

@melyna14yt @harp1ntra1n1ng @darkgamer-gacha900 @funsized-aesthetic @eles-random-shit @dyingcow @story-centr1l @abhavkr @rose437 @remichuuu @lyraceleste @ask-fatima-and-the-pals @cartoonusa @everythingfox @sammyblack22 @ourquiethome @asktheyogabaldi @welcome-to-random-characters

[Sorry if i didnt get all of yall in i have homework to do and i dont want to waste alot of time but friendship matters]

Well, okay. If you say so. Thank you very much.

YO @pikaharambe TAKE THIS NUGGET! IT SYMBOLIZES FRIENDSHIP!

AAHH!! THANK YOUUUU

@flowersofstarlight @aquamarine-machine

TAKE THE HOLY NUGGET

For me?….W-Wow.

@8-bit-britt @clawdiusartist 

May I?

Aaaaaa thank you!!!

@waffletoast215 @sunsetcarnation264 @asmallspark

@mrbunnicula

Autumn gets nugget? Autumn loves nuggets! (that kinda hurt to type XD but if you get what I’m tryna reference then y’all get another nugget) @byrdybyrd02 @rammbook @crimsoncobaltblue @cl-babydew @sophfandoms53 @gymthecartoongeek @ginadespell @feckle-queckle

Thank you so much! @crimsoncobaltblue @greenbean-quackeroo @rtlknd @midnight–vamp @rainy und @kody whose urls i cant remember rn

Um Indiana?

What the FUCK is going on?

really wasnt sure how to title this one without getting cancelled

Thank you this had been on my mind a lot

Am I the only one who does that thing where it looks like you're holding a wineglass? Is that just me?

Nah I do it too