I know there are many FLR couples that enjoy denying him orgasms. Many opt for a chastity device since it enhances her control and his submission, however, many couples may find that making him wear a cage, is a little extreme. Not to mention it can be a lot of maintenance, keeping up good hygiene, needing an emergency key everywhere in case it's not on properly.
Some just find chastity too much and prefer the honor system. That's totally okay too. However, there is an alternative to chastity that few people are aware are of, and it's just as effective as chastity is! Plus it has other benefits too!
Rather than cage his cock, how about making him wear a commitment ring? Basically a commitment ring is similar to a chastity cage, without the cage. It has a base ring, that goes around his scrotum which attaches to a smaller ring that goes around the base of his penis. It locks the same way a chastity cage does. But it does several different things.
First of all, it allows him to have erections. So he still has full access to his penis. But it comes with an extra bonus, the ring around the base of his penis, will actually make his erections stronger, and harder, but it also makes ejaculation more difficult as well! So it increases his stamina during intercourse, and can even make him last through her orgasm so he can remain denied. He can still cum with it on though, so use it carefully. It just makes ejaculation harder to achieve.
Since ejaculation is harder to achieve, it also means that he will never cum accidentally. The ring makes that near impossible. So if he does have an unauthorized release, it's because he made it happen. So she may act accordingly, and be completely justified (not that she needs to be justified).
There is another benefit to a locking commitment ring. It can be locked on 24/7/365. It's super easy to keep clean, since it's only two rings. It can be worn during sex too, so there's never a reason to remove it, except for medical reasons.
On top of that, it shows his dedication to her. Its like a wedding ring, it never comes off, and it reminds her every time she sees him, that he belongs to her, and her only. Because it would be quite difficult to explain to another woman what that locked metal ring is doing there. so it acts as a symbol of commitment and devotion to her.
It also keeps him very frustrated, since every time he thinks of her, he's going to get extra hard, and he's going to have to use all of his will power not to touch himself. She will notice a change in his behavior if he does cum, and he knows it, so there's really no point in disobeying and touching without permission.
A locking commitment ring is perfect for a FLR if you're not interest in chastity cages. So check one out if you want your sub to wear something dedicated to you. You can even put something like a dog tag on it, that says property of. Or use it to attach a leash. You get to be creative with it, and it never comes off him! It's perfect.
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A sexy Saturday.
We woke up early and decided to spend some time in bed, we stripped ourselves naked and she lay with her head on my stomach, she gently teased my cock while I played with her hair and we watched some Blacked on telly.
After a good while she asked me to choose another channel and I put a cuckold video on, she moved so I could slowly fuck her and she used a toy on her clit as we watched a hot wife tie her husband up and fuck a muscled, big cocked stranger. She came hard.
In the afternoon she asked me to run her a bath and asked me to shave and trim her pussy. She lay a towel on the bed and lay back with her legs wide open. I carefully cleared the hairs of her pussy lips and inner folds, then she held herself open while I gently rubbed her hard little clit until her breathing became heavy and her body twitched and jerked through an orgasm. She thanked me as she disappeared into the bathroom.
The feeling you get when you’re on your way home from work and you get a message from your wife saying you’re taking her out for drinks, but you need to wear your cock cage and some pretty knickers for her.
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It’s been quite hard since my op.
I’m still quite swollen, but it is getting better.
I had a bath yesterday and managed to get the back ring of my larger cage on.
It made me so hard I couldn’t even try and get the cage on.
It was just a bit too tight and a bit painful and it took a long time before I could get it back off.
It doesn’t look as though I caused any further damage, and I guess my wife really is right when she said it needs more time to fully heal.
My wife was complaining that she had been waiting nearly three weeks for a reply to an email. She said it was far too long a time to wait.
I couldn’t help myself and had to remind her that it’s been that long since she last unlocked me and let me cum.
She laughed and said that it’s different for me and that for my cage three weeks isn’t very long at all.
She is away this weekend Friday until Sunday, so I might even miss out on a date night and with helping her have an orgasm. If I’m lucky she may decide to use her toy one night this week after her evening foot rub and I can cuddle her and play with her nipples.