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Can I just say something really quick;

I find it so disrespectful for parents to give their kids shit for liking Kpop. I really do. Liking Kpop is simply an interest that we have all accommodated for numerous reasons. & sometimes Kpop is the saving grave for people out there, so for parents to insult it really pisses me off. Parents don’t know everything, they don’t know our emotions, they don’t know how we think, so how the hell can they sit there and call us delusional/weird for liking a certain genre of music. Parents that say “So you like asians now?” “They look like girls” or “Why do you listen to Korean music?” are despised by me. Your family should support your hobbies and interests if it makes you happy, and it sucks when you’re afraid to share your interests in your own home. It’s like the family joke.

If you have parents like that, I know how you feel, I am sorry. 

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used to dream of outer space but now they’re laughing at our face, saying, “wake up, you need to make money.”

Hot take, since I'm on a roll.

If you're more concerned with cancelling Ateez then educating them and KQ

Or

If you're more concerned with them being 'cancelled' than blacktiny voices right now-

Congrats! You're both part of the problem!

Jumping to cancel someone when it comes to cultural appropriation instead of getting through to the companies/idols/stylists literally gets us nowhere. People will never learn why the fuck they're doing wrong if you yell at them and tell them they're wrong and dont tell them why or how. No one is obligated to pull out a history book every time shit like this happens, and as a black kpop fan, I'm just as tired as the next person that this shit keeps happening, especially a month removed from all the companies claiming they care about us and shit, but understand pulling the cancel card instantly isnt the way to go and we can get through to some companies when it comes to this issue.

On the other hand, yall babying Ateez and KQ and going "uwu no! Dont be mad! They didnt know!" Is just as fucking whack. Stop talking over blacktiny. You being more concerned with the small handful of Atiny "cancelling" Ateez (because lets be real, the majority of us aren't cancelling shit. We're emailing KQ and expressing disappointment and calling for education and change before this shit drops) or Antis (which why are yall listening to Antis more than Atiny? The mfs were trying to get BigHit to sue KQ over the fact that Ateez has a storyline for their mvs like three days ago, tf u listening to them for?) "cancelling" Ateez over listening and understanding why people are angry and how tired poc kpop fans are at this shit happening over and over and over again is hmmm 🤔🤨

People are allowed to make mistakes, absolutely. We learn and grow from them. But rushing to make it so people CAN'T learn or grow from their mistakes is just as bad as sweeping it under the rug and pretending people can't do any wrong. Cut it the fuck out.

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Resources for Male Victims of Abuse

How to Recognize Abuse

**Emotional Abuse of Men

**Sexual Assault of Men and Boys

**Men Can Be Victims of Abuse, Too

**Domestic Violence Against Men - Know the Signs

**Information for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse

**Help for Battered Men

**Battered Men, Battered Husbands

**For Male Survivors of Rape and Sexual Abuse

**Male Survivors of Incest and Sexual Child Abuse

**Help for Men Who Are Being Abused

Help Lines (Phone and Text Chat)

National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 (or 1-800-787-3224 for TTY)

National Dating Abuse Hotline: 1-866-331-9474

National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673

National Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1-800-237-8255

Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men: 1-888-743-5754 (US and Canada)

Hopeline Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1-800-784-2433

National Hotline for Victims of Crimes: 1-855-484-2846

National Human Trafficking Hotline: 1-888-373-7888

Polaris Human Trafficking Text Line: Text “BEFREE” to 233733

**1in6/RAINN Chat for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse

Support Groups

**1in6 Support Groups

Male Survivor Support Groups

Pandora’s Aquarium - Chat (includes chats specifically for men)

Pandora’s Aquarium - Forums (includes forums specifically for men)

How to Find a Shelter

Domestic Shelters Search (shelter locator with filters to find shelters specifically for male survivors)

SAFE (located in Austin, TX, but states they can help people find resources/shelters in their area)

How to Find a Therapist

**Male Survivor Therapist Directory

Mental Health Services Locator

Resources for and About the Abuse of Kids/Teens

Love is Respect Hotline: 1-866-331-9474 (Hotline for teens)

Darkness to Light Helpline (Sexual Abuse): 1-866-367-5444

Darkness to Light Text Line: Text “LIGHT” to 741741

ChildHelp USA National Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-422-4453

Children of the Night Hotline (Children in Prostitution): 1-800-551-1300

National Runaway Safeline: 1-800-786-2929

Covenant House Nineline (Homeless Youth): 1-800-999-9999

Stop it Now Hotline: 1-888-773-2362 (for adults concerned about the welfare of a child)

Jennifer Ann’s Group (for teens experiencing dating violence)

Other Resource Lists 

(While I tried to include the most helpful resources I could here (i.e., resources that lend themselves to one-on-one communication, individual reading, etc.), there are plenty of other great resources, including regional resources, listed in these links. Some of the resources are specific to men and others aren’t, but they are all helpful for male survivors.)

**Male Survivor (regional, international, and online resources)

**Husband Battering: Men and Domestic Violence

**Help for Battered Men: Online Resources

**Help for Battered Men: National and International Resources

**Help for Guys: Help for Victims (some resources for men, many general resources)

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