Dabi Is AMAZING And RARE Rep For Abuse Victims.

Dabi is AMAZING and RARE rep for abuse victims.

I'll say it once, twice, a million times. A lot of the time victims do want to hurt or even kill their abusers, being blinded by it and not caring who's hurt in the process, and that's something that's rarely acknowledged in media. More often than not we get character's who have been through therapy, they've made up and made peace with the people who hurt them, they're okay!! But we never get to see what happens when those people don't get the help they need, (well, sometimes we do, but usually we only get to see the madman that was formed by abuse, not the abuse itself. And it's even rarer that we get to see these characters cry or show empathy towards their own victims) which is why I think it's really important for it to be shown. Like, not as a warning, but more as a "yes, other victims think this way. You aren't supposed to be just fine after going through that. You need help, and that's fine."

I do see a lot of people think that abuse victims becoming killers/villains demonizes abuse victims and like,, I find that ridiculously stupid. If you go through heavy trauma, especially if it was inflicted by the people meant to love and take care of you, you will NOT be okay, no matter how okay you think you are, you're not. Victims often DO want to hurt people, they DO think about bad things and do bad things quite often, it's not normal but it's common. Hurt people hurt people sometimes!! It sucks, I know people hate to acknowledge it, but it's TRUE. You can claim that saying that demonizes victims, and maybe it does, but if you don't let people know that they're not alone, they won't even try to get help. And Dabi is a good representation of that no matter what you think. Throughout the show we see him express empathy through actions AND words on occasion (ex. Him crying, while saying he thinks about his victims very often)

Hurt people hurt people, but that doesn't mean they're not people. And Dabi shows that in a way that I haven't seen in any other character.

(I know I repeated myself a couple times but I am SOOO sick and tired. Like, as in, I am tired aswell as sick. Not as in I'm sick n tired of whatever)

More Posts from Messedupcookiejar and Others

1 year ago

Not all venom fans are monster fuckers 😞 some of us are just aroace disasters who like the idea of a platonic soulmate who likes to murder annoying people for you, is that so bad?

1 year ago

Beautiful hydro dragon

Commission For @addicted-to-12th-intro !!✨ "the Spilling Of Blood And The Act Of Creation"

commission for @addicted-to-12th-intro !!✨ "the spilling of blood and the act of creation"

8 months ago

My favorite ship AND favorite movie? As if you didn't already made me love your art! Now Tomura just needs to look/act a bit more like an absolutely hopeless loser and it's even more perfect. I love my loser Eddie.

But I absolutely adored how his scars are in the venom form as well. It suits him. And maybe wear like in ear headphones so he can talk to Venom/or whatever the symbiote is named in this AU without people thinking he is crazy and so he wears them all the time, just in case.

Or maybe he is already hunted for some crimes and all! Ohh I want more Lore!!

And maybe like my favorite scene with them as well? Like Tomura chilling at Toya's/Dabi's and some cops or special unit showing up and the symbiote is like, "We need to kill them all!" "No we are not going to kill people." "But... one pile of bodies, one pile of heads." "We are not going to kill them!" Or maybe they do want to kill, but Toya is around, and so he wants to appear cool and not like a serial killer.

I am very excited!! I am sure that idea has been added to the list of writing ideas!

messedupcookiejar - Alex/MiScha
messedupcookiejar - Alex/MiScha

Tags
1 year ago

when something’s kinda rad, but not too rad

image
2 weeks ago
YoI Be Like

YoI be like

11 months ago

Tagging this with gay fandoms sorry

There's currently a European proposition to ban conversion practice in Europe

If you're European please sigh it

If you're not please reblog

European Citizens' Initiative
eci.ec.europa.eu
Give your support !
11 months ago

I’m tired of hearing people say “Disney’s Cinderella is sanitized. In the original tale, the stepsisters cut off parts of their feet to make the slipper fit and get their eyes pecked out by birds in the end.”

I understand this mistake. I’m sure a lot of people buy copies of the complete Grimm’s Fairy Tales, see their tale of Aschenputtel translated as “Cinderella”, and assume what they’re reading is the “original” version of the tale. Or else they see Into the Woods and make the same assumption, because Sondheim and Lapine chose to base their Cinderella plot line on the Grimms’ Aschenputtel instead of on the more familiar version. It’s an understandable mistake. But I’m still tired of seeing it.

The Brothers Grimm didn’t originate the story of Cinderella. Their version, where there is no fairy godmother, the heroine gets her elegant clothes from a tree on her mother’s grave, and where yes, the stepsisters do cut off parts of their feet and get their eyes pecked out in the end, is not the “original.” Nor did Disney create the familiar version with the fairy godmother, the pumpkin coach, and the lack of any foot-cutting or eye-pecking.

If you really want the “original” version of the story, you’d have to go back to the 1st century Greco-Egyptian legend of Rhodopis. That tale is just this: “A Greek courtesan is bathing one day, when an eagle snatches up her sandal and carries it to the Pharaoh of Egypt. The Pharaoh searches for the owner of the sandal, finds her and makes her his queen.”

Or, if you want the first version of the entire plot, with a stepdaughter reduced to servitude by her stepmother, a special event that she’s forbidden to attend, fine clothes and shoes given to her by magic so she can attend, and her royal future husband finding her shoe after she loses it while running away, then it’s the Chinese tale of Ye Xian you’re looking for. In that version, she gets her clothes from the bones of a fish that was her only friend until her stepmother caught it and ate it.

But if you want the Cinderella story that Disney’s film was directly based on, then the version you want is the version by the French author Charles Perrault. His Cendrillon is the Cinderella story that became the best known in the Western world. His version features the fairy godmother, the pumpkin turned into a coach, mice into horses, etc, and no blood or grisly punishments for anyone. It was published in 1697. The Brothers Grimm’s Aschenputtel, with the tree on the grave, the foot-cutting, etc. was first published in 1812.

The Grimms’ grisly-edged version might feel older and more primitive while Perrault’s pretty version feels like a sanitized retelling, but such isn’t the case. They’re just two different countries’ variations on the tale, French and German, and Perrault’s is older. Nor is the Disney film sanitized. It’s based on Perrault.

1 year ago

I belong to the first group. One breast is breast boobiling in another way than my other breast is breast boobiling. And so my boobily breasts are not boobiling breasty in boobily harmony.

u ever walking somewhere and become aware of your tits moving and go aw fuck im breasting boobily. im literally breasting boobily right now. :(


Tags
1 year ago

I would just die, instead death. Like yeah, yep they died. I'm dead. The second that branch was in the momentum of falling NY body dropped dead on the floor without even a fit of coughing and puking out my lungs

Excuse Me While I Sneeze 30 Times In A Row…

Excuse me while I sneeze 30 times in a row…

  • luvmon3t
    luvmon3t liked this · 2 months ago
  • theesweetest-princess
    theesweetest-princess liked this · 8 months ago
  • booksooks
    booksooks liked this · 8 months ago
  • aetherandlight
    aetherandlight liked this · 8 months ago
  • pandora17iii
    pandora17iii liked this · 8 months ago
  • messedupcookiejar
    messedupcookiejar reblogged this · 8 months ago
  • messedupcookiejar
    messedupcookiejar liked this · 8 months ago
  • numberonedeertragedy
    numberonedeertragedy liked this · 8 months ago
  • rosieez22222244444
    rosieez22222244444 liked this · 9 months ago
  • pancakewithguts
    pancakewithguts liked this · 9 months ago
  • mollyrocks420
    mollyrocks420 liked this · 9 months ago
  • jellymelting
    jellymelting liked this · 9 months ago
  • palesweetscherryblossom
    palesweetscherryblossom liked this · 9 months ago
  • phoebes-savior-complex
    phoebes-savior-complex reblogged this · 9 months ago
  • phoebes-savior-complex
    phoebes-savior-complex liked this · 9 months ago
  • flamme-shigaraki-spithoe
    flamme-shigaraki-spithoe liked this · 9 months ago
  • amethystoceandespiser
    amethystoceandespiser reblogged this · 9 months ago
  • amethystoceandespiser
    amethystoceandespiser liked this · 9 months ago
  • ameliaenya404
    ameliaenya404 liked this · 9 months ago
  • mikeys-mistress
    mikeys-mistress liked this · 9 months ago
  • doodlegirl1998
    doodlegirl1998 reblogged this · 9 months ago
  • doodlegirl1998
    doodlegirl1998 liked this · 9 months ago
  • whimsynmalice
    whimsynmalice liked this · 9 months ago
  • ruoshuigoddess
    ruoshuigoddess liked this · 9 months ago
  • muraaaaaa
    muraaaaaa liked this · 9 months ago
  • cxsmic-tory
    cxsmic-tory liked this · 9 months ago
  • imaginationmess
    imaginationmess liked this · 9 months ago
  • antisocialblob
    antisocialblob liked this · 9 months ago
  • your-stank-ass
    your-stank-ass liked this · 9 months ago
  • mxddietherat
    mxddietherat liked this · 9 months ago
  • bono-aesthetic
    bono-aesthetic liked this · 9 months ago
  • lonni1304
    lonni1304 reblogged this · 9 months ago
  • lonni1304
    lonni1304 liked this · 9 months ago
  • venusforvendetta
    venusforvendetta liked this · 9 months ago
  • melodyglow-blog
    melodyglow-blog reblogged this · 9 months ago
  • melodyglow-blog
    melodyglow-blog liked this · 9 months ago
  • touyaeater
    touyaeater liked this · 9 months ago
  • billygoat26
    billygoat26 liked this · 9 months ago
  • iicloud
    iicloud liked this · 9 months ago
  • thesustainedworldatransverse
    thesustainedworldatransverse liked this · 9 months ago
  • embers-of-the-league
    embers-of-the-league reblogged this · 9 months ago
messedupcookiejar - Alex/MiScha
Alex/MiScha

Danger noodles, dinosaurs, and anime DeathNote is the best. Shigadabi/Wriolette/Matchablossom for life, basically semi-working alcoholic, I am a writer (ItIsIAlex on Ao3)

467 posts

Explore Tumblr Blog
Search Through Tumblr Tags