"Thoughts On Women?" Yeah Pretty Much Constantly

— Sylvia Plath, quoting an acquaintance in ‘The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath’

girls

being butch, to me, is so much more than being masculine presenting, wearing men's clothes, or having short hair

being butch is about being the man for women that men often fail to be, if that makes sense. it's holding doors open for women, it's telling women they're pretty, it's paying for dinner, it's opening the pickle jar. yes, for me that's also wearing men's clothes and boxers and sports bras and shaving my head, but it's being a gentleman, too.

i'm a cis woman, but there is nothing more i want to be than the gentleman for a woman. i want to have a femme girlfriend who i buy flowers for and compliment her makeup and walk on the street side of the sidewalk and be the big spoon and take up all of those traditionally male roles

they call me an undercover agent. the way i’m. under the covers :) cozy in bed :)

saw her selfie and I kissed my phone

take me to art museums and make out with me

the voices are getting to me (ovulation)

reminders for today:

if you or someone you know might need it in the next few years, purchase plan b. the shelf life of plan b is 4 years, and we might not be able to access it as easily as we can now in the days ahead.

if you are larger/plus size: go online and purchase ella instead of plan b. plan b is less effective if you aren’t under 160 pounds.

if you can, purchase books that project 2025 is looking to ban.

mass deportations are starting. if you see ice vehicles or agents, yell ice raid and la migra as loud as you can.

if someone asks who you voted for, keep your mouth shut. they’re fishing for traitors.

if anyone, anyone at all asks about your neighbors or their legal status in the us, you know nothing. don’t be the reason that their family is separated.

if anyone asks about your religion or lack thereof, keep it vague. this administration will look for any excuse to persecute you.

your friends are trans or queer? for the next four years they’re not. don’t expose anyone’s status as a trans or queer person to anyone else, even if you think you can trust them.

did someone you know get an abortion? no, they didn’t. they were never pregnant.

in short, don’t be a snitch, and keep to yourself these next four years. we’ll make it through this even if it seems hopeless at times.

this is all i can think of at the moment, but i’ll be adding on to this as the day continues.

we can survive this. we’ve survived before, and we’ll survive again.

fuck daylight savings

#ihateit#ihateit#ihateit#but I love farmers muah