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I hope we become omnipresent, wandering sprits when we die, because I really want to be able to go to all the events I miss out on in my limited mortal life.

Your Ghoul, Morticia, here. I only just discovered that people have to log into Blogger with an account to read posts, and that isn't great for the people trying to read my event reviews. I am a former tumblrian, and have missed, some aspects of, it. My Linktree will be updated and the old blog is just going to be Copy/pasted here, then deleted. For anyone New finding me here, Hello! Let's Face it, I have a beard. To be Clear: I am a Biological Female (Ovaries SUCK) I have PolyCystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS) ((OVARIES SUCK)) and I naturally grow a beard.

What am I blogging about? Not my beard, as much. I LOVE being a Goth, and finding and sharing events, locales where other Goths gather is a passion for me. I love this community, I want to see it Thrive. Tell me about your Goth Nights! Tell me about the oddities stores 2 cities away from you!

Now, that girl's Mother, on the other hand, said:

"You have a very Weird store. Very, very Weird. Disturbing."

I only replied,

"Thank you, My Boss does love her store."

5 year old girl just now:

"Ummmm I have a question. Did you grow your beard yourself, or is it fake?"

"Oh, I grew it myself."

"That's really cool, I love it."

"Awwwww, thank you, I appreciate that!"

Actually I'll never forgive Punk Rave and Killstar and fast fashion brands for tricking people into thinking that being goth or punk or emo is expensive. Babygirl the only goth brand names you need to know are Rit, Good Will, Etsy, and Studs and Spikes, we used to shove safety pins through our ears and then they started selling earrings that look like safety pins for 15.99. We used to dye thrifted wedding dresses black and they started selling gothic gowns for 300 bucks. We used to put studs on boots we found in the back of the good will and they started making Demonias. DIY or die wasn't perfect it can be exclusionary to disabled people but whatever the fuck we've got going on right now is so much worse. It's not any more inclusive to the disabled and it is exclusionary to the people who made punk, to the people who made goth, to the people who made emo. If you've got the funds and you don't want to do diy pay someone else to do it for you but please let it be a small artist or a friend not some guy in a suit who's made it his business to gentrify punk. You can turn flats into platforms with flipflops, hotglue and gumption don't let anyone tell you different.

Creatures of the night

please don’t spend your life convincing yourself that love or joy is reserved for the idealized version of you that only exists in the future

“My life is made up of ‘I’m sorry’. I feel like I have to apologize to people, to things, to life itself. It’s like, ‘I’m sorry to be here’. I don’t want to disturb anyone.”

— Yohji Yamamoto

Hey brain,

Can you PLEASE not think about if my partner would do for me what I'm doing for him?

I don't like that you're telling me no . . . .

@larrygorn I SPY WITH MY GOTHIC EYE SOMEONE'S FAVORITE SHIRT

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