Ninja-penguin-g - The Life

Aftercare is a requirement, not just an ‘option’ for you to decide whether to do it or not. ✌️

Here’s the thing that some people don’t seem to understand about sex & kink. You have to respect boundaries before you get to push them. You have to show people they’re safe before you get to make them feel scared. You have to respect people before you get to degrade them. You have to be normal with people before you get to be dirty with them. You can’t be skipping steps. Treating them like a person always comes before treating them like a toy.

any idiot can have sex. but can you make a woman feel safe? comfortable? appreciated? adored? can you support her at her worst? no? then stay the fuck away from her.

People may heavily disagree with this, but this also applies to not supporting albums or songs for political reasons. I really hate when people bully others for not being as politically active about certain messages.

I totally get that protesting certain people, businesses, and things is a way to get a message across. However, not all countries and people are as politicized as some. This also means that because some people are unaware, you aren't going to make the largest impact. Most of the regular community who are enjoying a kpop song even if they don't listen to kpop (or any other gener), will still listen and enjoy the song/ watch the video totally unaware.

Also, some people are incredibly politically active outside of their media consumption. For lots of people consuming media and art is a stress reliever. Pressuring people who probably care but don't have the mental effort for more, is kind of disgusting.

Not to mention that there are so many better ways to support movements than not listening to a song or album. Examples for the US: contacting a congressman or representative, spreading messages/accurate information (online or in person), going to physical protests (be safe), raising money for the movements/organizations that support the movement.

Stop bullying people for not supporting movements in the same way you do or because they don't support the movement. Okay, some people put better and more effort in other areas of their life.

(this is not to say that anybody that wants to support a movement this way is bad or wrong. If this is how you make your difference or if listening to a song makes you uncomfortable for some kind of reason, then don't. Feel free to even share why and share your (a) message about, but please stop trying to make people do the same thing you are doing.

Rant over.

Stay safe. Love lots! ❤️

this is your friendly reminder that you do not have to like or pretend to like each and every single one of your fave artists song/albums.

but that doesn't give you an excuse to be absolutely rude or bully the artists or fans who enjoy the song/album.

too many times today have i seen rude messages or comments about Namjoon newest album.

it takes more energy to be mean than it does to ignore or scroll.

ha?

every single person who reblogs this

every

single

person

will get “doot doot” in their ask box

Everyone raves about mean mommy dommes but i want a sadistic soft mommy domme. Like they arent super harsh with their words to me, they mix the degrading with praise. Their harsh actions with soft, sweet condescending words. I am too sensitive to be called useless,worthless, replaceable etc. I like being degraded and alittle humilation but i also like to know that i am precious to my domme, i want them to be possessive over me, be just theirs. Like:

" aww look at my pretty little slut, taking my cock so well" "aww i know it stings kitten, but mommy wants to stretch you " " oh, i know, you just want to cum, but mommy is having too much fun playing with you, and i do own you and your pretty little body after all " " mommy knows you cant breath smothered in her pussy baby, thats the point, silly girl, you can breath when mummy decides " "such a good girl for mummy, you can take one more....huh? no? Oh, im sorry darling, mummy wasnt as asking, she was telling you, sweetheart " " shush, honey, mummy is just using her pretty little fleshlight.....i know, you just wanna sleep, here, just relax and suck on my nipple, i will be done soon, mummy just wants to cum " "aww is my little kitten a masochist? Getting so wet during your punishments, you really are mummys perfect little girl, just look at those tears " " aww do the ropes sting? Maybe if you behave and stop fighting mummy and pulling on the ropes, it would stop hm? There you go, my dumb little kitten" "oh dont you sound so pretty when you whimper, did mummy hurt your nipples, pulling the chain? Good, dont worry, i will kiss you all better later,once you have learnt your lesson" "good girl, choke on my cock, it feels so good baby, forcing myself into your tight throat" "look at the mess you made honey, does mummy make you feel that good? "

normalize WOMEN kissing ME!!!!!

what would murder house have been without tate, moira, or violet?

Just an experiment. Reblog if you actually give a fuck about male victims of domestic violence and rape.

Of fucking course

What sick bastard doesn’t