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Do you support minor self diagnosis?

I started cracking my knuckles in fifth grade. My parents asked me why, and I told them it made the pain go away. My parents told me that I was too young for my joints to hurt, and that I would ruin them if I kept cracking them.

By the time was fourteen or fifteen and entering high school, I hadn’t stopped cracking my knuckles. The hurt more, and the relief was more. I was convinced that I had arthritis.

My parents told me that I was too young to have arthritis.

Fast forward thirty seven years when my joints take a dive and I cannot even get out of bed on some days. I take chemo therapy pills twice a week, and I have two injections of chemotherapy ever four months. I have to take two medications every day just to manage the pain the chemotherapy doesn’t cover.

This at least allows me to get out of bed and on most days it allows me to go to school. It doesn’t make the pain go away, and on bad days I want to cry it gets so bad.

The diagnosis? Early Onset Rheumatoid Arthritis.

It went unchecked for twenty five years, my immune system eating away at my joints like a buffet even though I wanted to go to the doctor from day one.

If I had gone to the doctor and I had been wrong - they found nothing - well, we would have been out a few bucks for the doctor’s visit.If I was right - and I was right - I would have been treated for 20 years.

If I had gone to the doctor on my insistence that I had arthritis at fifteen, I would not be in pain today. This would have been treated twenty years go.

Do I support minor self diagnosis?

Yes. Absolutely.

I would rather a minor self diagnose and be wrong than a minor ignore their body and suffer for 20 years like me. No one is harmed by listening to a minor and taking their concerns seriously. But that minor might be harmed for the rest of their life you ignore them.

My choice is always to listen to the minors about their bodies.

Update

I’m working on all the requests (slowly) but getting through them. 

Right now I’m a little busy with moving and ending this school year. Hopefully I’ll be able to not make you guys wait much longer though :)

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you know that character you love so much? (you know – the one from that movie you always watch when you’re feeling sad the one from that show you’ve seen so many times you can quote the episodes the one from that book or comic you’ve read more times than you can count) think about how much you resonate with them how they’re like a mirror image to the way you see yourself how they empathize with pieces of your soul in ways that a real life human cannot how they feel like a representation of you you see so much of yourself in them and you love them so much so why can’t you love you too?  if you can find it in you  to look past their flaws  and see gold shining in their cracks maybe you can do the same for yourself after all if your favorite character is a reflection of you, and you love them more than words can say maybe its possible for you to love you too

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Clingy Shuichi headcanons

Word count: 358

Authors note: Aaa clingy Shuichi is one of my favorite things so I really enjoyed writing this (Even I wish it were longer but I wasn’t sure how to do that without droning on) I hope you enjoy, though!

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Shuichi is definitely nervous to show PDA or even hug in public so usually when you’re out of the house the most that happens is he’ll hold your hand or maybe lay his head on your shoulder.

Not because he doesn’t want to, he just gets embarrassed to do that in front of others

He gets flustered very easily so if you kissed him in public he’d probably blush like crazy and go on autopilot for like 5 minutes afterwards

But when you two are at home or in private you can barely even breathe

He will almost constantly be holding you, kissing you, hugging from behind, nestling his head in the crook of your neck, and many other ways of (quite literally) clinging to you

He just really wants you to know how much he loves you and actions speak louder than words to him

He’s like a cat, honestly

If you’re sitting on the couch, he’ll flop down next to you and lay his head on your shoulder or lap

He’d try to let you have  personal space but if you’re also clingy or don’t mind having the constant attention from him, he’d go as far as sitting in your lap when you’re working or doing schoolwork

But he would really only do that if you guys have been apart for the day, unless you asked him to, of course

Don’t even get me STARTED on sleeping with this boy

Not like that.

You’d fall asleep normally cuddling, with just his arms wrapped around you, and wake up with his head on your chest, his legs intertwined with yours and his arms snaked around you, holding your hands

You’d probably be impressed and honored if it wasn’t so HOT

Like his body heat probably doubles when you guys lay like that

At least he’s comfy though

And he likes to cuddle for a few minutes before starting the day, and will often account for that

If he needs to wake up early for something, he’d probably set an alarm 10 minutes earlier than he needs just so he can get some extra conscious cuddle time 

There's a quiet love hidden in the question, 'Did you eat today?'. It's like a whisper in the dark. A whisper going..

'I hope you ate today, I hope you know I love you. I love you. I love you...'

-Ritika Jyala, excerpt from The Flesh I Burned

reblog and make a wish! this was removed from tumbrl due to “violating one or more of Tumblr’s Community Guidelines”, but since my wish came true the first time, I’m putting it back. :)

And then I act like it'll come immidiately even though I know it wont-

Masterlist [OUTDATED]

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~Danganronpa~

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~Mystic Messenger~

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