8 years ago my husband told me he wanted to try chastity. I thought ‘that’s a little weird” but it also turned me on a bit. Once I got over my hang ups, I learned I loved locking him up! Why?
1) more frequent orgasms - every weekday morning after the gym and a shower, I have my husband give me an orgasm using his mouth, hand or vibrator. This has really kept me motivated going to the gym and that’s just my morning workday routine!
2) a faux dick - my husband has a strap on to wear when I’m in the mood to get fucked but I’m not ready to unlock him. The desperate effort he puts into those hips when he fucks me while caged is intense & the orgasms are unreal! One tip for the strap on, put the dildo in hot water first to get it to around 98.7 degrees for a more natural feel.
3) sex - when I unlock him and we make love he knows that he cannot cum before I do. Our love making is passionate and raw. After I orgasm, he will ask me if he can cum when he’s close. If he’s been really good, I’ll let him. Other times I’ll say ‘no’ and tell him to go lock back up. It’s so sexy to have him melting in my hands and lusting with desire for me after I deny him an orgasm.
4) handjobs - I love to unlock him and blindfold him so he’s not looking at me. I’ll grab the oil and rub his dick. I start slow with gentle strokes then move to faster, firmer strokes. I love listening to his breathing and watching his body moving with pleasure. I also love how hard his cock feels as I’m stroking him. When he tells me he is getting close, I remove my hands and let that feeling of about to cum go away. Then I’ll start again to bring him to the edge 2 or 3 more times. Many times I will stop before he cums and snuggle up to him, laying on his chest, listening to his breathing become less heavy and watching his erection go away. Then I’ll tell him to go lock up. The sexual power of doing this without an ejaculation keeps his hands all over me for days and days. I love that sexual control over him.
5) Rules - a popular question I have been asked on my Tumblr deleted account is if guys are allowed to ask be unlocked or to ask to cum? Some wives will say, ‘no’ they can’t ask and will extend the time to be locked. Others will say ‘yes’ because they want to hear him beg and they may or not release him. The rules should be clear. My husband has only asked to be released 2 times. Both went like this. Him: can you unlock me? It’s been so long. Me: [sad face] No. Sorry. [smirk] But now you’ll be locked up for 2 more weeks for asking.” I think I made myself clear - I decide. Another rule for my hubby is that he has to go to the gym at least 4 days a week for me to consider unlocking him, otherwise I will add more time. He’s lost just over 10 pounds and his starter 6-pack abs really contrast with his steel cage! Make sure he knows your rules and expectations either by your words or actions.
6) don’t let it get stale (teasing & denial) - if you have your man caged, you already love being in control. Do you know the most effective way to fuck with a man after locking him up? A constant effort to make his dick hard in the cage. That means teasing and it melts their f-ing minds! Wear revealing things. Brush your ass against his cage when you walk by. Tell him things you would do to him if he wasn’t locked. Grab his cage and tease him that his dick can’t get hard. The more you tease, the more rewards you get in the form of attention!
7) blurred edges - Do you have some chores that need to be done? Are there some habits you’d like for him to break? Is there a kink that you want to try out? You would be very surprised at what your husband is willing to do for you once he’s been locked up for a while, you just need to ask or tell!!
I have published quite a few stories through Literotica which tell of the sex lives of Claire and her husband. Some of them are pure fantasy, others have more than a hint of truth. If you like it then please feel free to share this post. If you really like it then rate and comment on Literotica.
Claire told her husband to get undressed and to fix her a rhubarb gin and ginger ale. She told him she would be downstairs in a few minutes.
Upstairs she quickly strips herself naked, checking herself out in a full length mirror as she dresses in her outfit for the evening.
Firstly she fixed a long black wig over her short blonde hair before applying some mascara, dark eyeshadow and bright red lipstick to her pretty face, noticing how the darker hair and makeup make her appear even paler than normal.
Claire then rubbed her hand along her freshly shaved mound and smiled at how the feel of her own smooth skin sent electric sparks of excitement through her body.
She selected the special panties her husband had bought her several months ago. He had said at the time that he knew she would probably never wear them, but she had decided tonight would be the night.
The shawl was black and very see through and she fastened the silky ribbon around her large belly, knowing that the material would not hide much of her heavy breasts or the rolls of fat around her waistline.
She then picked up the last few items, laughing to herself at her husbands fantasy. He had called it his "slutty dream wife" outfit and Claire knew he would be blown away by it.
She stood and appraised herself, long black hair, a sparkly eye mask covering the top half of her face, with her dark mysterious eyes showing through the holes, dark red lipstick to match her nails, a silky black shawl wrapped around her fat body, black leather gloves and the outfit finished off by a pair of black high heeled shoes which made her calf muscles stand out. She felt her black knickers with the bright pink writing start to feel wet as she prepares to head back downstairs.
Claire entered the lounge and her naked husband hands her the drink she had asked for. The ceiling lights were dimmed and the fire was the main source of illumination. Claire sat on the leather couch and indicated for her husband to come and stand in front of her. She slowly sipped her drink as he ate up her body with his eyes, obediently standing with his hands behind his back.
Claire felt the sexual tension rising and reached her hand out to grip her husbands caged cock, pulling him closer towards her before gripping his balls and squeezing tightly, seeing his cock straining against the small metal cage as he tried and failed with his erection.
She hands him her glass to hold and then leans back into the chair, pulling the ribbon and opening the shawl to reveal her body to him. She retrieves the glass and then motions for him to kneel.
His face is now in eyeline with her pussy, covered by the knickers he had bought her, black and slinky, printed with bright pink letters "I keep my husband's cock locked"
She hooks a finger and pulls her skimpy underwear to the side, exposing her bald cunt to her husband. She reaches her hand out and has him lick one leather clad finger and then starts to rub her slippery slit. Settling on her hard clit she begins to masturbate, knowing his eyes will be fixed on her wet pussy.
After a few minutes of playing she motions again to her husband and stops her rubbing as she watches him pick up a large black dildo from the floor, he applies a coating of lube from a small bottle and then moves closer between her legs.
Claire shifts herself forwards and places her high heeled feet over his shoulders, spreading her legs wide and allowing him to line up the head of the realistic black cock with her sopping hole and slowly pushing it into her.
Claire makes her husband take his time fucking her with his fake cock, pushing the full ten inches deep into her over and over, slowly sliding the thick length of the hard black toy in and out, her moans mixing with the wet thrusts.
She watches his eyes which are transfixed on her stretched hole and the contrast between her pale skin and the dark toy as she starts again to circle her hard clit with a wet gloved finger, feeling her first orgasm of the evening start to build, knowing there will be more to follow.
She closes her eyes and enjoys her fucking. Her mind wanders to the other pair of knickers which he had bought her, "Hotwife! Return to husband full"
Claire will be leaving him locked and frustrated tonight, after all he did ask for this, and as her underwear says, she does keep her husband's cock locked!
Check out Nifrag on Literotica- this is one of my short stories…
She was sat on the couch, her short blonde bob framing her pretty face, her body is large and the black dress she wears is stretched across her large breasts and stretches again in places where her rolls of belly fat are testing the fabric. The long, floaty dress is pulled up above her knees, showing some of her shapely thighs, the pale creamy skin contrasting with the black outfit. She has one foot on the floor and the other is extended out to her husband who is slowly and carefully massaging her toes, rubbing each one in turn. She holds a glass of gin and tonic, taking the occasional sip as she relaxes.
He is wearing almost nothing, the small steel cage on his cock is considered part of his body now and the pale pink knickers are more for show as they hardly cover anything and are almost see through.
She finishes her drink and he takes the glass from her, heading to the kitchen to make another. When he returns she takes the glass and tells him to dim the lights. She slowly sips her drink before telling him to lie down on the floor.
She stands up and walks so her feet are on either side of his head, facing down his body towards his feet. She kneels down, trapping his arms under her legs, stopping him from moving, she then spreads out her black skirt to cover his head and chest.
He cannot see anything as she moves her body so that her pussy is just above his mouth and he realises she has no underwear on.
He breathes in her scent as he feels her lips touch his and he slowly begins to kiss and lick at his wife's fat pussy.
She moves her large sexy body around as he licks, making encouraging and contended noises and helping him reach the places she wants to feel his tongue.
Reaching forwards she pulls his caged cock from the pretty knickers and starts to gently squeeze his swollen balls, feeling his groans vibrate through her pussy.
He continues to explore her folds with his tongue as she plays, loving the mixture of pleasure and pain he feels in his trapped cock as he gets his wife wetter and wetter with saliva adding to her natural lubricant.
Suddenly she pulls away, leaning forwards until she can reach the padlock on his cage with the key on her necklace.
She carefully unlocks him and removes his chastity cage before settling back and pushing herself back onto his face and tongue.
She takes her time getting her husband hard, teasing with her hands while gently moving and rocking backwards and forwards on his mouth, pushing down on his tongue and letting him lick inside her as far as he can reach.
When she decides she has teased enough she lifts her large body and moves downwards until she has her pussy lips on his hard cock, she adjusts her skirt again to keep everything hidden from sight and then tells him that he must let her know when he is ready to cum.
She raises herself up and reaches under her skirt, gripping his cock hard and slowly pushing the head against her hot, wet entrance, smiling at his moans as she pushes down onto him.
He feels her move faster and faster and he frantically tries to get her to go slow, desperate to last longer, wanting his wife to cum first. But she ignores him and does not slow her pace. After telling her he cannot stop himself from cumming, he moans and grunts as he orgasms for the first time in weeks, his twitching cock flooding her pussy with his cum.
She quickly moves off him and turns around before moving back up his body so she is kneeing again over his face.
She bunches her skirts up above the rolls of her belly so that he can see her cum filled pussy being lowered onto his mouth and she can see his eyes widen as she looks down at him over her breasts.
He licks carefully at his cum which is leaking from between her puffy, swollen lips and he watches as she moves her fingers down to rub her clit.
He pushes his tongue as far into her as he can, tasting and swallowing mouthfuls of his bitter, salty sweet cum as he sees her fingers working faster and faster. She pushes down hard and cums loudly, telling him to keep licking.
Afterwards she stands and asks if he enjoyed eating his cum out of her cunt?
She says that his face looks too sticky to kiss and tells him to go for a shower and to get his little cock locked back up.
She sits back down on the couch and starts to sip her drink again. Her husband comes back downstairs a few minutes later, washed clean and with his cock cage back on, she carefully checks his cage and clicks the padlock shut before they cuddle up together on the couch.
Its so true
Feeling ready to be caged.
I want to be teased and denied again and again.
I want to lick her to orgasm while she strokes my hair.
I want to hold her and help while she touches herself, for us both to use our fingers to bring her to a loud climax.
I want to massage her feet while she wears just my key on a chain.
I want to watch her flirt and be flirted with, while she keeps me locked. For her to think about other men and tell me who she finds hot and why.
I want to be made to wait and wait before she allows me to make love to her, and then I want her to make me lick her clean afterwards.
I want her to dress me up, then peg me, telling me that I make a good girl.
I want her to choose a big realistic dildo and let me fuck her with it while she tells me how much she likes a good long fuck with a massive cock.
I want to know all her fantasies, and for her to feel she can act on them.
I want her to tell me that she might not want to unlock me again.
Tonight will be my 4th in my cage. I’m just waiting for her to come to bed, move her pillows to the other end, and let me massage crème into her feet while we relax.