For Sadurday

For sadurday

I just want you to know that I find it so sad that people lack confidence, both creators on Tumblr and "normal" people outside in the real world. Like baby who told you you were ugly/annoying/useless? That middle school bully barely had the IQ to form a coherent sentence and you still believe them? Your parents are too jealous and miserable of their own life so they put yours down and you let them?

Yeah its easier said than done to pull out of a web of lies that you heard all your life, I know that. I've been there. But it's not impossible, and you can do it.

I know you heard this tens of thousands of times, but it really is true: happiness starts with you. You control your own life and whether or not you listen to someone who's trying to tear you down, even if that someone is yourself.

So, please, get up, take those reigns of life back into your hands, straighten your back, and tell yourself you can do this. Because you can.

Also please please please learn to cut toxic people out of your life, and yes, that includes family. Being related by blood doesnt mean you owe them shit if they make your life a living hell; you choose your family. Choose the people that make you feel comfortable and loved, not scared and like you can never speak again.

I got you. Im proud of you. I care about you. And yes, I love you.

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4 years ago
MAGNA HAS WORDS OF WISDOM TO SHARE SO LISTEN TO HIM!!!! Staying Strong Is HARD Man So If Just Drinking
MAGNA HAS WORDS OF WISDOM TO SHARE SO LISTEN TO HIM!!!! Staying Strong Is HARD Man So If Just Drinking
MAGNA HAS WORDS OF WISDOM TO SHARE SO LISTEN TO HIM!!!! Staying Strong Is HARD Man So If Just Drinking
MAGNA HAS WORDS OF WISDOM TO SHARE SO LISTEN TO HIM!!!! Staying Strong Is HARD Man So If Just Drinking
MAGNA HAS WORDS OF WISDOM TO SHARE SO LISTEN TO HIM!!!! Staying Strong Is HARD Man So If Just Drinking
MAGNA HAS WORDS OF WISDOM TO SHARE SO LISTEN TO HIM!!!! Staying Strong Is HARD Man So If Just Drinking
MAGNA HAS WORDS OF WISDOM TO SHARE SO LISTEN TO HIM!!!! Staying Strong Is HARD Man So If Just Drinking
MAGNA HAS WORDS OF WISDOM TO SHARE SO LISTEN TO HIM!!!! Staying Strong Is HARD Man So If Just Drinking
MAGNA HAS WORDS OF WISDOM TO SHARE SO LISTEN TO HIM!!!! Staying Strong Is HARD Man So If Just Drinking
MAGNA HAS WORDS OF WISDOM TO SHARE SO LISTEN TO HIM!!!! Staying Strong Is HARD Man So If Just Drinking

MAGNA HAS WORDS OF WISDOM TO SHARE SO LISTEN TO HIM!!!! Staying strong is HARD man so if just drinking a cup of water takes every ounce of your energy then you better congratulate yourself seriously for doing so!!! Fight for yourselves and you’ll be able to overcome anything!! 💪💪💪🔥🔥🔥 Commission/gift from @//baptismbyluck & I to @//baptismbymagna (instagram) 💖💖💖💖

3 years ago

reblog to wish quackity a happy birthday

2 years ago
Happy Thursday The 20th

happy Thursday the 20th

4 years ago
Leader-Telegram, Eau Claire, Wisconsin, October 1, 1925

Leader-Telegram, Eau Claire, Wisconsin, October 1, 1925


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4 years ago

REBLOG IF YOU THINK IS OKAY FOR  A BOY  READ AND/OR WRITE FANFICTION

I’m trying to make a point to a friend

4 years ago

We Need to Talk About Engagement

No, I don’t mean that step you take in the pursuit of marrying someone.

I mean interaction. Messages and reblogs.

A couple months ago, there were posts circulating about how the like to ratio reblog was unfair because likes do not give writers the opportunity to be seen where reblogs do. Once enough people reblogged this or added to it, engagement went way up and the ratios were better and people were sending messages and replying to fics about how much they loved them!

Then, it seems, everyone went “I did my part” and gave up on it.

Engagement seems to be at an all-time-low; the like to reblog ratio seems to be gapped even wider now, people are hardly sending messages in, and heck people are even reading fics without even LIKING them.

I thought it was me at first and that everyone grew bored of my writing, but then my friends said they weren’t gaining much attention either or they were no longer receiving many asks. And then posts about it started popping up about how engagement was down 50%.

Why? What is so bad about reblogging a fic or replying to it? We write for ourselves, but the sweet comments and messages make it worth putting out there for people. Seeing people simply like it or pay no mind to it is very discouraging.

Here are some things you can do to help engagement go up that are barely any effort on your part and are very appreciated:

Reblog a fic if you like it. You don’t even have to say anything if you are allowing other people the chance to see it.

Send asks. Comment on your reblogs if there’s something for you to say. Reply to the post. Put things in the tags bc we go and read them!

Popular writers; if you see a fic and you enjoy it, you should reblog it. If you have a nice following, they should be seen just as much as your fics should be, especially if written by a smaller writer.

Even if all you want to do is DM someone to tell them how great their fic is, that’s wonderful!

I understand there’s some inferiority/superiority thing on here where bc someone’s writing is popular they seem intimidating, but we LOVE COMMENTS. WE LOVE ASKS. IF SOMEONE DOES NOT LIKE THESE THINGS THEN THEY ARE A JERK WHO YOU SHOULD NOT SUPPORT THE WRITING OF.

Please just tell us what you’re thinking even if it’s “sdfoisjdfaslk” bc we really appreciate it and it makes us WANT to keep writing and showing our work.

The lack of interaction from people and the amount of silent readers who do no more than like is so discouraging to us and I think that’s kind of obvious across the platform, so PLEASE, do not be afraid to tell us what you think of the fic and to reblog it.

3 years ago
Heart Attacks Symptoms Are Different For Women. I Recently Learned This. 

Heart attacks symptoms are different for women. I recently learned this. 

4 years ago

cultural posturing elves with superiority complexes are way out, now we’re doing elves who literally cannot stop adopting other species and imparting elvish wisdom on them

because elves have a very low fertility rate to counterbalance their remarkable longevity, to the point that childbearing elves are lucky if they’re able to get pregnant, say, more than twice a century

but some elves just want to Nurture and they’ve noticed that adoption is a pretty sick deal, and that their human neighbors in particular always seem to have a veritable cornucopia of orphans sitting around in need of shelter and food and loving guidance and someone to teach them the finer points of communing with nature. 

elves reaching out to their human neighbors nervously for guidance because their beautiful adopted human son has decided he wants to get married but he’s only 25, he’s only completed one apprenticeship, he’s so young, is that really normal? are they sure? are they sure sure?

a 400 year old elf eagerly introducing her friends to her younger siblings: a 100 year old elf, 55 year old human, 27 year old tiefling, and 12 year old human. 

elf parents spending centuries proudly maintaining large and convoluted family trees where some of their great grand-kids are older than their most recently adopted children. elves highly prizing sprawling systems of family that span species and culture and share everything they can with each other. 

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