Nifragtumble - Nifrag

My wife bought me the cheap plastic cage for a Christmas present, she wasn’t too impressed as the back ring snapped after only a couple of overnights.

I bought myself a CB3000 rather than another cheap version.

The two cages are different, one thinner and longer, the other shorter but wider. But they both fit the CB back ring

If I’m wearing the pink cage I swap them over every few days as I find my skin pokes through the air holes and can get irritated after time.

I do like having my nails painted a pretty pink and shaving my legs and chest. A nice pair of knickers completes the outfit and no one would think once I have normal clothes over the top.

Got my fantasy head on today, just daydreaming about arriving on our holiday island, unpacking and relaxing with a nice cold beer.

Suddenly my wife spots another couple where the wife has a key on her necklace. She approaches and compliments her jewellery saying she thinks she has the same one….

As the wives chat they arrange to meet up that evening. We head back to our room and my wife tells me she packed my chastity cage and she has decided I’ll be putting it on straight away.

We head to the bar that evening all dressed up, both husbands sit in awe of the two sexy wives both with their keys on display. They chat about different ways to tease, how long and often they cage their husbands and then they agree to swap husbands for the night and to go to a club together.

I am left in another couples apartment, locked in a chastity cage waiting for a hot wife to get fucked by a stranger outside a club, knowing she will have me clean her used pussy afterwards. The key on her necklace won’t even open my padlock because it’s for a different cage, one which is locked on the man who is tongue cleaning my own wife’s cheating pussy.

8 years ago my husband told me he wanted to try chastity. I thought ‘that’s a little weird” but it also turned me on a bit. Once I got over my hang ups, I learned I loved locking him up! Why?

1) more frequent orgasms - every weekday morning after the gym and a shower, I have my husband give me an orgasm using his mouth, hand or vibrator. This has really kept me motivated going to the gym and that’s just my morning workday routine!

2) a faux dick - my husband has a strap on to wear when I’m in the mood to get fucked but I’m not ready to unlock him. The desperate effort he puts into those hips when he fucks me while caged is intense & the orgasms are unreal! One tip for the strap on, put the dildo in hot water first to get it to around 98.7 degrees for a more natural feel.

3) sex - when I unlock him and we make love he knows that he cannot cum before I do. Our love making is passionate and raw. After I orgasm, he will ask me if he can cum when he’s close. If he’s been really good, I’ll let him. Other times I’ll say ‘no’ and tell him to go lock back up. It’s so sexy to have him melting in my hands and lusting with desire for me after I deny him an orgasm.

4) handjobs - I love to unlock him and blindfold him so he’s not looking at me. I’ll grab the oil and rub his dick. I start slow with gentle strokes then move to faster, firmer strokes. I love listening to his breathing and watching his body moving with pleasure. I also love how hard his cock feels as I’m stroking him. When he tells me he is getting close, I remove my hands and let that feeling of about to cum go away. Then I’ll start again to bring him to the edge 2 or 3 more times. Many times I will stop before he cums and snuggle up to him, laying on his chest, listening to his breathing become less heavy and watching his erection go away. Then I’ll tell him to go lock up. The sexual power of doing this without an ejaculation keeps his hands all over me for days and days. I love that sexual control over him.

5) Rules - a popular question I have been asked on my Tumblr deleted account is if guys are allowed to ask be unlocked or to ask to cum? Some wives will say, ‘no’ they can’t ask and will extend the time to be locked. Others will say ‘yes’ because they want to hear him beg and they may or not release him. The rules should be clear. My husband has only asked to be released 2 times. Both went like this. Him: can you unlock me? It’s been so long. Me: [sad face] No. Sorry. [smirk] But now you’ll be locked up for 2 more weeks for asking.” I think I made myself clear - I decide. Another rule for my hubby is that he has to go to the gym at least 4 days a week for me to consider unlocking him, otherwise I will add more time. He’s lost just over 10 pounds and his starter 6-pack abs really contrast with his steel cage! Make sure he knows your rules and expectations either by your words or actions.

6) don’t let it get stale (teasing & denial) - if you have your man caged, you already love being in control. Do you know the most effective way to fuck with a man after locking him up? A constant effort to make his dick hard in the cage. That means teasing and it melts their f-ing minds! Wear revealing things. Brush your ass against his cage when you walk by. Tell him things you would do to him if he wasn’t locked. Grab his cage and tease him that his dick can’t get hard. The more you tease, the more rewards you get in the form of attention!

7) blurred edges - Do you have some chores that need to be done? Are there some habits you’d like for him to break? Is there a kink that you want to try out? You would be very surprised at what your husband is willing to do for you once he’s been locked up for a while, you just need to ask or tell!!

I find it calming when I’m locked, I can’t play with myself, so can focus on other things, and I’m getting much better at being patient and waiting for my wife to decide when she is ready for an orgasm.

I have tried to tell her that she can have an orgasm without unlocking me, but ultimately it is up to her.

I just find it difficult to lock myself back up the next day, and this is often why we stop playing.

I made a conscious choice a few days ago to put it back on as soon as I could after (she does want me to stay unlocked overnight after sex, sometimes because she will want sex again the next morning) I am going to see if I can just keep myself locked and see how long before she tires of the game, or if she just keeps going. It is only a few weeks yet, but we’ll see…