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Here's a list of important notes for tumblr usage:
Don't censor words, particularly trigger warnings. Tumblr has a very functional blacklist (found in your settings) that can filter by post content and/or tags. But the word needs to actually be present for the filter to work. Censoring words like r*pe is actively harmful to people attempting to avoid those topics.
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Set an avatar and reblog things, otherwise you look like a bot.
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Reblog things. Seriously. Also set your dash in chronological order. You can maintain several blogs if need be, but reblogging things is normal, expected, and how you pass along stuff you enjoy.
The majority of people aren't reading your card/dni/blog bio before they reblog stuff. Posts get passed around and the OP often isn't the focal point of the post. Learn to live with it.
Fic writers: you have unlimited words, do not post fics as images.
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You have a queue. This means you can set posts up ahead of time to run while you're busy. You can also completely ignore this and just spam your follows whenever you're online. Both are very commonplace
It's not weird to go through someone's blog and reblog old posts. That's actually very normal. If you add /chrono to the end of a tumblr page then you can view all the posts in chronological order to make this easier.
"Spam" liking and reblogging isn't a thing that is a problem. This is invented by people I do not understand. If someone claims this is a problem, they can learn how to turn off or manage their notifications.
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People lie on here for fun. Don't accept everything you see at face value, check the reblogs/replies or google something if you're skeptical! Critical thinking is good!
Above all else, be chill, use your block button if you need to, and have fun.
We do, in fact, have a snow day so I'm going to work on those requests in a little bit!
We might have a snow day tomorrow and if we do, then I promise I'll work on the requests in my inbox <3
Author’s Note: My computer has been acting up lately, and we’re moving soon so apologies if my posts get shorter or I go on a short hiatus for a bit. Please enjoy!
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At first he wants to cuddle you, but he’s afraid that you wouldn’t want him touching you, or that you didn’t like him anymore.
So he slept facing you, with about a foot of space between the two of you.
But when you convince him that you do actually want to cuddle, he will be pressed, as tightly as he can, against you
He might even put his feet underneath yours, because they’re cold
Or he’d have you lay on top of him, as another ‘blanket’
No matter how you two lay, he always wants your hand in his, if possible. Just to remind him that you’re there
And so he can feel if you’ve woken up, depending on the position.
He wants to be able to protect you in case anything happens, so he tries to lay closest to the door, “in case someone breaks in”.
However, that usually means that he’s the little spoon.
He enjoys feeling protected and loved by you though, so that’s not an issue for him, as long as you’re okay with it
If you move a lot, he’ll hug you tightly, and try to soothe you back to peaceful sleep.
And he’d know if you moved, because he’s a very light sleeper.
He usually wakes up before you do, or tries to, so he can make you breakfast.
But while you eat, he sits beside you, with his head on your shoulder; to make up for the cuddles he ‘missed out on’ while he was cooking.
During the day, if you two have down time, he’d suggest cuddling on the couch while watching something, or listening to music.
i think the funniest and realist thing i’ve realized lately is how troubling idealization can be. every person is just… a person. the very people you want to impress or be apart of are just people. even if they seem wildly intimidating because of the way they look or because of their reputation, every one is just a person. human. as embarrassing, as remorseful and they are going through stages of growth just like you are. we only see what we want to see and then drown ourselves further in our own depression and we don’t have to.
This no longer stands and I would LOVE for people to talk about all chapters of YTTD with me
Quick reminder(? New information?) to those of you who follow me,
I like Your Turn To Die and I dont mind talking about it, but I havent played 3B yet so just please dont send spoilers :)
Im trying to play it asap but Im trying to wait for the website traffick to die down a bit.
Hey love! Could I request some headcanons of Makoto and Hajime with an autistic s/o?
Totally cool if you’re uncomfortable with writing, I just thought it never hurts to ask! :3
Of course, lovely!
I want to look into it at least a little before starting though, so I can make sure not to misrepresent or just overall say something incorrect, hope you dont mind the bit of extra wait time for that :)
I'll be honest, I'm really happy you guys like my Nagito stuff (or at least the cuddling headcanons) because he's a huge comfort character for me and the fact that I can gush about him and people like it?
That means the world to me
Omg could I get 12 with Vanderwood pls pls!!
Yes absolutely! This will be my first piece about Vandy so I'm a little nervous but you got it!
Word count: 450(roughly)
Authors notes: I know its short and nobody asked but here's just a few headcanons for these boys :)
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Byakuya:
Notices that you’ve been distant
Would ask you what’s bothering you without beating around the bush
“I see. Well, if that’s how you feel then I guess I can’t stop you..”
Would just get up and leave without another word
Secretly he’s hurt of course but he knew he couldn’t change your mind
Wouldn’t call or text you after that, but wouldn’t block your number either; in case you ever changed your mind
After a few days, he'd send a maid to come grab the rest of his belongings
Makoto:
Would ask what’s wrong, but he would first give you the chance to bring it up
If you don’t bring it up first, he’d bring some of your favorite things and talk to you about what’s bothering you
If you do bring it up first, he probably gets really quiet
Afterwards he just sits quietly to process what you’d said
But once it sinks in, he’d try to talk it out with you and promises to be better
Unless you’re adamant about it and then he’d know when to give up
He would sleep in another room that night hoping you’d change your mind
If you tell him he needs to move out, he’d do it, but would call or text every once in a while to attempt to be friends at least
He would either send a mutual friend to pick up his stuff or would text you about the best time for him to grab it
Kokichi:
He’d tease you about being distant
"S/OOO why are you avoiding me?"
After you tell him that you want to break up, he’d go quiet for a minute
"You know I hate lies right..? Oh. You were serious.."
Gives you the silent treatment for a day or two to make you change your mind
If you don’t, he’d probably try to change your mind by saying you’re lying and that he hates lies and whatnot
But he’d still move out
While upset, would block you; At least for a little while
He'd know the times you're out of the house and would pick the lock to get his stuff
Unless he's feeling really petty and then he'd do it when you are home but would act as if you weren't even there
Nagito:
Would immediately notice something’s wrong, and would blame himself
He wouldn’t ask about it right away, but if you don’t bring it up he would come to you later and ask straight up
If you come to him first, he’d say something like “I knew you’d realize sooner or later how trash I am.”
Would probably pack a bag and leave, but come back later to sleep on the couch because he doesn’t have anywhere else to go
Lowkey always felt like this day was coming, but when you actually said you wanted to break up he’d down spiral
Would never bother you, but wouldn’t block you or change your contact information or anything
He'd just leave his stuff there unless he absolutely needs it, but he'd put it off as long as he can because he's hurt