I find it calming when I’m locked, I can’t play with myself, so can focus on other things, and I’m getting much better at being patient and waiting for my wife to decide when she is ready for an orgasm.
I have tried to tell her that she can have an orgasm without unlocking me, but ultimately it is up to her.
I just find it difficult to lock myself back up the next day, and this is often why we stop playing.
I made a conscious choice a few days ago to put it back on as soon as I could after (she does want me to stay unlocked overnight after sex, sometimes because she will want sex again the next morning) I am going to see if I can just keep myself locked and see how long before she tires of the game, or if she just keeps going. It is only a few weeks yet, but we’ll see…
28 days later, four full weeks and one broken cage!
Just had the call from the Doctors, cancellation appointment available for a vasectomy tomorrow.
Unlocked and ready.
She has already asked how long will I need before it can go back on.
I asked if she would make sure I was drained before I go, I even offered to try for twice in one night.
I got a smile and “maybe” in response.