Relatable

Bought a whole bunch of plants to add to my collection

Frothing at the mouth….

Need more tattoos and piercings ASAP

New to Tumblr

My first official post! I've never used tumblr before, I'm happy to be joining the platform!

My bestie just told me I’m in a situationship. Help.

Reflecting

(TW // sexual coercion)

With all of the awful stuff happening on Twitter I recently read an article about sexual coercion on Planned Parenthood’s website, and a lot of the warning signs sounded very similar to something I experienced in a past relationship. There were constant repeated attempts to “convince” me to let them do something to me no matter how many times I said no. There was a lot of “Up-Negotiating” like waiting a year until or just sitting near their face with my legs open. I always felt incredibly guilty and uncomfortable for saying no to them so often and eventually one day I gave in because I had been broken down so much, I thought “I’ve said no so many times, I’m a bad partner, they want it so I can just get through it for them”, and then they proceeded to react with disgust when I finally gave them what they were badgering me for throughout our whole time dating. I’ve never let someone try to go down on me since then and it’s been so hard for me to accept that I was coerced by repeated badgering and pressure. I don’t harbor any deep-seated resentment since it took me so long to realize that this is what happened to me, I had a lot of time to process it and work through it in therapy. I wish this person a life filled with therapy and love.

✨Appreciation✨

Just a shoutout to my friend (I’ll call him Gamer, I’m sure he’ll know who he is) for reading like every post and providing the best commentary! He got a real good laugh from something I said in one of my very first posts, I’m glad I’ve managed to entertain him lmao.

in a relationship, you should be able to say, "this is the healthiest love I've ever experienced." if you can't say this, keep looking. - renuka i. chemistry is great, compatibility is great, love is great, but what we're looking for now is a relationship that nourishes your soul. one that makes you want to be the best version of you - for this person, and for yourself. do not settle. follow for more inspirational quotes @renukawrites

Outside Lands 2023!!!

I got to see Megan Thee Stallion!!!! :))

It's not hard to respect people's pronouns.

It doesn't hurt you at all to respect people's pronouns.

It's not hard to respect people's pronouns.

It doesn't hurt you at all to respect people's pronouns.

It's not hard to respect people's pronouns.

It doesn't hurt you at all to respect people's pronouns.

Prom Plans!!!

So prom is happening in a few weeks and I’m really excited! I asked my ex partner (I’ll call them Avery) a few weeks ago if they wanted to come to prom with me and they were really excited and said yes!!! :) Avery lives out of state and goes to college so this is the first time I’ll be meeting them in person for the first time ever (I’ve had FaceTimes with them and have seen their drivers license don’t worry lol), I’m really happy to get to finally meet them in person and share this night with them. Since we have a guest room in my house Avery will be staying overnight too!!! :)))